I read in many places that the size of a mans penis is only important when it comes to having sex with a partner, and then only the erect length is what matters, so many would argue by saying that a short soft penis dosen't matter, and as long as it's long enough for penetrative sex it's ok and any extra is a waste. But what about us guys who just want to be bigger for the sake of showing off? We are not understood by socitey! I don't care if i never use mine for sex ever again, but that dose not mean i don't care about it's size hard or soft, i love to show a good package in tight jeans, and actuarlly feel indequate if my buge is not showing, so i rarely wear lose clothing, so for me being big when soft matters more than when its erect. This has got to be a personal issue or some sort of self confidence issue as i have noticed that showing off a bulge seems to do nothing to attract others (male or female in my experience) in fact it seems fround upon especially by women, who automatically brand men who show a package as gay, any ideas why? women seem to get away with showing their breasts and even getting implants which all seems acceptable in society, yet when a man says he's too small, all we get told is "as long as you can penetrate it dosen't matter" well it matters to me! what about you, how do you feel about this?