Why Do Women Tell You They Love It Big?

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just curious, what is it about you being big/huge that women say they prefer? being filled up? stretched out? why do they say they prefer it? what do they tell you?

(PS. i've had so many women tell me they don't care about size. but i don't know if it's some kind of mind power play. or if they honestly really don't care at all.)
 

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I used to ask women questions related to my penis size. Then I realized I was acting like the trial lawyer asking his witness leading questions designed to get a specific response. And most women will catch on to that in about a second.

So I stopped asking. I only listened to what they volunteered. And what I heard very rarely had anything at all to do with size, or with my penis.

It's too damned easy to play into a guy's ego. You want to hear you're big. You want to hear you fill her up. Do you think they don't know this as soon as you start asking thirsty questions? Stop worrying about your size and pay attention to what she says on her own.
 

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well said. I TOTALLY AGREE.

I am curious, but i dont want to lead the witness. Sometimes they'll say things unprovoked. I was with a girl last weekend. she said "I love your cock." while i was inside her. I then asked her why and she would give me little bits in the throes of passion.

Also, there is nothing more beautiful than watching a woman's eyes and face widen as I penetrate her for the first time. the look of pleasure, pain, shock, and surprise. it's easy to fake words, but a look can be so honest.

I had another girl last weekend say to me "it's so thick. stretch my tiny pussy." as i was with her. So if they say things like that, I'll try to continue the conversation and get them to open up.

But i totally agree with you. women know how to play men if/when needed. So I strive for the honest authentic moments.


I used to ask women questions related to my penis size. Then I realized I was acting like the trial lawyer asking his witness leading questions designed to get a specific response. And most women will catch on to that in about a second.

So I stopped asking. I only listened to what they volunteered. And what I heard very rarely had anything at all to do with size, or with my penis.

It's too damned easy to play into a guy's ego. You want to hear you're big. You want to hear you fill her up. Do you think they don't know this as soon as you start asking thirsty questions? Stop worrying about your size and pay attention to what she says on her own.
 

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I've never asked a woman whether they like my size or what they like about bigger cocks, but occasionally I've heard a few comments that partners have volunteered in passing. (Seriously, this isn't a topic of discussion that I've ever had with a partner). I don't get the sense that they like either being "filled" or "stretched" -- those seem to be words men use. What I have heard is the feeling of "reaching" or "hitting" somewhere deep inside that they like.
 

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interesting. yes, i've heard this too.

i just find it all interesting that this is a huge forum based on penis size and when it's all said and done, i've found most women dont care about size at all. which informs a larger existential question. If you're a straight man, who loves women, what is the need for this forum? You know? Size is clearly NOT important for them, so any validation must all be for us... right?

it's funny, i saw a woman wearing a t-shirt saying "Validation is for parking." which i thought was funny at first, but then i started to think about all the behaviors and desires that we do in an effort to be validated as men, as humans.... it's a lot actually.

I've never asked a woman whether they like my size or what they like about bigger cocks, but occasionally I've heard a few comments that partners have volunteered in passing. (Seriously, this isn't a topic of discussion that I've ever had with a partner). I don't get the sense that they like either being "filled" or "stretched" -- those seem to be words men use. What I have heard is the feeling of "reaching" or "hitting" somewhere deep inside that they like.
 
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I've never asked a woman whether they like my size or what they like about bigger cocks, but occasionally I've heard a few comments that partners have volunteered in passing. (Seriously, this isn't a topic of discussion that I've ever had with a partner). I don't get the sense that they like either being "filled" or "stretched" -- those seem to be words men use. What I have heard is the feeling of "reaching" or "hitting" somewhere deep inside that they like.

Yes, the most often used phrase I've heard is to the effect that I touched the right spots. The thing is, it doesn't take a huge peen to touch the right spots. I have never been with a woman with whom I couldn't touch all of her vagina with my fingers. And I'm no NBA palm-the-ball guy, my palms are very wide but my fingers are short....my middle finger is 3-1/2". Regardless of girth, the most I can comfortably insert a toy into my wife is about 5-1/2". Everyone is different, but there's plenty of evidence for size not being that much of a factor. Nowhere near the obsession we all have seen in this forum.
 

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interesting. yes, i've heard this too.

i just find it all interesting that this is a huge forum based on penis size and when it's all said and done, i've found most women dont care about size at all. which informs a larger existential question. If you're a straight man, who loves women, what is the need for this forum? You know? Size is clearly NOT important for them, so any validation must all be for us... right?

it's funny, i saw a woman wearing a t-shirt saying "Validation is for parking." which i thought was funny at first, but then i started to think about all the behaviors and desires that we do in an effort to be validated as men, as humans.... it's a lot actually.

This site was started as a joke. The site name is a play on words, because it can be interpreted as a large group for penis support, or a large-penis support group. It can be both....there's room.

There is no reason for this site, and that's part of the joke. Men with large penises don't need support. Nobody needs support regarding their penis.

As for validation, I'm happy to take what is sent my way. Whether it's about my willie or my smile, or just the fact that my wife can see how much I love her...it's all good.
 

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exactly. god bless you for spreading the truth.

i've posted on multiple occasions how women based on my experience, generally don't seem to care about size... and it's strange to me how easily offended men are by this notion.


Yes, the most often used phrase I've heard is to the effect that I touched the right spots. The thing is, it doesn't take a huge peen to touch the right spots. I have never been with a woman with whom I couldn't touch all of her vagina with my fingers. And I'm no NBA palm-the-ball guy, my palms are very wide but my fingers are short....my middle finger is 3-1/2". Regardless of girth, the most I can comfortably insert a toy into my wife is about 5-1/2". Everyone is different, but there's plenty of evidence for size not being that much of a factor. Nowhere near the obsession we all have seen in this forum.
 
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obviously it varies from woman to woman, being individuals, but from what I've seen self reported by women in forums and heard directly in discussion with female friends, a considerable number of women say whatever they think will prop up the insecure and fragile ego of the guy who asks repeatedly, and it can get to be a complete turn-off if it becomes an ongoing chore

so, if the woman doesn't bring it up herself, my advice is don't ask
 

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Yes, the most often used phrase I've heard is to the effect that I touched the right spots. The thing is, it doesn't take a huge peen to touch the right spots. I have never been with a woman with whom I couldn't touch all of her vagina with my fingers. And I'm no NBA palm-the-ball guy, my palms are very wide but my fingers are short....my middle finger is 3-1/2". Regardless of girth, the most I can comfortably insert a toy into my wife is about 5-1/2". Everyone is different, but there's plenty of evidence for size not being that much of a factor. Nowhere near the obsession we all have seen in this forum.
quoted for truth!
 

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Don't think I've ever actually asked the question. that being said at 7x6.5 I'm by no means huge but certainly above average, I've had many comments on how great the length was at hitting spots they didn't know they had and so on, however the number one 9 times out of 10 comment is always about how thick i am.

As for the whether or not they care, i take it with a grain of salt, I've experienced first hand many times women who publicly claim to not care about size, only to end up in bed with them eventually down the road because they'd heard a rumor or noticed my bulge, I've also had many FWB/FB return after calling it quits because they really enjoyed my size
 

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i'm not asking if you guys asked them about it. Or bring it up.

I'm asking if they ever bring it up or talk about it or explain why.

for me, women will meet me and comment on it. and then if a conversation comes from it, then i ask about it.

But i guess that kind of proves my point that it doesn't matter to women.
 

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I was once told by a self confessed size queen, that she was very turned on and attracted to huge cocks. The reason that she enjoyed and was excited by the visual of the cock appearing to be so huge, too big in fact to fit inside her and then the satisfaction when she actually took it inside. She said in essence, she got a sense of achievement from taking huge cocks.
 
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The only thing that women want big on a man is his wallet. Big wallet out weights everything else. If you don't have a big wallet, you're shit out of luck.
 
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while most women would protest and call you sexist for saying that, I couldn't agree more with you. All their real life behavior proves this as well. Despite what the mainstream media online community would have you think.


The only thing that women want big on a man is his wallet. Big wallet out weights everything else. If you don't have a big wallet, you're shit out of luck.
 
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while most women would protest and call you sexist for saying that, I couldn't agree more with you. All their real life behavior proves this as well. Despite what the mainstream media online community would have you think.
Yeah. Most people today don't know how to take a joke. And it's funny because there is some element of truth to it.
 

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More accurately stated:
Shitty personality + inability to listen/learn + no clue how to treat & please a woman = you need a big wallet.

My girl doesn't want or need my money. She makes her own.
Aaaannd she's very happy with my above average sized dick.