why do white girls like black guys

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although, if you find something offensive it is important to let your voice be heard. however, the important part is the way in which you 'speak-up'. name-calling and bickering (whether you’re initiating it or responding) isn’t going to get you very far; however, speaking civilly, will get further.


you’ll also find that if the situation seem to be
escalating, addressing your concerns in a PM will help things to run smoother.
 

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"Why do white guys like black guys?" (I had to alter the title line a little to fit me.) When I came to the US in my twenties I was totally taken in by all the black guys here that looked so different from everybody back in Sweden. (Remember, it was in the sixties...) It didn't take me long to hook up with my first lover, and we had 23 1/2 years of sheer happiness together (until the plague took him). So in my case it was curiosity and adventurelust that guided me and led me to a great life. Remember that us gay guys don't get to satisfy our curiosity and adventurelust from just any gay guy (he often looks the same). A straight girl gets it from any guy, since he is ipso facto very different from her, regardless of the color.
 

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Good morning,

Before I begin this post, I am giving a caveat that this comment is coming from Naughty, the member , not Naughty, the Moderator. I think it is important to make that distinction because as a moderator things that I may say can be interpreted by fellow members as having more gravity than if I were to still be a regular member.As a member of African American descent, I can no longer sit back and not respond. That being said, I have endured a mind numbing weekend reading posts that have been quite disturbing to me. I did not post because I felt it would have been personally exhausting and I sadly didnt see where those who held certain beliefs would be likely to cease and desist even if I did add my two sense worth. So, I sat back and watched while the cyber battles regarding race and privilege ensued.
A thread that began as a reaction to a very nasty barrage of racial epithets from a now banned member in the "Alpha Male " thread, quickly devolved. It morphed into an absolutely surreal series of tantrums by certain members and then subsequent attempts at appeasement by some of the very individuals who, in my humble opinion, should have received apologies.WHen the thread was closed by one fellow mod, I initially breathed a sigh of relief . But then after many appeals by members , it was reopened in the hopes that it would eventually burn itself out and members would move on...
Unfortunately, not only did it spawn other look alike threads, but other threads which sent a decidedly "in your face" message.The final straw for me was to see very insensitive comments coming from the keyboards of individuals who I had previously considered of good will which totally flew in the face of discretion. In the light of such a volatile atmosphere where racially ambiguous comments could be considered insulting, I can only be led to conclude that the message being sent is tantamount to, dare i say, verbal abuse. How many men and women have been subjected to hurtful comments, only to be told when confronting the perpertrator, "WHy are you getting so upset ? I was only joking! "
What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. We all have times when we wish to just "Let her rip" and say whatever comes from those cracks and crevices of inner darkness that we harbor against one another. However, as human beings we do have the opportunity to take a higher road.I am not going to mention any names because I think it will only cause more negativity, but we all know who we are and what we have said. Please before you exercise your right of "Freedom of Speech" think about how you personally might react if the tables were turned. It is never in good taste to say or do things which may cause personal harm or injury to others.NO one of us has rights that are inherently greater or of more value that others. Just as the woman who asks her husband if she looks fat in a dress, ( knowing that she looks too fat in the dress) , when you only buy one ticket dont expect to win the jackpot! We all know when we are wrong, but whether we care may be another matter all together. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words might make me LOSE MY MIND,UP IN HEAH!

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For years i wanted my wife to try black cock but she doesnt know it.Yes its the size thing and taboo thing.I have also sent pics of black dicks to her email using another email account so she would know its me.She has never mentioned anything about ever receiving black mens penis pics.Im sure its her secret and is enjoying them.I just hope one day that i can let this really happen.
 

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winnipegguy said:
For years i wanted my wife to try black cock but she doesnt know it.Yes its the size thing and taboo thing.I have also sent pics of black dicks to her email using another email account so she would know its me.She has never mentioned anything about ever receiving black mens penis pics.Im sure its her secret and is enjoying them.I just hope one day that i can let this really happen.If you have great pics of black men send them to her email fr2isson@hotmail.com maybe it will encourage her to try it. :smile:

Maybe it seems even worse because your post follows on immediately after Naughty's highly eloquent overview of this past weekend's frankly unsettling events on LPSG... but could you possibly be any more distasteful in your choice of moment to offload this collection of stereotypes about 'race and penis size', and about interracial relationships being 'taboo' and 'exotic'?
 

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alex8 said:
Maybe it seems even worse because your post follows on immediately after Naughty's highly eloquent overview of this past weekend's frankly unsettling events on LPSG... but could you possibly be any more distasteful in your choice of moment to offload this collection of stereotypes about 'race and penis size', and about interracial relationships being 'taboo' and 'exotic'?
Not the mention the fact that the given e-mail address is either his personal address, or the address of someone he's trying to flood with porn (and SPAM about Viagra and penis enlargement pills - this is the internet).
 

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alex8 said:
Maybe it seems even worse because your post follows on immediately after Naughty's highly eloquent overview of this past weekend's frankly unsettling events on LPSG... but could you possibly be any more distasteful in your choice of moment to offload this collection of stereotypes about 'race and penis size', and about interracial relationships being 'taboo' and 'exotic'?
No i was not trying to be racist or making stereotypes comments. I was stating that i would love seeing my wife with an endowed black male . Can we not like certain preferences without been call ed discriminatory anymore. Wanting my wife with a certain guy is no different than guys who go for big breasts on a women .
 

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winnipegguy said:
No i was not trying to be racist or making stereotypes comments. I was stating that i would love seeing my wife with an endowed black male . Can we not like certain preferences without been call ed discriminatory anymore. Wanting my wife with a certain guy is no different than guys who go for big breasts on a women .

You are not stating an asthetic preference. You are reducing an entire grouping of men to one body part. You said it was "the size and tabboo thing", but refuse to see that attraction based on stereotyping is bigoted, attraction based on tabbboos and mores is bigoted, and that defending bogoted actions and thought processes makes you a bigot. It's okay to be a bogot. It really is. Just don't hide. That's sleazy.
 

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naughty said:
What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.... However, as human beings we do have the opportunity to take a higher road ... Please before you exercise your right of "Freedom of Speech" think about how you personally might react if the tables were turned.

Naughty, thank you for your thoughtful and heartfelt post. It's so easy for us to make an offhand joke about someone else, and when they get upset, to say "lighten up!" or something to that effect. But then all of a sudden when the tables are turned and we're the subject of the joke, we get enraged.

What scares me is I see fewer and fewer people in the world at large as well as at LPSG who are able to understand that double-standard.
 

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Lex said:
Race is SO been there, done that Matthew--get with the program!

We are onto Fags and Dykes now. Like you and me and Bronxy.

Sigh.

Sorry Lex, you know I'm a little slow.

So the new question we're supposed to answer is why do white girls like Fags & Dykes?
 

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Shelby said:
Not all men wish to perpetuate the macho, cave man, dominant male image.

Pussywhipped spineless punks have righrs too.

In order to have me in context, you must read in its entirety the post to which I was responding. I make no mention of men who are macho, vs. men who are more sedately masculine. I refer only to the type of man being discussed by the other poster, who indicated that white women like black men becasue black men have self respect, and white men dont. He indicated that white women are used to white men who put aside their own desires to satisfy said white woman, and expect that black men will not do this. I have no idea if he was serious.

Spineless people have no rights, becasue they have no boundaries.
 

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Matthew said:
So the new question we're supposed to answer is why do white girls like Fags & Dykes?

I'm concerned about where this conversation may be headed...
 

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Pappy, you should be offended that b.c. didn't like your joke and demand that he be banned.

<just trying to spin it>:smile:


Just because a person buys into a stereotype doesn't make him/her a racist or bigot. That would make them ignorant.



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