why do they keep asking if we'd date xxx man or the man with the big todger?

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I think Hickboy and Not_Punny covered it. Some insecure guys really are clueless about females or relating to others. They have shallow suspicions of how the world works.

Anonymity on an internet forum gives the opportunity to ask women stuff they'd be too embarrassed to ask women they know.






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I think Hickboy and Not_Punny covered it. Some insecure guys really are clueless about females or relating to others. They have shallow suspicions of how the world works.

Anonymity on an internet forum gives the opportunity to ask women stuff they'd be too embarrassed to ask women they know.

I think it goes beyond simple insecurity and hints at a form of cyclical reinforcing of insecurity. Insecurity generally feeds upon itself, wherein the paralysis of fear creates anti-social behavior which eventually validates and amplifies the fear which led to the initial insecurity.

Confidence, similarly, works in the same manner. Confidence brings about success and social worth, which itself validates confident behavior.

Switching between the two, however, is difficult. Rational individuals recognize their long history of failure. Confident people recognize their long history of success. It isn't natural to rewrite all of your coping mechanisms to social situations at whim.

So what to do?

For the guy with the silly face and slight shyness, why not attempt to latch onto a woman's affidavit that she would value his sex in order to gain some confidence, and hope that the slight light at the end of the tunnel snowballs into a real personality change? If that's the case, success! If not, oh well, nothing lost. Still insecure.

If that's the case, I'm not sure what the proper response is. On one hand I'd like to help the guy find some modicum of happiness, but at the same time I really dislike lying. I do know, however, that if the actual source of the behavior is insecurity, then savaging the class of people that acts in that manner will only feed their need and will produce more twisted bullshit moving forward.
 

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I've met people like that, they're uhhappy and always have been so they can't imagine anything different and they don't bother trying things that might actually lead to happiness. It's easy to understand why someone would want to just take the money when they don't understand how much happier taking the love makes you.

Bah, emotions. Id be more than willing to marry some old rich women whom I hated because it is a means to an end. I would be able to help my family members who are currently in some sort of trouble and give my children the ideal life I have always wanted for them. Little bit of sacrifice for that? Id take that deal.


Relationship experience ill give you but it is presumptuous to bring up life experience
 

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I've met people like that, they're uhhappy and always have been so they can't imagine anything different and they don't bother trying things that might actually lead to happiness. It's easy to understand why someone would want to just take the money when they don't understand how much happier taking the love makes you.
what's sad is that to try to convince the rest of us that we're the same and that the happiness we seek/find isn't real.
 

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Its really easy to avoid something if you don't have an answer. But when it all comes down to it you're on a site dedicated to large penises. Theres tons of other sites for normal discussions or relationship advice and even sex in general. However, you're on this one. So I ask again, why are you here?
'why are they so obsessed with their penises we care about other things'
With so many size queens here and the stories I read on here(true or not). Faking orgasms and not seeing a guy again or turning him down because his dick wasn't big enough to satisfy you...
Why do you think we care so much?
Some of you act like we do all of this for ourselves lol. If guys with a 1incher could make anyone have an orgasm with his dick nobody would be complaining. Its all for the partner. Enjoyable sex for both can make any relationship that much better.
 

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what's sad is that to try to convince the rest of us that we're the same and that the happiness we seek/find isn't real.

I guess misery loves company. It's easier to try to convince everyone they're miserable too, easier to say it's the world's problem than your own personal one.
 

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i find myself wondering if you had a name before this one...

I think it is safe to say he has.

People who want to believe that all members of this site are here because the almighty cock is all important refuse to accept that there are many ways other than hunting the large cock to come by (no pun intended) this site. They also seem to want to believe in a world where everything can be ascribed to a simple set of rules. E.G.: Man with big cock and $100,000pa income, trumps man with average cock and $120,000 but man with average cock and $500,000 trumps them both! News flash, life is not a game of Top Trumps. We are each playing by our own set of extremely complex and ever changing rules. Some of us aren't even clear on what are own rules are, never mind other people's.

In this thread we are discussing men who want to find out what their Top Trump cock points are in relation to other people and one other Top Trump category. Telling them that the scoring system not only differs from woman to woman but that it relies far more heavily on things that cannot be easily and definitively quantified only results in them getting angry and calling us liars. There's no point in trying to figure out WHY they do it, knowing why wouldn't stop them doing it and I don't think it'd make it any less irritating. The best we can do is recognise when it is being done and refuse to engage.
 

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i'll pretend to be convinced you're a n00b.

the 'stories' you read on this site are mostly from unverified women who avoid the women's issues forum. that should be a clue.

the female women here, posting here on women's issues, are here because we wandered in and liked the regulars and the vibe enough to stay.
you'll find more than one who came here because their guy was too big for comfort and they wanted advice & support.
some were introduced by a large lover.
i came here because i wanted to know if there was an official world record. i wouldn't want a man bigger than 7 1/2, because that's pain in a bad way.

assumptions, assumptions, assumptions.
 

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In this thread we are discussing men who want to find out what their Top Trump cock points are in relation to other people and one other Top Trump category. Telling them that the scoring system not only differs from woman to woman but that it relies far more heavily on things that cannot be easily and definitively quantified only results in them getting angry and calling us liars. There's no point in trying to figure out WHY they do it, knowing why wouldn't stop them doing it and I don't think it'd make it any less irritating. The best we can do is recognise when it is being done and refuse to engage.
top trumps? LMAO!

but i beg to differ. knowledge, whether is changes anything or not, is a point worth pursuing...unless it involves sport.
 

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Again the simple question was ignored and will probably remain so.
Why are you here?
Since money doesn't seem to be an issue we can all assume every woman here would be satisfied with a guy making 20k a year with a 3inch penis. Right?
 

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This is awesome and I'm sad that the people who need to hear it probably won't understand it. Some guys are really mathematical and they think everyone else is too.

I think it is safe to say he has.

People who want to believe that all members of this site are here because the almighty cock is all important refuse to accept that there are many ways other than hunting the large cock to come by (no pun intended) this site. They also seem to want to believe in a world where everything can be ascribed to a simple set of rules. E.G.: Man with big cock and $100,000pa income, trumps man with average cock and $120,000 but man with average cock and $500,000 trumps them both! News flash, life is not a game of Top Trumps. We are each playing by our own set of extremely complex and ever changing rules. Some of us aren't even clear on what are own rules are, never mind other people's.

In this thread we are discussing men who want to find out what their Top Trump cock points are in relation to other people and one other Top Trump category. Telling them that the scoring system not only differs from woman to woman but that it relies far more heavily on things that cannot be easily and definitively quantified only results in them getting angry and calling us liars. There's no point in trying to figure out WHY they do it, knowing why wouldn't stop them doing it and I don't think it'd make it any less irritating. The best we can do is recognise when it is being done and refuse to engage.
 
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Sorry dolf i didn't see your response till now, however You're here complaining about penis size questions on this type of board to me its quite ironic.
Also wanting to know a world record(I suppose you mean the biggest) seems like an interest in large penises to me.
Sorry, I'm not convinced. Take it as you will.