Why don't more women drool over penises?

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Vincentr1: I have certainly noticed that most soft and hard core porn focuses on the female body. Not that I'm complaining, actually I'm quite pleased with the number of absolutely georgeous female images out there. It helps me look on the bright side of life. However recently I've been jealous of the way women can control men just by looking good. I'd like to have the same control over women. At least I'd like to get some feedback on whether or not the occasional lady looks at me and thinks I look good, hot, or whatever. Women are kind of sneaky. Most of them won't tell you when you look good. Either they don't want men to know they too like to chase what looks good for fear of being reduced to the level of a man, or they really just don't care. Here are some questions for you to offer your responses to:

1.) Why isn't full frontal nudity for men allowed in an R rated movie?

2.) Why isn't there a Maxim, or similar, magazine for women?

3.) Why don't more women pay for porn?

4.) Why do women like to see men wear baggy non fitted clothes which conceal a man's shape while they themselves reveal as much as possible in an effort to appear attractive?

5.) What's the use of having an 8.5" cock if you can't show it off to the ladies and have them give you a little feedback? I'd like to get feedback from women other than my wife but there's no forum to do it. Yes it's my ego but hey, it's something I'd like to do.

I'm done ranting. I appreciate your candor. ;D

 

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SpeedoGuy: Vin:

I've often asked myself the same questions. I think the answers to your questions lie in the fact that women tend not to be so visually motivated about sex as men are.

In other words, I think most women would prefer a well written erotic story to a glossy sexual photo spread. Vice versa for men. There are exceptions, but I think they are rare.

SG

 

[Max]

[quote author=Vincentr1 link=board=meetgreet;num=1073337278;start=0#0 date=01/05/04 at 13:05:38] However recently I've been jealous of the way women can control men just by looking good. I'd like to have the same control over women. At least I'd like to get some feedback on whether or not the occasional lady looks at me and thinks I look good, hot, or whatever. Women are kind of sneaky. Most of them won't tell you when you look good..... [/quote]

Vincent,

No way can I answer all of those questions .. but they all seem to me to be in the area of the fundamental differences between male and female approaches to sex, relationships, the lot. Some say that men are far more visually stimulated, although the fact that my teenage daughter joined thousands of others screaming at J Timberlake when he came to London recently (a phenomenon which has no exact parallel the other way about) counts against it, I think.

Maybe partly it is biologically conditioned ... after all your orgasm and the pleasure you get from your 8.5" cock is essential to the continuation of the species in a way that the female orgasm and the pleasure she may get from it are not. It seems as men we are simply more sexually driven and physically focused in that particular way; a man's sexual appeal for a woman is just as strong, but probably more complex. She just goes for other things about you, your looks, your style your character, the whole picture. (And in the end let's face it --- there are plenty of women who may look good on the surface as they flash their assets at you -- but whom any man with any sense would steer well clear of ... so maybe we aren't as easily "controlled" as all that.)

In any case no need to feel jealous and to think of it in terms of women controlling men ... my guess is that overall women spend far more time and energy obsessing about us than we ever do about them. What I see with my sons and daughter and their friends confirms this.

As a man you have far more power than maybe you think ... but most of it is not located between your legs.

 

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wvalady1968: Vincent, Max and SG have answered this well. They're right about men being more visually oriented and aroused than women.

But "Why don't more women drool over penises?"
We do, Hon, we do.

[quote author=Vincentr1 link=board=meetgreet;num=1073337278;start=0#0 date=01/05/04 at 13:05:38] However recently I've been jealous of the way women can control men just by looking good. I'd like to have the same control over women. At least I'd like to get some feedback on whether or not the occasional lady looks at me and thinks I look good, hot, or whatever. Women are kind of sneaky. Most of them won't tell you when you look good. Either they don't want men to know they too like to chase what looks good for fear of being reduced to the level of a man, or they really just don't care. Here are some questions for you to offer your responses to:[/quote]

Okay, I wish I had the kind of control you claim, but that aside, yes, women ARE SNEAKY. We will look when you aren't expecting it. We do appreciate a cute butt, a nice bulge, and other physical factors. Face it, Vincent, if we acted the way we want to, we'd be labeled sluts. And we don't want that.

I have a lot of fun looking without being found out. And when the rare man does ''catch'' me, he usually is shocked and surprised. One guy looked at me like "Me?", and I somehow got the courage to smile and wink. [Then I flew down a side aisle of the store and got out of there quickly.]

A tip to locating women who do this, they're smiling.  

1.) Why isn't full frontal nudity for men allowed in an R rated movie?

It's an American thing. It is allowed outside this puritanical country. Society dictates what is allowed.

2.) Why isn't there a Maxim, or similar, magazine for women?

Because they wouldn't sell? Just a guess.

3.) Why don't more women pay for porn?

Umm, because we don't have to?

4.) Why do women like to see men wear baggy non fitted clothes which conceal a man's shape while they themselves reveal as much as possible in an effort to appear attractive?

Read some of these posts re that subject. Many men do so because they're ashamed or trying to not be conspicuous. Many wives insist that their husbands dress that way, which I totally understand. But there's a whole contingent of us out here that wish tight, flat front trousers would make a comeback.

5.) What's the use of having an 8.5" cock if you can't show it off to the ladies and have them give you a little feedback? I'd like to get feedback from women other than my wife but there's no forum to do it. Yes it's my ego but hey, it's something I'd like to do.

Perhaps you need to post a picture on one of those "Rate my ...." sites. There are several of them and some of our posters have their pics on them. They are appreciated by many people.  

Allie
:-*

 

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Tender: i dont like that belief that men are more visually stimulated.
at least its not true for me in any way.
he doesnt even have to have any clothes OFF, LOL!!
i can guess!!
oh, did i say uniforms?

anyway, i think society has 'wired' women to believe that- so they react that way more.
i dont think there is as vast a difference in men and women regarding that.
true --men are quicker to show physical symptoms of being aroused... but that just means women need MORE!!
Tender

 

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SpeedoGuy: [quote author=wvalady1968 link=board=meetgreet;num=1073337278;start=0#3 date=01/05/04 at 15:52:44]

...but that aside, yes, women ARE SNEAKY. We will look when you aren't expecting it. We do appreciate a cute butt, a nice bulge, and other physical factors.
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Yeehaaww!!! I knew it. I just knew it! ;D

 

[benderten2001]

[quote author=SpeedoGuy link=board=meetgreet;num=1073337278;start=0#5 date=01/05/04 at 21:17:36]

"...Yeehaaww!!! I knew it. I just knew it!"    ;D


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Yep! I couldn't agree more!

I'm glad we have these ladies around here who will (finally!) speak the truth! ;D

Speedo, just like you, I have suspected it all along!

 

[jonb]

I thought 90% of penises drooled over women.

 

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roedhunt: All the women here are right on the money. Another way of finding out if a woman is looking at you or other things , she will be facing your direction but when you look, she will only divert her eyes. Men, I've notice, do the obvious thing, they move their entire head. We just move our eyes...heheh Try wearing mirrored sunglasses and have your head aiming away from the women as to look out the corner of your eyes. I've done that just so I can keep looking.... and looking..

Women don't rent porn? DUH... How many porns are aimed for women? We have to fast forward thru all the women on women scenes.. which leaves about 10 minutes of straight sex. Plus, aside from gay porn, how many porns have men on the cover? Trust me.. if they had a pic of the actors on the cover. more women would. Finally on this subject.. have you even SEEN the men in the porn? Yuck....Not to mention some women are too embarassed to even go near a porn section (especially alone...)

As far as clothing goes, I don't want the flat front jeans making a comeback... It does nothing to enhance the bulge..But I wish the button fly would come back. Oh yea oh yea..

 

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wvalady1968: [quote author=roedhunt link=board=meetgreet;num=1073337278;start=0#8 date=01/06/04 at 23:01:17]All the women here are right on the money. Another way of finding out if a woman is looking at you or other things , she will be facing your direction but when you look, she will only divert her eyes. Men, I've notice, do the obvious thing, they move their entire head. We just move our eyes...heheh Try wearing mirrored sunglasses and have your head aiming away from the women as to look out the corner of your eyes. I've done that just so I can keep looking.... and looking.. [/quote]

True, Annie! I'm always afraid that moving my head would be a give away. And it's easier to escape detection by just sliding my eyes elsewhere, oh so casually!


@SG and Bender

 

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zaneblue: Frankly I think it's physiological. There are lots of things in modern society that decrease a woman's drive--birth control pills, antidepressants, caffeine, lack of omega-3 fatty acids, etc. So for most women to be truly turned on, love has to be involved. Didn't used to be that way. In England before the importation and universal adoption of the habit of tea-drinking, the codpiece (often padded) was standard attire, the Shakespearean running joke was "those women, just can't get enough cock," and it was the men who dressed like peacocks. Women used to be very visual. A hundred years after tea-drinking was taken up, there was Jane Austen.

And now with three-quarters of women on either hormonal birth control or antidepressants, it's a wonder guys are getting laid at all. There may be some women out there with good genes who are resistant. But I think women were designed to have a much higher sex drive than most men. We've lost that, and I'm trying to change it back.

 

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roedhunt: Absolutely! My married friend had to switch her medicine because her sex drive decreased.

Actually I also believe that women were taught that the penis was/is a foul and disgusting thing. A womans body is beautiful (I disagree) and a mans naked body is a joke. When a male streaker goes by, people laugh. If its a womans... we ooo and aaah..

How many magazines can you find designed for women that has male nudity? One? Years ago, I was at a large magazine rack and searched for Playgirl... It was next to Good Housekeeping for crying out loud!!! So I counted the others. 42 for str8 men and/or bi/lesbian women, 6 for gay men and ONE for str8 women! What does this tell women?

Give me a naked man anyday ;D... See? Not ALL women are bi.....

 

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Vincentr1: So ladies, if someone was to make an attempt at a LPSG nude male ??? calendar, do you think it would sell?

 

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wvalady1968: Definitely! Put my name at the top of the list? I'll take several. They'd make great gifts.

 

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jerkin4-10: [quote author=wvalady1968 link=board=meetgreet;num=1073337278;start=0#13 date=01/07/04 at 12:50:21]Definitely! Put my name at the top of the list? I'll take several. They'd make great gifts.

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or at least one in every room...hehehe

 

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roedhunt: One in every room? Hah! Are you kidding me? They might not buy it on their own, but I guarantee if I bought each one of my friends one... Whahoo! They'd either share it with their OTHER friends or hide it just for themselves ;D! Here where I live, calenders come out from the Firemen... It's sold out every year...

Sooooo, is someone offering to make one?... Administrator.....are you listening?

 

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longelephantballs: "But I wish the button fly would come back. Oh yea oh yea.. "
"But there's a whole contingent of us out here that wish tight, flat front trousers would make a comeback. "

Hey, whatever happened to individual expression. Why wait for everybody else to do it. If you like those kind of clothes, start wearing them. You don't NEED the crowd to follow, or do you?

 

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wvalady1968: [quote author=longelephantballs link=board=meetgreet;num=1073337278;start=0#16 date=01/11/04 at 07:28:39]"But I wish the button fly would come back. Oh yea oh yea.. "
"But there's a whole contingent of us out here that wish tight, flat front trousers would make a comeback. "

    Hey, whatever happened to individual expression. Why wait for everybody else to do it. If you like those kind of clothes, start wearing them. You don't NEED the crowd to follow, or do you?

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Darlin, I don't want to wear them, I want you guys to wear them!

 

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SpeedoGuy: A calendar?

I'd participate anonymously! Just like my posts here!

SG

 

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jayjay: I wear button fly I think its sexy.

oops forgot tell u all that i'm new to this place hope its ok and Vincent's right and i also think that society is hiding the male penis as a bad thing. I'm sure most women would like to see fully naked men on tv, magazines but there isn't any.