Why Do Women Now Think That Men Want To See A Woman’s Pubic Region Shaved Bald?

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Just a question to get more insight. I do not want to see a woman with a unkept hairy bush but I do think a woman with a sense of pride in how she presents herself whether it be a nicely trimmed design or a landing strip. These are both much more welcomed than seeing a woman bald in my opinion!
 

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Just a question to get more insight. I do not want to see a woman with a unkept hairy bush but I do think a woman with a sense of pride in how she presents herself whether it be a nicely trimmed design or a landing strip. These are both much more welcomed than seeing a woman bald in my opinion!

Hahaha you're probably gonna get a hell of a lot of stick for this post, however I'll answer honestly.
I never do anything with my 'bush' for a man, woman or whoever. Generally I keep myself shaved because that's what I do when I'm bored in the bath, sometimes I let it grow too, whatever suits my mood! I can hardly ever be arsed to do a landing strip or any other form of topiary, that's for the gardeners pmsl, how do you keep yourself? X
 

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Hahaha you're probably gonna get a hell of a lot of stick for this post, however I'll answer honestly.
I never do anything with my 'bush' for a man, woman or whoever. Generally I keep myself shaved because that's what I do when I'm bored in the bath, sometimes I let it grow too, whatever suits my mood! I can hardly ever be arsed to do a landing strip or any other form of topiary, that's for the gardeners pmsl, how do you keep yourself? X
Thank you so much for your reply.
 
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Why? Perhaps because that's the image guys have been pushing for decades in porn and elsewhere...
No. I just wanted to gain some more knowledge about the mentioned question. Although I will readily admit that the adult industry does shape ideas for a lot of people. Thank you for your answer.
 

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It’s really about personal comfort and choice for me. There are a lot of options for grooming. I go with what I’m comfortable with.

Porn likes it cleanly shaven off so they can get a better shot. It’s got nothing to do with personal preference. If anyone expects real sex to replicate porn sex in look and/or acts, I feel pretty sorry for them.
 

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Just a question to get more insight. I do not want to see a woman with a unkept hairy bush but I do think a woman with a sense of pride in how she presents herself whether it be a nicely trimmed design or a landing strip. These are both much more welcomed than seeing a woman bald in my opinion!

Unkept (sic) hairy bush...

Well, if someone I might possibly be interested in used such terms and then specified that I’d have to have a Razor Art Project on my mons, he would be sent down the road so fast, he’d get wind chafed.
 

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Personally?

I think (probably a lot of) women think that men prefer bald or nearly so because of men who use phrases such as "unkempt hairy bush." It's unkempt, btw, not unkept.

Basically, tons of men have super opinionated thoughts on women's pubic hair and are not afraid to shout it all over the internet and to anyone who will listen. And plenty think pubic hair is "gross" or "dirty." And lots of women internalize this and therefore will get rid of it just because some douchebag won't perform cunnilingus if there's any amount of hair.

Out of rebellion, I rock a 70s rainbow vag fro and no one can tell me it isn't SPECTACULAR.

Because I'll do whatever I want with my body hair. My body, my choice.
 

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I used to be bare down there and it was more of a convenience/comfort thing. Kinda like what Holly was saying. What Enid wrote about how every man on the internet will happily shout his pussy grooming opinion from the Internet rooftops-yeah that’s true.

I do think the porn industry has been responsible for a lot of things. Influencing pubic hair styles is certainly one of them, and maybe that was part of my past grooming habits.

I rock a landing strip these days.
Laser hair removal; minimal maintenance required.
I just like the way it looks over bare when I’m standing naked in front of a mirror.

I imagine the idea never would have occurred to me before hearing unsolicited suggestions from others, and seeing nice ones on other women.
 

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There is one person other than me who has the right to an opinion on my personal grooming, and his right is conditional.

I’ve never thought I had the right to tell a dude what to do with his pubes. I have a blanket opinion that stubble sucks, and a corollary view that “shaving causes stubble, soooooo”.

As far as the one person goes, he has no problem with any of the hair on my body. And I’ve actually asked.
I know where his sense of propriety lies. If we are in a social situation where fuzzy pits might be an issue, they aren’t on show.
 
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I've never worried about what a man thought about my lily pad. It's mine, and I keep it the way I want.

If he doesn't like it he's never told me anything. I think he's OK with it. In fact, I've never had a lover that's had a problem with it. So I guess I'm doing OK down there.
 

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I have no idea what other women think or do. I can only speak for myself. I don't do it BC I think that's what "men want to see".

I started doing it BC I felt cleaner and more comfortable. I will either keep it shaved or trimmed tight. But, no thank you to the landing strip. Holly's remark is hilarious, but she's spot on.

Not for him... But for me.
 

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It’s really about personal comfort and choice for me. There are a lot of options for grooming. I go with what I’m comfortable with.

Porn likes it cleanly shaven off so they can get a better shot. It’s got nothing to do with personal preference. If anyone expects real sex to replicate porn sex in look and/or acts, I feel pretty sorry for them.
I agree! Thank you for your honesty!
 

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Personally?

I think (probably a lot of) women think that men prefer bald or nearly so because of men who use phrases such as "unkempt hairy bush." It's unkempt, btw, not unkept.

Basically, tons of men have super opinionated thoughts on women's pubic hair and are not afraid to shout it all over the internet and to anyone who will listen. And plenty think pubic hair is "gross" or "dirty." And lots of women internalize this and therefore will get rid of it just because some douchebag won't perform cunnilingus if there's any amount of hair.

Out of rebellion, I rock a 70s rainbow vag fro and no one can tell me it isn't SPECTACULAR.

Because I'll do whatever I want with my body hair. My body, my choice.
Agree! Thank you for your answer and sorry about the proper grammar!
 

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I used to be bare down there and it was more of a convenience/comfort thing. Kinda like what Holly was saying. What Enid wrote about how every man on the internet will happily shout his pussy grooming opinion from the Internet rooftops-yeah that’s true.

I do think the porn industry has been responsible for a lot of things. Influencing pubic hair styles is certainly one of them, and maybe that was part of my past grooming habits.

I rock a landing strip these days.
Laser hair removal; minimal maintenance required.
I just like the way it looks over bare when I’m standing naked in front of a mirror.

I imagine the idea never would have occurred to me before hearing unsolicited suggestions from others, and seeing nice ones on other women.
Thank you! You are beautiful whatever you choose!
 

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There is one person other than me who has the right to an opinion on my personal grooming, and his right is conditional.

I’ve never thought I had the right to tell a dude what to do with his pubes. I have a blanket opinion that stubble sucks, and a corollary view that “shaving causes stubble, soooooo”.

As far as the one person goes, he has no problem with any of the hair on my body. And I’ve actually asked.
I know where his sense of propriety lies. If we are in a social situation where fuzzy pits might be an issue, they aren’t on show.
Thank you for your honest answer and I agree it should be your decision!
 

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I've never worried about what a man thought about my lily pad. It's mine, and I keep it the way I want.

If he doesn't like it he's never told me anything. I think he's OK with it. In fact, I've never had a lover that's had a problem with it. So I guess I'm doing OK down there.
Thank you so much for weighing in! I value your opinion very much!
 
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I have no idea what other women think or do. I can only speak for myself. I don't do it BC I think that's what "men want to see".

I started doing it BC I felt cleaner and more comfortable. I will either keep it shaved or trimmed tight. But, no thank you to the landing strip. Holly's remark is hilarious, but she's spot on.

Not for him... But for me.
I agree! Thank you for your response!
 
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