Why do women look stupendously dumb in straight porn?

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  1. hyperionic

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    Hi!

    So.. i was wondering.. maybe it has to do with the fact i'm gay.. but i find certain women just as attractive as the next straight guy... though maybe not sexually. I look at straight porn sometimes.. cause hey, there usually is a dick involved. But the women usually annoy me.. and no.. not because i'm gay, well that may tip the balance but isnt my point. Why do women portrai themselves or.. being portrait as stupendously dumb creatures? Do men in general find that attractive? The huge boobs, dye blond hair, piercings everywhere and enough make-up to plaster a house.. They all look like copies from one mold.. dont you get sick and tired of that? I know porn is about fantasy. And i'm not advocating women with huge bushes everywhere (nor men) but wouldn't be nice to see real women.. that don't scream and sqeal the second a guy enters her? But actually convey their sexuality instead of a 'show'. I find all that plastic really detached, ugly and weird.. it's got nothing to do with real life, fantasy or not.

    Please let me know your thoughts..
     
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    How can you tell so much, just from a picture or a movie where the only dialogue is "Yeah, baby, give it to me, stretch my tight little de dah de dah de dah" and the occasional grunt/squeal?

    I'd hazard a guess that if you randomly picked 10 women (or men) and did the same with porn actresses, their average intelligence levels would be roughly similar.

    They're acting, for the most part. They are supposed to appear stupid and unintimidating to the guys watching and jerking off.

    Maybe that's why so relatively few females are into full-on sex movies and prefer those with a storyline, if any at all.

    Or did Arnie also really jump off of a building onto a fixed wing aircraft and wrestle control from it's pilot, cuz that's what was depicted in "True Lies"?
     
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    I know.. i said.. why do they 'look' dumb.. i fully aware of the fact that behind a face is a whole universe of thought, small or not.. i'm interested in the fact why they are portrayed that way..

    Arnie was a superhero movie buff cause he looked the part. So does that mean that plastic girls look the part of porn? And that is what the majority finds sexually appealing?

    Again.. i have got nothing to say about those women actually being intelligent or not, for that i would have to know them in person.
     
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    Like he said, lots of men jerk off to porn, including losers. Losers are way too intimidated in real life to even begin to think about talking to a girl as hot as some in porn, so they make them appear much dumber and "approachable" for EVERYONE.

    Porn is so unnatural and hilarious lol.
     
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    For a more intelligent and "hands-on" female empowering straight sex film, some of those starring and Directed by Belladonna might help dispel the myth that they are all stupid or made to appear so.
     
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    I think it is cause you are gay :smile:
     
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    I guess you're both right. In gay porn men are exaggarated and also blown out of proportion (hehe) because of the fantasy thing. 'We' (gays) want to see lean muscled guys, preference or not. But.. they are still men and dont look like stuffed toys. If you look at history, plump women where the flavour in the past. In some cultures they still are.. I'm just wondering why or how it got to the point where women, in porn, look and act the way they do.

    If it's to be approachable.. would you hook up with a girl like that? Even when youre insecure in general? I dont think it's just being approachable.. there's more to it than that.

    Maybe its men dominating women.. or women being downgraded.. the same thing with hiphop/rnb videoclips.. It's allways the rapper guy surrounded by hordes of women that apparently only exist to wiggle around in small thongs. I know that those women have lives, go to college, have intelligence and so on.. but the image is still there.
     
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    Haha.. thats TOO easy. I've debunked that in my earlier statement.. i am however willing to go sofar as to agnolige that it is probably more difficult for me to understand.. thats why im fascinated by it.

    And.. dont get me wrong.. but a hot girl is still a hot girl, even when your gay.
     
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    maybe when you ACKNOWLEDGE it properly, then it will be easier to understand...I think the problem is you are spelling it wrong :biggrin1::wink:
     
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    I know.. i'm interested to see how good your with dutch :) I have to translate my thoughts into english.. that can be difficult.. And i'm fairly stupid myself soo.. :)

    But dont steer away from the subject! :)
     
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    A lot of guys like to see women degraded and subservient as they have little confidence in themselves.
     
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    i am great with Dutch...Ruud Van Nistelrooy, Jan Vessegor of Hesselink, Amsterdam, Coffee Shops, Feyenoord etc etc no problem

    :smile:
     
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    well, i have to point out, that curvy big breasted women are still very popular and i am a big fan of that, much more so then women with fake breasts and too much makeup.

    all my favorite pornstars of the 80s and 90s and now are all busty and buxom and curvy, and many straight guys feel this way as well.
     
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    Hmm. nice to see my country downgraded to soccer, amsterdam and drugs.. sounds like equating looking dumb with actually being dumb. :wink:

    Anyway.. i know it's got to do with how you perceive something. But would you actually want that kind of girl? In real life? Last time i checked men usually want something else in real life and maybe thats way girls look they they look in porn.

    And as for STD, it probably is that easy sometimes.
     
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    what the hell is wrong with soccer, amsterdam and drugs?!?!?!?! :biggrin1:

    okay...how about, Karen Mulder, Amstel, Rotterdam and Tulips? :smile:



    do you mean would i want a girlfriend who was in porn movies or who simply dressed and used makeup to look like she was in porn movies?
     
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    Okay.. i get that. Maybe my question is bigger than just porn.. It has got to with the fact that being plastic, an unachieveable form (for most) is the ideal. And when porn acts on that desire maybe people get the idea that it's the norm.

    I'm fully capeable of seperating real from fake, and i hope most people are.. but still, where being bombarded with fake continiously.
     
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    well, I'll give you an example of the type of porn women I like...

    Go to my thread in the adult websites forum about Gianna Michaels...to see what I prefer in women...and based on all the fans in that thread, you see that many men prefer that type of woman...all natural, curvy, energetic, not alot of makeup etc...

    http://www.lpsg.org/68023-utterly-amazing-gianna-michaels-takes.html


    that is my personal preference. :smile:
     
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    probably because they are faking it so much. they aren't exactly professional actresses. They have been instructed (but not what specifically as to what to do/say- I'll guess) to over act , be verbal/vocal . what are they suppose to say & do for the audience/camera ? They are not told to just be themselve, or perhaps they try too hard to make a good video. By & large they do a pretty good job IMO. No one is expecting that much but not be bored either.



    Men look just as dumb when they are fucking, if not worse, IMO.
     
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    I meant the latter..

    Well.. im too gay to be interested in soccer, amsterdam is nice but there better places, drugs dont do well on me.. but happy with 'free choice'.

    Karen mulder is nice, Amstel is a great beer but i like Jupiler more (belgium) and Grolsch. Rotterdam is far more interesting than Amsterdam and tulips arent even from holland originally but from turkey.. :)
     
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    killjoy :wink:
     
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