Let me guess you are Christian too and believe in the family values?
you could not be any further from correct.
Try reading some of my other posts and you will see how astonishingly laughable this is.
Sorry- its not a condemnation of sex in any way shape or form.
Men certainly are wired by evolution to take advantage of every opportunity to breed.
But females are not- their eggs are less plentiful and require a hell of a lot more investment of their time and resources.
Women will have affairs with men for no other reason than the drive to diversify their offspring's genome... but even THIS kind of liaison is also hedging their social bets by having at least one alternate male invested in their progeny.
NOw you can talk all you want about women liking sex... or about how procreation doesn't factor in because these women are using birth control... but that is all specious malarky because her GENES don't
know she' using a diaphragm...
Research has proven that women, on the pill, with no interest in getting pregnant, and who have no idea when they are ovulating, will nevertheless overwhelmingly tend to consummate an affair during the brief period they are ovulating.
This demonstrates that women's sexual drives- like men's- are rooted in behavioral traits that offered competitive genetic advantage.
So when men or women are contemplating an affair... all that soul searching they do, that weighing and evaluating of whether they have just reason to cheat... that ramping up of displeasure with the treatment from their spouse... That is all just bullshit... you brain generating rationalizations to justify satisfying an urge that is coming from a mindless genetic drive.
Women's strategy for reproduction evolved around security. They will be having the babies and they need a safe environment to raise them in. A loyal man, a good provider, a man with potential or standing... these are all the things they seek. And they know men want sex more than they do. So they negotiate the one for the other.
Human beings tend to PAIR BOND.
It's not a 'choice'... its a drive.
And evolution has connected our genitals to the deepest part of our brain which is the most subject to these instinctive drives.
So wise up, grow up, and recognize there is no such thing as a free lunch.
If you want nothing but the sex, then be satisfied that that means swapping partners frequently.
But any woman who feels she would like a long term physical relationship, is GOING to feel like she wants a long term emotional relationship as well.
I am not judging the idea of sex...
Although I do admit that I find the kind of sophomoric solipsism evidenced by the OP is juvenile, and pathetic...
Simply because other human beings have so much more to offer than just their fuck parts.