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  1. acuradude

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    Females wear cloths that show off there boobs but when us guys look or glace, they get offended and call us (insert name here). Why show if you don't want us to look? I understand that you want to look and feel sexy, but if you want to do that then why judge us?
     
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    Dude,
    Its all about their self sexieness. They dont care if we glance or take a 2-3 second look, but just don't stare. Its rude. Women feel sexier and more confident in how they dress, so lets not make them feel uncomfortable.
    Frank
     
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    Some girls are a bit odd that way.

    But I agree with the don't-stare advice... what were you doing when they spoke-out at you?!
     
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    never had a female say anything, its more of a generalization.
     
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    You can look but be subtle about it, sheesh.
     
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    Knowing someone is perving on you is ALWAYS a compliment, but don't be a jerk about it by make comments, whistle or call out rude names
     
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    Checking a woman out? A-OK.

    Leering at her until she feels like she needs to call the cops? Not so much.

    It can be a thin line, so if you don't know where that line is, probably best if you don't do more than a cursory glance.

    If she's showing them off, take a good look, don't mind if she notices, and move on.
     
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    If women have nice boobs, we put them out but try not to stare so long it seems like you have xray vision. Nothing says perv like a ten second stare.
     
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    I'll try not to stare at your boobs for more than nine seconds at a time. :wink:
     
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    I love people to look and comment, that's why I wear what I do!
     
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    You are such a gentleman. LOL
     
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    Try to show some overall appreciation for the lady, I guess the idea that only her boobs are attractive would be offensive.
     
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