Why do you tell a guy how much you like his big size?

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  1. basincreek

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    So, you're in the middle of sex when all of sudden you start telling the hung guy you're screwing that you like how big he is.

    Is this something you say compulsively just because it's what you are thinking and all the endorphins have lowered your inhibitions? Or are you actively trying to let him know how much you like his size?

    Or are you just not a talker during sex at all?
     
  2. mariamluvsEMbig

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    is this a serious question???

    for the same reason you would tell a girl how good she looks or how good she feels...
     
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    I agree 100%. Just because a well-endowed guy knows how big he is doesn't mean he won't appreciate being told how big he is and how well he uses his size; and he'll probably love to hear it again and again.

    It's like giving any other sort of compliment ~ a no-brainer.
     
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    I know I'm in the minority here because I've never mentioned a guy's size when I've seen his penis for the first time or during sex, even when I actually thought it was big, which would be three times. I've never said, "Wow!" or anything like that either. I guess I thought it was just too cheesy or something women only said in porn and I was always after an authentic in-the-moment experience and not into acting during sex.

    If I talk during sex, I'm more likely to talk about his eyes, or how he kisses me, or how hot I think he is, or how good sex with him feels, and other things like that.

    There was one exception. I did get extremely drunk last March and I spent quite a bit of time telling TheBF that he had a big cock, but he already knew that. He said it was hilarious. He described it by saying that it was like a drunken sailor had taken over my body, a really raunchy drunken sailor inside the body of a petite woman. That was before we had sex.
     
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    I'm sort of like Petite in that I don't talk about size much.

    And I certainly don't during sex!! I don't speak at all during sex. I'm so wrapped up in the sensations I literally can't form sentences, and I struggle to form words. During sex I moan, scream, and whimper A LOT, but words? Nope. The only words I can manage to say during sex are 'more' and 'harder'. Other than that it's all wordless vocalisations.

    Even outside of sex itself, I only bring up size if it's a crucial part of what I'm talking about or doing. The other day I was apologising to a FB for not being able to deepthroat him unless I'm drunk. I said 'It's because you're so thick'. Basically, it was a direct explanation for what was going on.
     
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    Starring Petite as the drunken sailor:tongue: LMAO! It's to early for this silliness:tongue:

    I think if I ever said something like that to a guy it would be a shock reaction IRL. The only time I vaguely remember saying something along those words was the first time I had sex. At that point in my life, I thought that it was really really big!
     
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    I wish that TheBF had videotaped it because he was still laughing hard the next day and when he described it he made it sound so funny!

    I wrote about it twice in my blog here on LPSG, which only people on my friend's list can read, like you. :wink:

    Blacked Out and Hung Over


    Petite Drunken Sailor


     
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    sigh sigh

    do you like my ones?
     
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    i sometimes like size size talk in the bedroom. like petite's drunken sailor stint minus the inebriation. i see it as fun, i like dirty talk during sex.
     
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    yes catch, your sighs are/is very impressive!
     
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    Oh. Now I get it. Took me a while :redface:
     
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    Don`t worry sweetie, it took me till tsgirlsrgreat pointed it out...I i am usually good at these things! lol
     
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    "it's sooo big....soooo hard" was one way a gf told me she was gonna cum. seconds after this statement, orgasm time. she didn't do this all the time, but more than once. I just think it's the heat of the moment.
     
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    We only compliment guys about their big dick to piss of the small guys :rolleyes:
     
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    you are not in the minority when it comes to this.
    alot of the big men already know what they have,and durring sex it doesn't come up(no pun intended)
    but in conversation like when you were drunk it might.that's when i've heard it from former lovers.but when the sex was going down? no.

    but from non lovers and strangers it's open season on my monster!
    i've got family and friends who don't stop about it!!
     
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    Damn! why segregate us non-stalker folk from reading your blogs?
    just because i keep a low profile here doesn't mean i can't appreciate the fun as well. some of your friends here are my friends here too..LOL!!!!
    i got refrences!!!!
     
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    Unless there is a small guy in the room that isn't going to work.
     
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    this describes about 90% of all the women i've been with. the other 10% would let me know in the deep throws of passion but it's never been a big deal to me. whenever a women tells me how big i am, i just tell them how wet they are or how tight. it's a compliment thing, nothing more. i'm usually more focused on the sensations i'm giving and receiving.
     
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    something tells me that's a fantasy of yours
     
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    I loved that story ... I still chuckle about it. :biggrin1:

    S8
     
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