Why Don't Women Often Acknowledge That Penis Size Is A Major Factor In Judging Male Attractiveness?

[deleted1138933]

I know a couple of women who prefer a SMALL penis, a larger one is uncomfortable for them.

My other friends wife left him (big cock 9.5”) for someone with a small cock, and he didn’t have more money either. So your proven wrong on both counts there.

I have other friends who have smaller / small cocks and their wives are very happy with them.

Did you just read any of that? Could you comprehend this?

You are very immature in your outlook.

I still suggest you seek counselling.

Aside from that I’m not interested in your response because it will be just as illogical as your other posts.

You’ve made this whole conversation a waste of time - I’m leaving.

A couple (2?) out of how many billion in the world? Smaller compared to 9.5 can bec6.5 or 7? What will counseling fix? Both accounts? Its the others who claim money is more important for lust and physical attraction.

 

[Breadoherd]

Bro there's a reason why all they talk about is dick size in their girl talk with their girlfriends.
There's a reason why visible huge bulge most likely will get u a hookup and visible muscles probably won't as easily, same with cute face.
You need some effort with cute face and masculine body.
With huge dick, you don't need effort, it's just important women to see it and u will get hookups easy.

It's quite sad, but it is how it is. It's explainable with evolution theory and why women always prefer bigger visually. Bigger the penis, the more arousal they feel.

 

[deleted4500261]

The Truth About "Girl Inches": Why Women Overestimate Penis Size

This is an interesting read for anyone so inclined. It’s not to prove a point. I just thought it was informative and kind of touches on some of this stuff.

 

[deleted4500261]

Bro there's a reason why all they talk about is dick size in their girl talk with their girlfriends.
There's a reason why visible huge bulge most likely will get u a hookup and visible muscles probably won't as easily, same with cute face.
You need some effort with cute face and masculine body.
With huge dick, you don't need effort, it's just important women to see it and u will get hookups easy.

It's quite sad, but it is how it is. It's explainable with evolution theory and why women always prefer bigger visually. Bigger the penis, the more arousal they feel.

No, you’re absolutely right. Face, body, smile, eye contact, personality, ability to form a complete cohesive sentence....all of that is secondary to the bulge in your pants. It’s true that almost all male/female interaction starts with her seeing a bulge and him winking at her knowingly as her face goes red and he takes her by the hand and pile drives her by the dumpster, no words spoken, leaving her an orgasmic puddle in the alley, her life changed forever for the better.
Thank god personality never comes into play or some people might be in real trouble. Phew. Thank the almighty for the superiority of the big dick bulge. Excuse me I need to go get laid. Some fine lady just spotted the outline of my dong and needs my immediate attention, if you get my drift.

 

[Brian S]

Who says I cannot get one? But its not for the right reasons. They like my personality, my heart etc.

Its only after they get to know me that they like my feelings, values, sense of humor, economic stability, intellect etc., not because of attraction and only after they already stated who they find hot or physical attributes they like, and probably failed with them.

Imagine listing these attributes as reasons why women like you, but then saying it's not for the right reasons...

 

[Breadoherd]

No, you’re absolutely right. Face, body, smile, eye contact, personality, ability to form a complete cohesive sentence....all of that is secondary to the bulge in your pants. It’s true that almost all male/female interaction starts with her seeing a bulge and him winking at her knowingly as her face goes red and he takes her by the hand and pile drives her by the dumpster, no words spoken, leaving her an orgasmic puddle in the alley, her life changed forever for the better.
Thank god personality never comes into play or some people might be in real trouble. Phew. Thank the almighty for the superiority of the big dick bulge. Excuse me I need to go get laid. Some fine lady just spotted the outline of my dong and needs my immediate attention, if you get my drift.

Ngl, that was the best sarcastic reply I've ever got.
Still, as a well endowed guy to the other. You can't really say it doesn't matter. I think it matters more than we think at least for hookups and just fun.

 

[deleted1138933]

Imagine listing these attributes as reasons why women like you, but then saying it's not for the right reasons...

Exactly. Why would anybody want to be in a relationship knowing the other person lusts and desires somebody else, and they physically want and prefer something you do not have and never will be able to give/provide? Why would anybody want to be in a position where you always have to be compensating for your shortcomings and know you are only second best and being compared? I an not saying the other things are not also important, but why would anybody want to be with someone who has no physical attraction desire or some lust toward you, knowing you do not fulfill them entirely? So for those saying that the problem is my personality, attitude, etc, no it isn’t

 

[longstroke7]

You can tell how many guys in here actually spend time talking to women by the amount of bullshit being spewed.

You think women can tell how big your cock is before they sleep with you? Unless you walk around wearing gray sweats or basketball shorts all day where your cock/bulge will be visible, most women can't tell, nor do they care.

If you can't fuck worth a damn it doesn't matter how big your dick is, you're a shitty lover. Period. Men are the ones obsessed with dick size, women, not so much. If you think all that you need to maintain a relationship with a woman is to have a big hard 8 inch muscle dick, you're in for a world of disappointment

 

[Nigel Atkinson]

Women aren’t walking around with rulers telling men to whip it out so they can have a measure. A good looking guy will get a woman’s attention far before dick size even comes into play. Like longstroke just mentioned, having a big dick is certainly meaningless if you can’t fuck. There are a few guys in porn who I’m thinking of right now with big dicks and they have a terrible stroke. There are a good portion of women who can not orgasm off of penetration, so it’s really best to not get hung up on dick size.

 

[Brian S]

Exactly. Why would anybody want to be in a relationship knowing the other person lusts and desires somebody else, and they physically want and prefer something you do not have and never will be able to give/provide? Why would anybody want to be in a position where you always have to be compensating for your shortcomings and know you are only second best and being compared? I an not saying the other things are not also important, but why would anybody want to be with someone who has no physical attraction desire or some lust toward you, knowing you do not fulfill them entirely? So for those saying that the problem is my personality, attitude, etc, no it isn’t

Oh honey, I'm sorry but it's time to grow up. Nobody will ever achieve 100% physical perfection for another person. Beyond that, people's tastes/needs are different, and those tastes/needs change often. That goes for dick size, abs, ass, face, whatever the case may be. My partner never "idealized" an uncircumcised penis and a flat ass, but here we are on our 19th year together. He has physical attributes I would never say I "idealize", but he's the absolute love of my life.

People lust after other people; it's just a fact. My partner will never be a beefy Henry Cavill type, but that doesn't mean I love him any less, nor does it mean he doesn't fulfill me or that I've somehow "settled". Gay men do it, lesbians do it, straight people do it...everyone does. (The bonus for us being that we get to speak freely about men we find attractive, and swap fantasies.) I would say that you will never find a woman who doesn't fantasize or lust after another man. That doesn't make them unfaithful, slutty whores or any such thing - it's the nature of life. We fall in love with people as a whole. Like I said, the whole package. Why didn't I stay with the 6'4, blonde-haired, blue-eyed, square-jawed hottie with rippling abs and 8 inches? Because he was a douchebag and our interests did not gel whatsoever. "Perfect" looks will never be perfect, but even then, those and a big dick will only get a person so far, and that's not very far, usually.

Most of the women I know well, and most of the gay men I know well, are not chasing after some "idealized" and arbitrary form of perfection. The gay dude I know who gets the most tail (with repeat customers, so to speak) has a dick half your size. A guy from HS was teased so badly he stopped showering after gym, but he's been married to his high school sweetheart since 1998, and they have three kids together. Does she lust after other men? Maybe, maybe not. Maybe he's just the right size for her. Maybe she does think about bigger dicks, but again that's life. She loves him for the sum total of his parts - the whole package - regardless of what he's packing down there. Meanwhile, another couple I know is getting a divorce. He's hung as fuck, hot and fit, but he's a douchebag.

This has nothing to do with "settling" or "making do"; this has everything to do with the erroneous notion that anyone will ever be 100% everything to someone else. Actually, scratch that. My partner to me IS 100% my everything, despite not matching every physical attribute I found attractive when I met him, or even now. And it has absolutely nothing to do with his dick. Take away four inches or add four inches, and I would feel the exact same way about him as I do now. (Actually, add four inches and we would have had a lot less fun, and likely wouldn't be together today because of the fun we had initially.) Trying to please everyone will only end up in pleasing no one.

 

[Rewardheragain148]

[QUOTE="HarryPalmas, post: why would anybody want to be with someone who has no physical attraction desire or some lust toward you, knowing you do not fulfill them entirely? So for those saying that the problem is my personality, attitude, etc, no it isn’t[/QUOTE]

Exactly there needs to be some lust for the sex to be good.

U have to find the right woman that fits your dck.

I learned to get rid of women who don’t fit my dck or don’t like my penis quickly and swiftly.

I had one woman where I couldn’t touch her vaginal walls; I was shocked lmao; got rid of her.

Then I’ve had woman where My dck was a snug fit and they lusted my body …..

best sex ever.

so yeah….

 

[deleted1138933]

Oh honey, I'm sorry but it's time to grow up. Nobody will ever achieve 100% physical perfection for another person. Beyond that, people's tastes/needs are different, and those tastes/needs change often. That goes for dick size, abs, ass, face, whatever the case may be. My partner never "idealized" an uncircumcised penis and a flat ass, but here we are on our 19th year together. He has physical attributes I would never say I "idealize", but he's the absolute love of my life.

People lust after other people; it's just a fact. My partner will never be a beefy Henry Cavill type, but that doesn't mean I love him any less, nor does it mean he doesn't fulfill me or that I've somehow "settled". Gay men do it, lesbians do it, straight people do it...everyone does. (The bonus for us being that we get to speak freely about men we find attractive, and swap fantasies.) I would say that you will never find a woman who doesn't fantasize or lust after another man. That doesn't make them unfaithful, slutty whores or any such thing - it's the nature of life. We fall in love with people as a whole. Like I said, the whole package. Why didn't I stay with the 6'4, blonde-haired, blue-eyed, square-jawed hottie with rippling abs and 8 inches? Because he was a douchebag and our interests did not gel whatsoever. "Perfect" looks will never be perfect, but even then, those and a big dick will only get a person so far, and that's not very far, usually.

Most of the women I know well, and most of the gay men I know well, are not chasing after some "idealized" and arbitrary form of perfection. The gay dude I know who gets the most tail (with repeat customers, so to speak) has a dick half your size. A guy from HS was teased so badly he stopped showering after gym, but he's been married to his high school sweetheart since 1998, and they have three kids together. Does she lust after other men? Maybe, maybe not. Maybe he's just the right size for her. Maybe she does think about bigger dicks, but again that's life. She loves him for the sum total of his parts - the whole package - regardless of what he's packing down there. Meanwhile, another couple I know is getting a divorce. He's hung as fuck, hot and fit, but he's a douchebag.

This has nothing to do with "settling" or "making do"; this has everything to do with the erroneous notion that anyone will ever be 100% everything to someone else. Actually, scratch that. My partner to me IS 100% my everything, despite not matching every physical attribute I found attractive when I met him, or even now. And it has absolutely nothing to do with his dick. Take away four inches or add four inches, and I would feel the exact same way about him as I do now. (Actually, add four inches and we would have had a lot less fun, and likely wouldn't be together today because of the fun we had initially.) Trying to please everyone will only end up in pleasing no one.

Who is talking about 100% perfection? Just saying to at least complete and fulfill desired wants and characteristics and not be less than in the sexual department It has been mentioned that women want/like wealth, how is that any different? Or that they do not want a total douchebag, how is that any different? Etc. So it will never be 100% perfect anything but if any one those basic primary needs/wants is lacking and deficient it will always be incomplete, settling. As far as lusting over another is fine, but it is different knowing that you are at least as good and have something comparable to what you have than being lacking and deficient.

 

[Brian S]

Who is talking about 100% perfection? Just saying to at least complete and fulfill desired wants and characteristics and not be less than in the sexual department It has been mentioned that women want/like wealth, how is that any different? Or that they do not want a total douchebag, how is that any different? Etc. So it will never be 100% perfect anything but if any one those basic primary needs/wants is lacking and deficient it will always be incomplete, settling. As far as lusting over another is fine, but it is different knowing that you are at least as good and have something comparable to what you have than being lacking and deficient.

Like talking to a brick wall.

1) You're still predicating your argument on the erroneous notion that no woman on the planet can be sexually fulfilled without having a big dick rammed up her.
2) As long as you continue to consider yourself "deficient" or "lacking", so too will everyone else. And that goes for any physical, emotional, or mental attribute.

 

[deleted4500261]

Like talking to a brick wall.

1) You're still predicating your argument on the erroneous notion that no woman on the planet can be sexually fulfilled without having a big dick rammed up her.
2) As long as you continue to consider yourself "deficient" or "lacking", so too will everyone else. And that goes for any physical, emotional, or mental attribute.

Well, his female companions are made of rubber sooooo....

 

[deleted1138933]

Like talking to a brick wall.

1) You're still predicating your argument on the erroneous notion that no woman on the planet can be sexually fulfilled without having a big dick rammed up her.
2) As long as you continue to consider yourself "deficient" or "lacking", so too will everyone else. And that goes for any physical, emotional, or mental attribute.

1) Still have not come across any woman who desires small dick.
2) Everyone already considers small dick lacking and insufficient way before I even came into existence, has nothing to do with me. Regardless of what I think, what difference would it make if woman still want and idealize big or at least medium and none want or desire small

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Let me talk about the three major male partners of my life that had serious attraction moments.
My exhusband, whom you may see referred to as Skinny Hippie. (SH)
the Guitarist, who lost the title my love by suddenly discovering an enema bag spout of his personality.
The new guy, whom I’ve not yet nicknamed, but Energy Vortex is in the running.

meeting SH, was like reaching in a hurricane. Neither of us had a choice. We saw, we clicked, the galaxy rotated.

with the guitarist, it was a hug, a kiss and lightning hit.

current guy, a couple touches, then a hug, and well, Energy Vortex.

in none of these cases, did have have any idea of what was under the clothes.

 

[VIIby5]

Let me talk about the three major male partners of my life that had serious attraction moments.
My exhusband, whom you may see referred to as Skinny Hippie. (SH)
the Guitarist, who lost the title my love by suddenly discovering an enema bag spout of his personality.
The new guy, whom I’ve not yet nicknamed, but Energy Vortex is in the running.

meeting SH, was like reaching in a hurricane. Neither of us had a choice. We saw, we clicked, the galaxy rotated.

with the guitarist, it was a hug, a kiss and lightning hit.

current guy, a couple touches, then a hug, and well, Energy Vortex.

in none of these cases, did have have any idea of what was under the clothes.

Did both by chance end up being hung?

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Did both by chance end up being hung?

what would that information have to do with judging attractiveness, which is done before naked time?

 

[VIIby5]

what would that information have to do with judging attractiveness, which is done before naked time?

It doesn't have anything to do with initial attractiveness. Just a curiosity of mine. I think I got my answer anyways.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

It doesn't have anything to do with initial attractiveness. Just a curiosity of mine. I think I got my answer anyways.

I assumed you make assumptions.
Remember, I don’t measure.
I cannot say any ever let me down.
Close enough?