Why do we prefer to show boners instead of flaccid cocks?

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Dear friends. I was always curious about why do most guys hesitate to show off softies? Do we want to prove our power or somewhat else by that? To my mind, it's very natural and nice to show off a flaccid cock. If it's uncut it's easier to enjoy foreskin.
 

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Cool avatar dude! Flaccid penises don't really get much respect on here.I think most people on this board are Americans and in America,foreskin is generally frowned upon and hard uncovered penises are celebrated.Of course there are exceptions,but I'd say 90% of posters prefer seeing a hard,uncovered penis/head as it puts everything out there and leaves nothing to the imagination.I prefer flaccid myself.
 

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You're kidding, right? The answer is obvious: the erect penis is twice as big, and in some cases three times as big, as the flaccid penis. I'm about six and a half inches erect, which makes me about three inches flaccid. On a cold day, I am probably about two inches flaccid. Do you think I want people thinking I have a two-inch penis? Not likely.
 

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You're kidding, right? ... Do you think I want people thinking I have a two-inch penis? Not likely.

Well, I am not kidding. But I guess people think too much about the size... Should it be stressed all the time? Why not the form or... ?
Mine is 6,5" as well but I don't mind showing it cold-shrinked at all. I don't care what if it "doesn't meet someone's requests". It's worth of celebrating anyway. Fuck the stereotypes! That's my IMHO.
 

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Actually, Flaccid is my favorite kind of pic! :biggrin1:
But, I do believe that Henry is close in his reasoning. Most want to show as big as they can (some even bigger than they are :rolleyes:) and so hardons are the majority of pics shown.

There's actually a Flaccid Lovers Group here :smile:
 

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I personally prefer flaccid shots. However, I think people want to show their penis at its biggest. This website is about penis size, so it's logic that people want to see and show big penises. That's why they prefer to show erections. Moreover, erections show the 'power' of the penis and leave nothing to imagination.
Maybe there's a second explanation : there are more large hard penises than large soft penises, and posters want to show where they are over the norm, so they tend to post hard pics.
 

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I love them all, soft, semi, and hard. But the boner stresses function and for any cock lover it's all about function. The penis can't perform it's sexual function unless it's hard, so we put an emphasis on hard penises over soft. Kinda like why do body builders always flex their muscles when they pose for photographs?
 

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heck, flaccid, boner, cut, uncut i just love the penis, so whatever you have, i say "bring it!"
 
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Personally I find the cock amazing in it's different states, from flaccid to hard all in between. It's pretty obvious though that the erect penis has a lot stronger sexual appeal (for most). : )
 

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OK, guys, I can't understand such stress on the FUNCTION. We can admire flowers because they are beautiful. Probably the FUNCTION of flowers is not just being beautiful, so should we thing first about honey looking at them? If yes, who do men present women not honey but flowers?
 

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I've arouse enough to post when I'm erected.
In flaccid, is a good deal to go for work. *** You can see in my album A man in a shirt that I can't going on my work. ***
Is that an acceptable reason? ..
 

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However you prefer it. ;)
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for me it's because I am a substantial grower and my flaccid cock isn't all that impressive...but when that thing fills with blood; it's much better