Why Don’t Women Sext?

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Surely you have all the free time to watch me edge every time you sign in. I might just stay in the same position with the camera under my computer desk. You can watch me speed wank. I won't even change positions or camera angles. You down? Oh and due to ridiculous bandwidth it will be very blurry. You're likely to miss the cum shot while you have other browser windows open looking up tiki masala recipes. Just tell me how it turns you on the entire timeline though.
Tikka masala is better by far.
 

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I'm not here to get you off.

I'm here to have conversations with interesting people. I'm already in a monogamous relationship. This isn't a hook up site for everyone
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I’ve sexted. I’m good at it. No pics though. That’s not going to happen.

Men tend to fail epically at it. “Oh yeah”, “so good” just doesn’t cut it erotically. I think I end up doing all the work most of the time, filling in the blanks with my own imagination. It get can get boring. I need more. I want the picture from his imagination, knowing what he sees. Not a lot of guys are good at that.
 
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Huh, this is new information... I LOVE sexting because it kind of blows my mind when I come out with stuff I didn’t even know I had in me, and that’s what turns me on. That’s kinda wild that you’d charge for it - not a judgment on anyone who does, but for me, I feel that would take the fun out of the experience of writing pure filth, as I’m feeling it. I never write anything I’m not in that moment desiring - it has to feel real and lucid if I’m going to divert free time to such endeavours. Turning that into a job would be a major turn off, I think. I dunno, depends how much.... ;)

But seriously, I fucking love writing porn because it turns me on. It’s because of the cognitive dissonance between how I present myself at work, in life, and who I really am in private. I’ve been chatting with (*cough* mentally fucking) someone on here, all week, and I just can’t seem to get enough of it. I guess it comes down to opportunity and chemistry, and particular shared deviancies.

God, I love this site. So much to learn.
 
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Huh, this is new information... I LOVE sexting because it kind of blows my mind when I come out with stuff I didn’t even know I had in me, and that’s what turns me on. That’s kinda wild that you’d charge for it - not a judgment on anyone who does, but for me, I feel that would take the fun out of the experience of writing pure filth, as I’m feeling it. I never write anything I’m not in that moment desiring - it has to feel real and lucid if I’m going to divert free time to such endeavours. Turning that into a job would be a major turn off, I think. I dunno, depends how much.... ;)

But seriously, I fucking love writing porn because it turns me on. It’s because of the cognitive dissonance between how I present myself at work, in life, and who I really am in private. I’ve been chatting with (*cough* mentally fucking) someone on here, all week, and I just can’t seem to get enough of it. I guess it comes down to opportunity and chemistry, and particular shared deviancies.

God, I love this site. So much to learn.
There you are!! I knew you existed lmao!!
 

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There you are!! I knew you existed lmao!!

Indeed, there are women out there who are into it. Just not as many as you'd maybe like to encounter.

Btw, welcome to the site @Viviandreaming

Always lovely to see a new lady contributing to the forums.
 
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writing pure filth, as I’m feeling it. I never write anything I’m not in that moment desiring - it has to feel real and lucid if I’m going to divert free time to such endeavours
Now, THAT, I'll do. I hella enjoy erotica (both writing and receiving) but I don't send pics for the reasons mentioned above.
 
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I sent a cute nude photo to a friend last night in the middle of the night. When he woke up, he sent back a sweet compliment and this meme.

D Q 4 E B A B Y on Instagram: “”

I'm still laughing. Now he's just sending me a bunch of funny dog memes that have nothing to do with sex. I appreciate this for two reasons. He is insanely allergic to dogs. Like... Before my car was totalled, I used to keep a few sexy outfits in the back because if any of my pets got even a little dander on my clothes, and it trasfered to him, he would swell up like a balloon. A big, itchy, Macy's Parade balloon. So, he puts a fair amount of energy into convincing himself he doesn't like animals, even though he'd really like to have a fluffy pet. I've caught him sneaking steak and fish to the neighbor's dog, and throwing ice at the dog's water dish on hot days, and he had a cat with his first live-in girlfriend, before he developed severe allergies. So, finding funny dog memes just to make me smile is very nice of him. The second reason is I know this is his anti-social part of the week. As a barber, he will have intimate contact with 50 or more clients, most of whom will be strangers/walk-ins, over the next three days. He dreads this. He just doesn't know what else to do for a living yet. Some weeks he just totally ignores me, or has one or two word answers for me if I text, gets off the phone within two minutes if I call. He is indulging my desire to have contact with him even though he's stressed out about human contact right now.

And that first meme was right. I miss him, and I had been missing him the last time we hooked up, and our crazed rutting probably looked just like that. LOL
 
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I never did sext. Sent a nude ONCE via kik to a great guy on his birthday. But that was not on a sexuality basis as he was a friend.
I have difficulty finding the pragmatism behind it. Even with my bf. Real one is around the corner so why bother losing time with a knock off version? It may be a different story if the guy thinks/knows that he will never meet me. Well, there are gazillions of women with better bodies than me all over the internet. Why waste time?
AND, I was told once that having a regular chat exploring sexualities of each other was way better than sexting. I don't see the benefit but guys seem to get the hang of it. Maybe depends on the answers they get.
 

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I've been sexting up a couple of dudes lately. You want your man to eat out of your hand? Say something like this:

I cant wait to get on my knees, kneeling before you, waiting eagerly to worship your cock. I will bring you to the edge of orgasm and then stop. While I make eye contact with you. Over and over again until your balls tingle. Then I'm going to hop on it and fuck your brains out until I cant take it anymore. Then you're going to give me your thick, hot load where ever you want it.



Gets them everytime!
 
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I never did sext. Sent a nude ONCE via kik to a great guy on his birthday. But that was not on a sexuality basis as he was a friend.
I have difficulty finding the pragmatism behind it. Even with my bf. Real one is around the corner so why bother losing time with a knock off version? It may be a different story if the guy thinks/knows that he will never meet me. Well, there are gazillions of women with better bodies than me all over the internet. Why waste time?
AND, I was told once that having a regular chat exploring sexualities of each other was way better than sexting. I don't see the benefit but guys seem to get the hang of it. Maybe depends on the answers they get.

I'm not trying to be weird, but I doubt you are boring to look at, based on your verification pic.

And I don't think it's even about finding the most attractive possible person to have an exchange with for these guys who seek this kind of activity, it's about the interaction itself. If it was just about looks they would just look up pics and videos with with they can't interact.

Talking to a real person makes the event, not the look of that person necessarily.

I might be completely wrong about that...
 

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I'm not trying to be weird, but I doubt you are boring to look at, based on your verification pic.

And I don't think it's even about finding the most attractive possible person to have an exchange with for these guys who seek this kind of activity, it's about the interaction itself. If it was just about looks they would just look up pics and videos with with they can't interact.

Talking to a real person makes the event, not the look of that person necessarily.

I might be completely wrong about that...
I don't think you are weird. On the contrary, I find your reasoning to be intriguing as I get quite a few different perspectives forcing me to question mine.
Same here. I never thought of it this way. While it still does not change my idea about sexting, I can understand them better now. Maybe a little more leeway in my responses is in order. Thank you.

PS= Not being conceited but your assumption about my looks are correct I guess. Or so I have been told. :)
 
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I never did sext. Sent a nude ONCE via kik to a great guy on his birthday. But that was not on a sexuality basis as he was a friend.
I have difficulty finding the pragmatism behind it. Even with my bf. Real one is around the corner so why bother losing time with a knock off version? It may be a different story if the guy thinks/knows that he will never meet me. Well, there are gazillions of women with better bodies than me all over the internet. Why waste time?
AND, I was told once that having a regular chat exploring sexualities of each other was way better than sexting. I don't see the benefit but guys seem to get the hang of it. Maybe depends on the answers they get.
I totally get what you’re saying and I agree with you. My perspective is slightly different in that I pick my audience very carefully. I know exactly what kind of guy I’m looking for - I can tell in the first 3 messages if there’s something worth exploring, and then I only engage (and I mean ENGAGE), if there’s chemistry and if he’s willing to work for it. And the interaction has to be genuine and f u c k i n g hot. I’m not interested in anything less.

And I agree with @Tight_N_Juicy, it’s not the shape of your body, per se, it’s a heady mix of chemistry and intimacy that can make it an extremely arousing experience. This whole week, I’ve been trying to work whilst feeling constantly turned on, it’s soooo distracting and I love it.
 

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I totally get what you’re saying and I agree with you.

And I agree with @Tight_N_Juicy, it’s not the shape of your body, per se, it’s a heady mix of chemistry and intimacy that can make it an extremely arousing experience.

The three of us do agree but it falls on deaf ears when it comes to most of the usual bunch that send me the random message. As I said before, my approach to their HomerSimpsonesque approaches will not change but I will do it with a wee bit of empathy from now on. Well, I'll try anyway.
 
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The three of us do agree but it falls on deaf ears when it comes to most of the usual bunch that send me the random message. As I said before, my approach to their HomerSimpsonesque approaches will not change but I will do it with a wee bit of empathy from now on. Well, I'll try anyway.
I make it known on my info page, that I want to have to ask to see their cock and maybe I’ve just been lucky, but the kind of messages I get, are almost all, very gracious and, frankly, tickled that I have a TERMS OF ENGAGEMENT. What doesn’t work for me gets ‘ignored’, quickly - I don’t give a shit, off they go. Try that, see it it brings a different cut of man to the yard. And report back!
 
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I've written smut/erotica for fun. I've done pervy text based chat RPG for fun. I don't give out my number casually. So, no, I am not going to "sext" with a stranger. Motherfuckers haven't a snowballs chance in hell of getting my number.

I was talking purely about cam shows that are one on one being either for a sweetie or for pay.
 
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Ah, that’s outside of my field of experience - I’ve not ventured into cam-world. I prefer private invite only conversations in anonymous apps like KIK.

But hey, whatever floats your boat.
 

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I’m not a fan of sexting in the traditional sense to be honest, however do enjoy some banter in my albums especially... my hubby introduced me to this site and initially I was very apprehensive about it, but soon began to enjoy it. The naughty chat, and teasing really turns me and my hubby on and fuels our love of role play.

Whilst I do engage in some inbox banter, I prefer to do it out on the open of my album pics and enjoy the thought that guys and girls get off on my pics.

Like others, my experience of some guys who want to private chat has not been great anyway, and conversations can be short if all you want me to do is talk about you cock. Selfishly, I am on here for a bit of fun and banter to spice things up in the bedroom.