why does my b/f like seeing me with a large penis?

[HungwithHotwife]

Peachy my hubby loves this as well.We have been together 12 yrs and married for 9. About 2 yrs agp he came to me with the suggestion of other guys. When I ask what the turn on is even he himself doesnt know, also the bigger the cock the more he is turned on.
Bronxbombshell hit the nail right on the head so to speak. LOL. I too am curious as to why my hubby finds this so hot. BTW I too am NOT complaining

 

[bam]

I don't know what it is, but my husband loves to see me with really well hung guys as well. My poor hubby is slightly less than average in size, but we have two good friends who are incredibly endowed as well as a few guys we've picked up from time to time.

I don't know what he gets out of it, but I have always prefered physical sex with larger men, so I'm certainly not going to complain about it.

 

[RideRocket]

I think a lot of men (and women) equate a big dick with sexual satisfaction. The bigger the dick, the more intense orgasms a woman will experience, thus, the more satisfied she will be. Since hubby knows he can't change what he's got but wants to insure that you are sexually satisfied, he may feel that bringing a 'bigger' man into the picture is the answer.

Also, since men tend to be very visually stimulated, seeing a large dick is a turn-on. Seeing his wife enjoying herself makes it even more of a turn-on.

 

[Paper5tr3et7]

I've been asked a few times to let someone I know's girlfriend blow me while they watced and then they wanted to fuck afterward. So I wouldn't think it's all that uncommon in people who are secure in their relationship.

 

[peachybum]

hi, thanks for all the responses to my post, please keep them coming, as every reply makes more intrigued. I'm not complaining about my fella's fantasy, I enjoy it as well. It's just that he finds it hard to put it into words why he likes it. It's not something we do to often, I don't think it's a full on 'cuckold' fantasy like bronxbombshell mentioned (thanks for your input hun), more like a light weight version I guess. I'd be interested to hear what everybody else has to say.

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

Just keep reassuring you guy that his cock is gorgeous and is satisfing you and if the set up you have works for the both of you then dont worry about the 'why' he likes to see you with bigger men just enjoy it i guess

 

[two-fister]

This seems to be a pretty common fantasy especially with white guys...there are quite a few yahoo groups dedicated to white men who like watching their wife having sex with hung black men...I've been in the lifestyle for about 2 years, and have met 3 couples(all very happily married)...where the husband likes me to have sex with his wife while he watches and or takes pics./vids...at first it was kind of strange having sex while the husband is a few feet away, but now it's a big turn on for me...I love to put on a good show for 'em.

 

[findfirefox]

It sounds odd but then again everyone is diffrent.

 

[WatchStr8Sex]

hi, thanks for all the responses to my post, please keep them coming, as every reply makes more intrigued. I'm not complaining about my fella's fantasy, I enjoy it as well. It's just that he finds it hard to put it into words why he likes it. It's not something we do to often, I don't think it's a full on 'cuckold' fantasy like bronxbombshell mentioned (thanks for your input hun), more like a light weight version I guess. I'd be interested to hear what everybody else has to say.

I think there are many reasons why a guy wants to watch is g/f being fucked by another guy. First is the humiliation of being made to watch while his girl gets fucked by another guy.

Then there is the fantasy of watching his g/f fucking a guy with a big/thick cock. There is the visual turn-on as well as the auditory turn-on. Hearing people fucking is a turn on for me. Hearing a thick, long dick fucking his girlfriend (thick long dicks can make a lot of noise) with the squelching that a thick dick makes in a wet cunt. Also the sound of balls slamming into the girl, especially when the sex gets really sweaty. Have watched a friend of mine bang his girlfriend (he was wearing leather pants) and getting turned on with the sound of leather on flesh.

Secondly, tt can be an opportunity to explore the sexual union from an outside perspective. Guys I know love to guide the guy into their girlfriends and slip the cock back in if it falls out. They can get upclose too, guys I know licking her clit and his cock, lying underneath the couple and getting splattered by the sex juices of the other couple.

Thirdly, there is always the opportunity to turn it into a double fuck - a turn-on for a lot of girls and the guys are usually amazed at the amount of pleasure they experience too. It goes from sex where the girl makes a lot of noise to sex where the girl is drowned out with the sounds of the guy's pleasure.

 

[Eric420]

For me... I have a pretty big cock, and if I dont bottom out I want to see how much my girl can take... I had an ex who could take an 11" carrot all the way, very hot memories.(she could take a beer bottle too!) Girls with shallow vaginas(lol) make me sad, nothing worse than seeing a big huge cock being wasted on a girl who cant take it all. A LOT of the porn I watch focuses on men with HUGE cocks. Women who can take on guys like ManDingo, Shane Diesel, Boz, Richard Mann, Sledgehammer, Sean Micheals, Lex Steel and let them penetrate them ALL the way... thats my shit!!! I guess its really cool to just see something so big disapear all the way inside a girl....... abracadabra, where did it go!?!

 

[D_Harry_Cox]

I share your husband's fantasy, just never acted it out yet in real life (please see my earlier thread today on this topic)

For me, there's also something about giving your girl something you don't have. You're still 'the provider' and you think that if you can control the situation, that she's not gonna go out and get a bigger cock on her own.

 

[dickman45885]

Fantasy of mine is to watch my wife fuck, and then fuck her. Will it ever happen...NO WAY...she is into one dude at a time. Why...well, dudes like to watch folks fuck...wild hot fucking, and knowing the f doing the fucking, and seeing her going wild on a cock, knowing she goes wild on your cock too....too much. I would love to see her cunt oozing cum, the mix of hers and another dudes...and then rubbing the mix of the cum on my cock, and then mixing my cum with the mix....HOT. I also love fucking a f for her dude while he watches...... and then watching him fuck his wife

 

[fortiesfun]

In his column, Savage Love, Dan Savage once wrote that the answer to all "why does my boyfriend/girlfriend like..." questions is "because s/he does." From vanilla sex to the kinkiest fetish, none of us can really explain why we like the thing we like. We just do. Its not that it isn't interesting, but just that it is unaswerable. Our desires are way too far below the surface to be available to introspection on this level.

Enjoy it. That is all you can do.

 

[Skull Mason]

I would love to see my girl get taken by a monster cock...especially if it was somewhat painful for her too. We both get turned on when I am fucking her and it hurts. She likes the thought of 'my man can hurt me with his cock', she says it is comforting and makes her feel safe that if I wanted to I could send her into oblivion orally or vaginally (or both) with my cock. What an overwhelming experience it can be...

 

[aborcrmbe2]

My boyfriend and I like to meet up with guys so I can have sex with them while he watches. We have met, and still look for, guys who are well endowed. I enjoy big cocks for obvious reasons but I was surprised to find out that the bigger the guy the more my b/f got turned on. Can anybody explain why he gets more turned on by seeing me with big cocks? I know it's not a penis envy thing, he can't quite explain it himself. I don't mind, I'm just curious.
Can anybody shed some light on this?

Been there, done that

Think about it...he's watching the show...dang right he want to see you take some monster cock. (if a horse was available he would be SO cool with that too) He knows what it feels like to be inside you (good) and here are these hot dudes with huge cocks doing you so he fantisizes that it is him with the hugest of cocks of all of them. With every thrust he can feel it and it turns him on...WAY on.

I doesn't matter how he measures up to the other guys, only that the other guys have visually huge cocks.

He is watching himself from a different angle is all it is.

NOTE TO YOU: dang girl, be sure you're protected from these random dudes, you don't know where they've been

 

[Jan039]

i think its the sound you make also, and the idea that you feel a big cock real good and deep, turns his on..
The knowing that you enjoy it really good, and the view of that turns him on.

 

[Ummagumma]

In his column, Savage Love, Dan Savage once wrote that the answer to all "why does my boyfriend/girlfriend like..." questions is "because s/he does." From vanilla sex to the kinkiest fetish, none of us can really explain why we like the thing we like. We just do. Its not that it isn't interesting, but just that it is unaswerable. Our desires are way too far below the surface to be available to introspection on this level.

Enjoy it. That is all you can do.

I can think of no better quote to leave lpsg on, very well put forties.

It's been fun ya'll, peace!

 

[D_Sheffield Thongbynder]

I can think of no better quote to leave lpsg on, very well put forties.

It's been fun ya'll, peace!

Huh? AA, is this an announcement of permanent departure?

 

[contortionist]

Although I'm by no means the biggest on this site I have experienced being 'used' by an older women for sex. She would call in a couple of times a week as her husband couldn't 'do it' any more. She told me she would relate her experiences to him and tell him how big I was. Apparently this would turn him on. Eventually he came with her to watch which was ok for a while but a little pathetic so I stopped the service. It's not nice watching a guy with his small dick out while his wife is being fucked in front of him. So it's not ALL good.

 

[nico61]

I would like to see my girlfriend too having sex with a very hung guy. I am average 6" and she told me that her former boyfriend was 8". It took 2 years to admit that she loved the feeling of a such a big cock and that sometimes she would like to experience it again.