why do YOU masturbate?

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  1. mephistopheles

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    I used to masturbate a lot, i thought i had some sort of masturabting disorder or something. I dont mean like 3 or 4 times a day. mean like 7 times in a row, and still going back for more. I realized the reason i was masturbating so much was not becuase i had a physiological need to, It was becuase i really had nothing better to do. Id put in a movie, find a nice website or movie and just goto it. had nothing else to do so i just kept going.

    dont masturbate that much these days, but stll quite a bit.

    How often do you masturbate and why do you think you do it?
    I'm looking for actual answers though, not something like "it feels good"... yes it does feel good, but c'mon illaberate a bit more.
     
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    Very good question. Let me get back to you.
     
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    Often enough, but not too often that it disrupts my life or interferes with my work.

    Why? In part, it is the intimacy with myself, touching those buttons that excite me, not needing to be attentive to the partner's needs and feelings, looking forward to the orgasm, the ability to control the time and place or the orgasm, the high that comes when I ejac... excuse me please, I have some pressing matters to attend to right this moment.
     
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    I masturbate often enough to refrain from having wet dreams and the fact that it is my only source of sexual gratification that i have right now.
     
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    I used to Masturbate 3-4 times a day....

    I have since slowed down to once a day... but just had a 5 jerk day....

    I do it, mainly because it feels really good.:rolleyes:
     
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    Good question. Horniness sometimes, sure; feeling masculine and 'juicy' after a workout, why not; boredom, rarely but on occasion; more often then not, it's a release of anxiety and a stimulation for creativity. In terms of the former, I believe I got used to jerking off when I was young as a valve for relieving tension generated by conflicts between my parents and it became second nature for me; for the latter, it's a way of deflecting my creative energies after I've applied them for a certain period of time to the project at hand and need to back off in order to let the ideas gestate on their own---masturbation is a handy way of taking my mind off my work.
     
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    I masturbate because I CAN. No, for serious... for the longest time I was unable to ejaculate. The first time I ever orgasmed was on Oct. 3, 2005 at the ripe age of 22. When I went to a urologist at age 18, he said there was nothing physically wrong with my penis or anything, and so he said I wasn't able to ejaculate because of mental tension between inner homosexual feelings and a religious belief that looked down on that sorta thing. His solution was to deal with it, come out of the closet or just "hope that it works someday."

    I wound up coming out of the closet on my own accord July 12, 2005, and sure enough, within months I shot my first load off in the bathtub right before work. It was such an amazing feeling.. of accomplishment, discovery, all of that sortta stuff. I've been jerking off now for almost 11 months since that day, and each time I do it is in part because I am grateful for my newfound "ability."

    I usually get off about once a day, because I still don't get all that horny or anything. I find it pretty hard to get off twice in a day, and I've NEVER climaxed three or more times.

    But I still love it! My only beef is that I masturbate to porn WAY too often; I'm trying to move away from that, but the temptation is strong and the hormones make me weak.

    So it goes,
    B
     
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    well, i maturbate nearly everytime i batheor if i'm bored. my dish is down, so i go looking for some internet porn..i used to do it like 5 times more when i was younger, but slowed it down a bit. i try to slow down more often, but this site does not help....lol.
     
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    Let's see. Like 5 times a week, or something.

    When I got time, I do it.

    I do it because:

    1) I can.
    2) It feels good.
    3) Vanity.
     
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    :rolleyes: If you masturbate because you have nothing to do, get a life. Go out, and do something useful, or learn something. I don't mean to offend anyone.
     
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    I'd say at least once a day...but mostly once a day.
    In my hornier days?? gawd, I'd jerk it up to 7 times a day. (*very rare)
    why?
    -cause I can
    -only I know what turns me on.... I hate having to guide others while getting blown... directing is a waste of time and takes me away from enjoying
    -I think it keeps the pipe clean if you jerk yourself regularly (i don't know if that's true or anything, but it makes sense)
    - passes time when there's nothing "on" or inbetween shows you're watching on tv
    -it feels good (no, really?)
    - I like to "edge" myself and try to control my cum. Practice makes perfect.
    -and again, because I can.
     
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    i think that masterbating can be highly addictive. a natural high.

    i masterbate when i'm stressed, not getting laid, bored, sucked in by quality porn, or any reason i need to escape.

    everything in life has a healthy balance. there are times when i've probably have had too much of a 'good thing'.

    has anyone come across a resource for this type of addiction? a quick google doesn't seem to turn up anything.
     
  13. D_Lawsonne Lackingnuts

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    I have not masturbated in about two weeks since I moved and settled in to the college and dorm life. I miss it like hell. When I was younger, I loved to jack off because I could have orgasms without actually having sex. I was exploring my body and figuring out what made it work. The curiosity led to numerous opportunities for me to wank.

    Eventually, though, I grew out of that and in high school to now, masturbation grew to be my own personal time. It was when I could just strip down, get connected with myself and my body and just go for it. One man, one cock, giving pleasure to one body. It was my way of zoning out. It relieved the stress and tension I had and whenever I felt depressed, it made me happier.

    Of course I still do it because I am a horny little fuck and I get turned on by everything involving sex, but it is also therapeutic in a way.

    Man, I really NEED to masturbate soon...
     
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    because its fun!
     
  15. chicagosam

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    Do you really need a reason? You're male, you have a cock, you have a hand&#8212; somehow it all goes together in a relentless swift stroke of brilliance! Enjoy!
     
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    I can't answer this because I'm too busy masturbating.
     
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    ^ :rolleyes: ^ Wish I could see!

    Anyway, I do it because teens produce more horomones. I also do it because I admire the look and feel of my cock.
     
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    Because if I don't, then my head will explode. Really! See, there is this alien implant in me, that has a time out that only gets reset by an orgasm, and....
    Oh, wait, sorry----this was a bad gay porno movie I once saw.....:biggrin1:
     
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    Well.... as usual i used to masturbate 2 - 3 time a day with younger... now it has reduced significantly as I don't get much time after work and sex. Reason? As chicagosam rightly said "Do you really need a reason?"
     
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    Eloquent, Chicagosam. You ought to be a writer. <wink> John
     
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