Hilaire, you have clearly shown your apathy towards straight men in this post. It is not coercion it is that the woman does not WANT to pleasure her man, just for his ends, and not for hers. It is that which I find selfish, all the things that men do for women. I go to the gym 7 days a week to look good for her, I eat her pussy whenever she wants for however long she wants, hours even(No Im not exaggerating). I listen to her because I enjoy it not through obligation, it is a relationship there are certain things that we do for each other, and if a woman fails to make a man feel desired anymore, there are things gone awry.
I dont want to rephrase the question either, I dont like the I dont feel like it attitude, I dont feel like doing things, but you have to compromise because you love the other person. Its called meeting them halfway.
Get a grip on yourself lad.
For a start off your own dissatisfaction does not equate to anything like a universal experience and blaming all women for the fact that your GF does not want to have sex with you as often as you would like is childish and ridiculous.
If you think you don't have enough sex, and by your own description you get plenty actually, then go and find a woman with the same sex drive as you, and stop blaming every woman in the world for your own poor relationship choices.
If you think listening to your partner, and being half way attentive in bed is part of the compromise you make for the person you love then no wonder your GF has no interest in satisfying your constant demands for sex, those things are supposed to be entirely involuntary responses to the love you feel for someone, and should be done with no expectation of reward. Many women dislike the sense that everything their BFs do for them is a bribe, or blackmail for sex.
If everything you say you do is done with the express aim of getting your GF to have more sex with you then you don't know the first thing about women or being in a relationship.
And lets be clear here what you're saying, if a woman doesn't feel like having sex with her partner she should do so anyway just to massage his ego? And you say I display antipathy towards straight men?
You display the attitudes of a pseudo-rapist who despises women, and regards them as props for his own sexual satisfaction whose personal desires and emotions are completely secondary to your own need to feel like some kind of sexual athlete for whom women are willing to have reluctant and coerced sex just because you demand it, and can blackmail them with "everything you do for them".
I made no sweeping statements about straight men, only particular ones about
you, you have made sweeping and absurd statements about half the human race, and have indicated that you have a deeply unhealthy attitude towards that half too.
