i've been thinking about this, and its very hard to describe it exactly
For me, it's not about seeing good-looking toned bodies, because "average" bodies/overweight people having sex in a porn movie will still turn me on!
I think alot of it is to do with the nature of sex - if we lived in a world where sex wasn't seen as a "naughty" thing to do, we wouldnt be as aroused by porn.
In the real world, alot of the arousal comes from the idea that you about to have sex with someone you have a connection with; love, affection or at the very least knowing them personally!
I think ultimately, it is because we can imagine that we are one of the people in the scene - whenever I see two people in a nice missionary position, I always imagine how it would feel if was to swap places with the guy, and be having sex with the same girl, in the same room etc.
So, why does porn turn YOU on? :smile:
For me, it's not about seeing good-looking toned bodies, because "average" bodies/overweight people having sex in a porn movie will still turn me on!
I think alot of it is to do with the nature of sex - if we lived in a world where sex wasn't seen as a "naughty" thing to do, we wouldnt be as aroused by porn.
In the real world, alot of the arousal comes from the idea that you about to have sex with someone you have a connection with; love, affection or at the very least knowing them personally!
I think ultimately, it is because we can imagine that we are one of the people in the scene - whenever I see two people in a nice missionary position, I always imagine how it would feel if was to swap places with the guy, and be having sex with the same girl, in the same room etc.
So, why does porn turn YOU on? :smile: