So I've been dating these three women for about 6-8 months. I met them all on internet sex sites so they were basically booty calls. Sex on the first 'date,' that sort of thing. But each of them has gotten all gaga about our relationship. And then, of course, the drama starts.
Why is it that women can't seem to be only kinda-interested in a guy. They are either not interested at all, or they fall super in-love. And these aren't young chicks, they're mid-30s to early 40s.
On a scale from 1 to 10, 1 being not interested at all, 10 being totally in love, it seems that women are either 1 or 10. Guys can hold at about 5... he's kinda into you, kinda not. Willing to drive to see you and have a good time and enjoy you, etc. But he doesn't pine for you when you two are apart and he doesn't get all dramatic when there's a slight problem. He doesn't ask who you've been out with and really doesn't care.
Why can't women be this way? I want nice, fun, relaxing, casual relationships with no drama. The worst part is when the girl falls in love, because then all the fun leaves, she becomes neurotic, clingy and jealous, and I'm constantly having to put out fires with all these different chicks.
"Where were you Friday night?" "Why were you 15 minutes late tonight?" "Where is this relationship going?" "Why don't you ever say you love me?" "You didn't get me anything for our [X]-month anniversary!" "Why don't we spend more time together?" "Why don't you call?" etc etc etc.
Where are all the women who can be just *kinda* into a guy? I mean it's cute, charming, and ultimately pathetic that women fall in love so completely, but damn.... the fun just goes OUT the window when that happens. And every single one of these girls and I met on internet sex sites, not on harmony.com or at a wedding or something, so I can't imagine that I'm fooling them as to my desires.
sux
Why is it that women can't seem to be only kinda-interested in a guy. They are either not interested at all, or they fall super in-love. And these aren't young chicks, they're mid-30s to early 40s.
On a scale from 1 to 10, 1 being not interested at all, 10 being totally in love, it seems that women are either 1 or 10. Guys can hold at about 5... he's kinda into you, kinda not. Willing to drive to see you and have a good time and enjoy you, etc. But he doesn't pine for you when you two are apart and he doesn't get all dramatic when there's a slight problem. He doesn't ask who you've been out with and really doesn't care.
Why can't women be this way? I want nice, fun, relaxing, casual relationships with no drama. The worst part is when the girl falls in love, because then all the fun leaves, she becomes neurotic, clingy and jealous, and I'm constantly having to put out fires with all these different chicks.
"Where were you Friday night?" "Why were you 15 minutes late tonight?" "Where is this relationship going?" "Why don't you ever say you love me?" "You didn't get me anything for our [X]-month anniversary!" "Why don't we spend more time together?" "Why don't you call?" etc etc etc.
Where are all the women who can be just *kinda* into a guy? I mean it's cute, charming, and ultimately pathetic that women fall in love so completely, but damn.... the fun just goes OUT the window when that happens. And every single one of these girls and I met on internet sex sites, not on harmony.com or at a wedding or something, so I can't imagine that I'm fooling them as to my desires.
sux