why does my b/f like seeing me with a large penis?

[ruffboy]

no doubt its different for everyone, but it certainly is more comman than most people think, or admit. i've never done it, but the idea certainly turns me on big time and i think its because seeing/watching/experiencing a woman who is so totally wanton, and so into the experience that 1) she wants the 'ultimate' that those of us who are size obsessed view as the ultimate (the biggest dicks), and 2) she'll do anything to get it, she'll do it right in front of me, she'll totally let go and submit to her deepest desires. that's always a huge turnon, no matter the accessory (big cock, leather, whips and chains, toys, whatever)

 

[nico61]

Now we have some big dildos with a strap-on and sometimes she ask me to fuck her in a rude way, as her former boyfriend used to do. One year ago, when she discovered that it was a big turn on for me, she even asked him to join us but he didn't want. Anyway, we're having fun and we have some friends in MSN for webcam games with a hung guys.

 

[5104]

Face it! A guy wants to see if a bigger cock guy really can satisfy his woman better than he can. . . yup, and the answer often is yes.

Of course, the reason might be the woman's state of mind, performing in front of her man and knowing he must be humiliated, not actually the larger cock itself!

 

[Hefty]

I've been in the stud position more times than I can count. The husband/boyfriend invariably wants a hugely hung guy to fuck her in a way he can't himself, and he might get off on the cuckolding aspect, and even have bi fantasies (open or unconscious).

In the end, though, he gets to go home with his woman, and this is important. It is a safe, controlled environment.

Once I was invited as the extra cocksman by a couple. I entered her, thrusted gently about four times - after which she came, violently and uncontrollably. She even ejaculated, genuinely. He was totally and utterly turned on by the scene. Afterwards, he confirmed that it had to do with seeing her come just from feeling the size of my cock inside her: the sexuality of it, the horniness. He did not consciously feel humiliated, but it turned him on enormously to see her lose control like that.

 

[AverageJoe06]

Well, this seems like an appropriate thread for my first real post, since this is something that I'm *very* into. My on-again-off-again-depending-on-what-day-you-ask-me girlfriend and I have done a fair bit of swinging in the last few years, and this has been a staple of our sex life. Here's how it started.

Before we started swinging, during one of our breakups she started seeing this guy named Kurt. She would call me in the middle of the night to tell me how incredibly hung he was and how his manhood ripped her insides apart, and tell me wild stories about how she had laid him in front of strangers at a club with people taking pictures and videos. She was doing it to try and make me jealous at the time, which it did, but I found the thought of it incredibly arousing.

Then later on after we made up I was fooling around on her computer and found the pics of her and Kurt. Every word of it was true. Right down to the number of people watching. I got so turned on I couldn't stand it, and I actually got up a few times in the night and masturbated to the pics while she was sleeping. At first she didn't know I had found them, but I finally said something and let her know that I liked them. So we started looking at them together and she gave me a play-by-play commentary on each one.

After we started swinging together this was #1 on my Christmas list, and she's had a lot of hung studs since then for my amusement. :tongue: The appeal for me is a little bit of everything that's been said in this thread. Kind of like watching a porn, only live and in living color. There's also a little bit of the cuckold in me that wants to see her get plowed by a real man who can make her squeal like I can't. Mostly though, I think it's the role playing aspect of being able to put myself in the stud's place and pretend it's my dick making her squeal like that. I get to watch her enjoy something (and she DOES enjoy it, trust me) that I can never give her, and I get to be a witness to a truly awesome display of masculinity that I would never get to see otherwise. So basically, everybody who has posted is right.

But a word of caution, though.... this can be very much a case of "be careful what you wish for." The first time we actually did it, she got a little too into it for my taste and I cut it short, causing a very bad experience for all concerned. The first time I heard her make sounds I had never heard before, I couldn't take it. But we talked it over afterward and sorted things out, and it's now a favorite practice for both of us.

 

[ruffboy]

averagejoe, that's pretty flippin' hot...DANG!!! would love to hear her side of it too

 

[5104]

Before we started swinging, during one of our breakups she starteBut a word of caution, though.... this can be very much a case of "be careful what you wish for." The first time we actually did it, she got a little too into it for my taste and I cut it short, causing a very bad experience for all concerned. The first time I heard her make sounds I had never heard before, I couldn't take it. But we talked it over afterward and sorted things out, and it's now a favorite practice for both of us.

I remember a porn movie with an actual story line from the 60's or early 70's in which I frustrated guy pressures his non-orgasmic wife into group sex so he can get at some "hot" women. . . However, of course, it turns-out his wife IS orgasmic with bigger cocked guys! He ends up settling for a life of masturbating while she fucks big dicked guys!

Unfortunately, IT COULD HAPPEN!

 

[AverageJoe06]

He ends up settling for a life of masturbating while she fucks big dicked guys!

LOL Although I meant what I said about it being dangerous business, I don't think I'm in any danger of that. We have a plenty great sex life of our own, and she has let me know in no uncertain terms that she likes me the best. I'm satisfied with that, and I have no reason to doubt her.

I've received a few PMs about this post, and I apparently gave the impression that this is all we do. Far from it... we have a fantastic sex life on our own and do/have done just about everything that a couple can do. Boning big dick studs is just something that we do on the side for amusement because we both enjoy it.

 

[5104]

Yeah, it's not like your gf had never experienced orgasm before trying some bigger cocks.

She must stay with you for various reasons. But what if she clicked with a guy who had all your characteristics she loves AND the bigger cock she needs for ultimate pleasures?

But, of course, this is your 'on again - off again' g/f, not a wife, so indeed SHE DOES find better periodically AND GOES WITH THE BEST she can get. That would be exciting!

 

[nutsack]

Having this fetish myself i find it hard to understand as well. But my instincts tell me it's a test of her selfish gene, which is the most important gene a being can have to survive(replicate): is she going to be selfish and go with better (turns you on) or not be selfish and subordinate her wants for you (turns you off).

It's the same sort of fetish of guys who want to have their wife impregnated by other men, if she goes along with it she's obvioustly selfish and the guy might escalate this to see how selfish she truely is. Self-humiliation, wearing panties, sucking the guy off, catering her, financial fetish, etc. If she were at one point to put her enjoyment second because she doesn't want to bruise the cuckold's feelings then the cuckold will not be turned on in that instance. So that's just my gut feeling about all this. Just a test of selfishness that's all.

So my suggestion to you is to enjoy yourself as much as possible and to tell him about it. He'd probably get turned on if you start humiliating him just a little at this point. :wink:

 

[B_Trevor3]

I've been contacted many times by guys wanting to watch me fuck their wives with my oversized cock. I always wondered what's up and have gotten to be friends with some of the husbands and posed the question to them that you have asked. They all said that the sight of my huge cock stretching their wives pussy really turned them on. They also said that watching my huge cock in action also was a real turn on. When they realized that I was ok with them lusting after my big cock, a lop of them wanted to participate. I think a lot of them are fascinated and get really turned on by large cocks.

 

[nico61]

I've been contacted many times by guys wanting to watch me fuck their wives with my oversized cock. I always wondered what's up and have gotten to be friends with some of the husbands and posed the question to them that you have asked. They all said that the sight of my huge cock stretching their wives pussy really turned them on. They also said that watching my huge cock in action also was a real turn on. When they realized that I was ok with them lusting after my big cock, a lop of them wanted to participate. I think a lot of them are fascinated and get really turned on by large cocks.

I have never experienced a real situation but I must say that this is a true, at least for me. It would be a really big excitement to me seeing her enjoy a really big cock. Even writing this is exciting or when she tells me the way her former boyfriend used to fuck her with his 8" thick cock. What can I say? I hope one day she will ask me to do it for real. I think it would be the strongest sexual experience I have ever had.

 

[nico61]

I remember a porn movie with an actual story line from the 60's or early 70's

I'd love to watch this movie with my girlfriend. Do you remember the title? Thank you.

 

[hardten]

For what it's worth I'm trying to get my girlfriend to do the same thing. I'm 10x6 and would luv to c her take something bigger than me guess it's a dominace thing ?

 

[RnR]

I really appreciate this thread and all the responses. For a while, I couldn't understand why my hubby would want to watch me w/ another guy, let alone someone who was larger. (And he does just fine, thanks!)

While I am not sure he would be classified as a "cuckhold" (don't really like labels)he said that just watching me enjoy myself would be such a turn on for him. At first, I thought that was because he wanted to do another woman while I watch, and this was his way to make it okay. Now, I realize it is something that is very common among guys. (And no, we haven't tried it--YET!)

Thanks again!

 

[nico61]

While I am not sure he would be classified as a "cuckhold" (don't really like labels)he said that just watching me enjoy myself would be such a turn on for him.

Hi.
It is not always about cuckold, sometimes it is simply "wife sharer". Cuckold is very often excited by feeling inferior or he likes to be treated badly by his wife and/or bull. Wife sharer is simply excited to watch his partner having sex with another man. For example I don't think I am cuckold but I would like to watch her trying a really big cock. I would like to join in as well because I am a little bit bsx. Anyway the important thing is to have a lot of fun .

 

[peachybum]

Hi.
It is not always about cuckold, sometimes it is simply "wife sharer". Cuckold is very often excited by feeling inferior or he likes to be treated badly by his wife and/or bull. Wife sharer is simply excited to watch his partner having sex with another man. For example I don't think I am cuckold but I would like to watch her trying a really big cock. I would like to join in as well because I am a little bit bsx. Anyway the important thing is to have a lot of fun .

I'd thought I'd contribute towards this thread seeing as I started it ages ago, lol. Thanks for all your contributions, I understand this fantasy a lot better. I don't consider us to be in cuckold relationship- we looked into that via other forums and found alot of people living in pure fantasy rather than actually doing it. I do like the 'wife sharer' term, but also prefer 'hotwife' as there is a very big hotwife scene out there.

I guess I posted the original thread as both my b/f and I were into this, but even after discussing it we still couldn't get our heads around it. Also, for those of you expressing concern, thanks, we're big believers in safe sex and we're very picky!
Check out a real event that I've semi-fictionalised:
http://www.lpsg.org/fictitious-stories/37829-semi-fictionalised-true-strory.html

 

[Reticent horse]

I can understand your boyfriend's interest. I am always turned on when I see a guy bigger than me. As you can see from the Avatar, I have a big cock even when I am not fully hard, but it turns me on to see an even bigger guy.

 

[nico61]

I can understand your boyfriend's interest. I am always turned on when I see a guy bigger than me. As you can see from the Avatar, I have a big cock even when I am not fully hard, but it turns me on to see an even bigger guy.

I can add that we have a friend in MSN with whom we sometimes play with a webcam and he is really BIG (10 REAL inches). Recently he told me that he uses to watch some sites with huge cocks (fakes, and he didn't know that) because this turnes him on.
I mean, this is really incredible and it is a big fortune that a man can't decide the size of his penis othervise we could kill with the monsters :-D.
And who can say what is the reason? Because we like to feel inferior? Or, we get excited watching the penis we would like to have? Or, we would like to see our partner enjoy sex in different way? For me it is really very difficult to understand the reasons.

 

[carlton10]

This past July 4th weekend I was at Cypress Cove resort and had been conversing with a couple over drinks at the bar and was invited back to their room for some more conversation and drinks- We were talking outside on the small patio of the room for quite sometime and the wife excused herself and went in the room- The husband asked me if I thought his wife was attractive and I said yes and immediatley wanted to know if I would like to have sex with her adding that she really liked well endowed uncut men _I ws taken aback at first but guess my libido and the liquor overcame my initial reluctance and agreed-He stated he would just like to watch -She seemed to enjoy playing with my foreskin and pulling it until i got erect and she would mouth the shaft and stroke me and pull and lick at my balsac but didnt suck me as they said they always play safe-I orally pleased her to an orgasm and then the husband handed me a condom and I fucked her missionary style hard and fast at both their requests -then doggie at their request which led to her second orgasm -then he handed me a dental dam to rim her a bit which she enjoyed and I was ready to mount her anally and was teasing the gate when she declined and just asked that I shoot for them whereby she laid on the bed and fingered herself as I stroked and shot =Other than giving a few suggestions and handing me protection devices,the husband just sat and watched, So it was a weird and interesting stay -I cant say I would go out and do it again anytime soon but it was an interesting experience