Why do we care?

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  1. Mikeynine

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    Hi guys....I'm like the rest of us here. I like measuring, comparing, studying, thinking about, talking about and admiring my nice penis! BUt whenever I read te threads on this site I wonder....why do we care so much? It's certainly not because our partners will like us more, because that's a very small minority of people. Do we feel more dominant? Do we consider it a surrogate of our abilities in this world?

    What do you think?
     
  2. Pecker

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    I think as little as possible, it gives me a headache. But doesn't a guy identify with his prick? Doesn't he peek at the urinal or in the shower to size up the competition?

    Like it or not, sizewise, the only way to be sure, in comparison to others, is to measure it. It's inborn in a guy to be admired by other men for his size.

    Then he goes on a date and has to hope that to her, size doesn't matter. :biggrin1:

    Welcome, Mikey!
     
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    It's a good question, lol. In real life I'm a crazed assworshipper...a butt like Lex's makes me so hot my knees tremble and my breathing becomes faster! But vids, pics, hung exhibitionists online turn me on and make me fantasize about cock worshipping that I haven't done very much in real life. That's why I like this site, Alphacocks, some yahoo groups, etc. I guess the only cock I've ever really loved is my OWN!
     
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    i may be totally mistaken but guys with bigger dicks are more self-confident and it's always nice to be better (in this case bigger) than others, isn't it :biggrin1:
     
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    I think it's a manifestation of men's essentially competitive nature. We all seem to want to know how we stack up by objective measures like salary, educational attainment, athletic feats, etc., and this seems to be a straightforward, (in theory) easily measurable way of establishing yet another pecking order. Absent any other widely accepted, objective means of evaluating male bodies -- beauty being in the eye of the beholder, and all that -- I think a lot of men use penis size as a proxy for broader physical appeal.

    Just my $0.02 ...

    Steve
     
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    Yeah, i agree...:biggrin1:
     
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    I think generally its taboo to talk about sex and size, and for a guy to admit he's big and proud of it is an overact of the ego but this place allows everyone to talk about the so called 'taboo' and not be judged or critised, weather it be size, orientation, postions or anything
     
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    well, speaking for myself i don't particularly enjoy measuring, comparing, studying, thinking about, talking about and admiring my dick. i do like using it quite a lot, though
     
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    According to me, i do the same... I prefer to use it a lot, i don't like too much the comparations, studies etc... However is beautifoul to know that i am on the cirlce of the "well endowed".:smile:
     
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    You need to take a peek at Novice_btn, he's a hottie! My knees always give in when I see him 'on the bed.'
     
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    Hey! Hey! Hey!!! I just stumbled across this thread, and I find you talking about me??? Wait, I don't even know you. I usually have to pay people I chat with, to say nice things about me. What's with the unsolicited praise? And how am I supposed to slink around on here unnoticed with you telling people to look at me? :tongue:

    Oh, and THANKS! :biggrin1:
     
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    Oh, just roll over and give up your ass now, novice. :rolleyes:
     
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    Alex, I've been waiting face-down, and ass-up, since the first time you told me. Jump on me, already, would'ya? :rolleyes:
     
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    Well, cocks are interesting. There you have it.

    And I think it's hard-wired in many of us to respond to size when it comes to certain body parts.
     
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    Yes, in Alex's case, I'm after his big brain, and his big cock is just an added bonus.

    Fully back on topic... It may be anecdotal, but I've noticed the same as the above, and that is that guys I've known that exuded an inner confidence, and that I later, for whatever reason, saw nude, ended up being BIG.
     
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    Well said, Matthew. Actually I'm with that camp of guys who doesn't constantly measure my dick (perhaps because I'm average, I know it, so why keep measuring it...hehe) and I'm proud of what I've got. I find cocks fascinating, as I do clits, and vaginas, asses, prostates (I guess), masturbation, orgasms, sex, the whole she-bang. I hope I'm not obsessed...I don't *feel* obsessed:)



     
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    I started measuring mine for exactly that reason, I was concerned with whether or not I would be able to please any partners I may have. It was the focal point of my insecurities when I was younger. I like talking about it because it demystifies it, makes it somehow more tangeble.
     
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    It has a lot to do with psychiatric stuff, its a need to be more dominant or manly, as men we see a big dick as showing us to either have more testosterone or more manliness and thus making us the alpha male of a group. It is sort of primeval need to be the bigger, because like in dinosaurs, usually the male with the longest neck in the brachiosaurus was the alpha male, which can be made to believe that the bigger the phallus the more dominant.
     
  19. Mikeynine

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    I think Steve26's analysis is a good one...we often do look for ways of outdoing our peers. However, penis size is a relatively private measure (except for sites like these) so perhaps it's really to escape feelings of public insecurity and knowing that, "despite whatver happens out there...my dick is bigger"
     
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    I'm always paying you compliments. You don't chat with me. Perhaps you could save some money by chatting with me.
     
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