Why Don't Women Often Acknowledge That Penis Size Is A Major Factor In Judging Male Attractiveness?

[Snarky_succubus]

Trying to explain this to him brings to mind an old Sicilian proverb:

"Never try to teach a pig to dance. It wastes your time and annoys the hell out of the pig."

In fact, I think you'd have an earlier time reasoning with one of the porcine persuasion than him. People have tried for years.

Oh I definitely don’t expect to penetrate that kind of thick skull. Annoying the pig is the bulk of my purpose here. It’s just one of those days where it feels a bit therapeutic.

 

[MCA]

Lol, because lots are down with 6x5.

 

[twoton]

In Hollywood they do. Almost every mainstream RomCom eventually has a penis joke that focuses on a man’s endowment.

 

[T_Lurch]

In Hollywood they do. Almost every mainstream RomCom eventually has a penis joke that focuses on a man’s endowment.

That's true.

But Hollywood is a terrible example to use for anything and their writers are all coked-up hacks. They've been responsible for a lot of dangerous fallacies.

 

[twoton]

That's true.

But Hollywood is a terrible example to use for anything and their writers are all coked-up hacks. They've been responsible for a lot of dangerous fallacies.

I wonder....maybe it’s to give the women in the audience something to tease their dates about. Or maybe it’s for the men so they can keep believing that women are on the hunt for hung men.

 

[T_Lurch]

I wonder....maybe it’s to give the women in the audience something to tease their dates about. Or maybe it’s for the men so they can keep believing that women are on the hunt for hung men.

I'm not really sure, to be honest.

I know it's all boilerplate stuff, like they work from a Play-Doh template, pressing out the same soulless, formulaic pap year after year, decade after decade. Squish! Squish! Here's Rom com number #34279. Here's action movie #53327.

I think people need to take all that stuff with a grain of salt, if not the whole salt shaker. Especially what Hollywood says about penises.

 

[ItalTony9]

That's true.

But Hollywood is a terrible example to use for anything and their writers are all coked-up hacks. They've been responsible for a lot of dangerous fallacies.

that is so true..if not the direct mention of them being coked or hacks, then definitely the spirit of their lack of creativity to bring this up over and over. Very Boring and it teaches us nothing but cruelty and character shallowness masquerading as cleverness and often, the last word. (as if criticizing a guy's junk is the ultimate revenge/last word...often by a woman)

 

[deleted1138933]

So either women don’t say they want giant dicks when they do (your original post) or they do say they want giant dicks.

Pick one.

Can you produce any evidence?

How are you qualified to speak for any women? Can you find a woman who supports your assertion?



So your evidence is that women don’t say it (contradicting what I quoted of yours just above) therefore it is definitely what they want?

You really think a woman is “settling” when she chooses a guy with a modest dick? That the most important thing to a woman is big dick and not the myriad other things that an actual relationship is built upon?

Lemme tell you, no working relationship is built around a dick. Not one. Not ever.

You’re just wrong, mate. There is no version of reality where all women want a massive cock and it’s the key factor in a relationship or sexual partner outside of specific and non-universal fetishisation.

I dunno where this bee in your bonnet came from, but you’re projecting something personal on to all women, which is patently ludicrous and clearly not based in reality. Try critically and objectively analysing where this accusation came from, because all that’s certain about your assertion is that it reflects some conflict in you, and has no baring at all on the needs and desires of women as a whole.

Read my posts. They do say they like want big(ger) or at least medium, not small. Evidence is everywhere, all over media, research, personal experience. Can you show where women want/prefer/idealize small (outside of fetish Sph?) What does a relationship have to do with desire, sexual want, physical attraction satisfaction? I do not speak for woman, I refer to what I personally hear from them and experience. I never said it was the most important but completes the full package to their wants desires ideals (according to them). If by modest you mean medium, no, that is not settling as medium is not small. No woman dreams of a small dicked man as hitting the full package lotto.

 

[deleted1138933]

Putting your hands over your ears and screaming “LALALALALALALALA” is something you should really have grown out of YEARS ago. That aside... let me explain to you what a “realistic logical conclusion” to my statement would be - “huh. She knows a TINY fraction of the women in the world... and of that tiny fraction she knows many who prefer average sized dicks. Some even prefer the small end of average to small dicks. Surely it would make ZERO statistical sense that she knows ALL of the women in the world who prefer average and smaller dicks. It would stand to reason that there must be more like those! Maybe my own obsession with big dicks in some way changes the type of women and type of responses I’ve gotten when I ask the few women I know about their preferences”.

You’re welcome.

So if that is true, where are they? The fact that nobody ever comes across them, must really say a lot.

 

[Jjdov27_2]

Read my posts. They do say they like want big(ger) or at least medium, not small. Evidence is everywhere, all over media, research, personal experience. Can you show where women want/prefer/idealize small (outside of fetish Sph?) What does a relationship have to do with desire, sexual want, physical attraction satisfaction? I do not speak for woman, I refer to what I personally hear from them and experience. I never said it was the most important but completes the full package to their wants desires ideals (according to them). If by modest you mean medium, no, that is not settling as medium is not small. No woman dreams of a small dicked man as hitting the full package lotto.

Yes, no woman dreams of a small dick.... but what women think is small and what guys Th ink is small is often two different things. To a woman, an average dick is “normal”... good. Pleasurable. Just right. A guy who is 5 x 4.5 might think of himself as small because he’s Below average. And smaller than his friends. But to most women, he’d be fine if they liked him anyway. It wouldn’t be a deal breaker.

she might like it more if her were bigger. But most women just don’t think about tit that way unless 1) they have a fetish for size 2) the guy is an asshole and she wants to strike at his ego.

 

[deleted1138933]

Yes, no woman dreams of a small dick.... but what women think is small and what guys Th ink is small is often two different things. To a woman, an average dick is “normal”... good. Pleasurable. Just right. A guy who is 5 x 4.5 might think of himself as small because he’s Below average. And smaller than his friends. But to most women, he’d be fine if they liked him anyway. It wouldn’t be a deal breaker.

she might like it more if her were bigger. But most women just don’t think about tit that way unless 1) they have a fetish for size 2) the guy is an asshole and she wants to strike at his ego.

IF, they like other factors, so basically they still do not desire him for him like they do another guy who is. So they are just settling does not mean they have what they want. Always wanting more, not truly TOTALLY satisfied.

 

[Jjdov27_2]

IF, they like other factors, so basically they still do not desire him for him like they do another guy who is. So they are just settling does not mean they have what they want. Always wanting more, not truly TOTALLY satisfied.

Well, it’s a range. SOME might feel that way. But women are different than guys. They have different attitudes and needs. All I’m saying is that or is size is ONE factor. And to most women, it’s not nearly the most important one.

all choices about mates are a comrpromise. A person might be great but have an annoying laugh. Or they might snore. Or they might have a big nose. Or whatever.

men tend to focus on penis size because it matters to THEM. As men. Their male ego and a primal competition.

it’s not that it doesn’t matter at all to women. But in terms of a sense of scale, men tend to WAY over emphasize how much it matters

I’m not trying to convince you. I’m just stating my opinion

 

[deleted1138933]

Well, it’s a range. SOME might feel that way. But women are different than guys. They have different attitudes and needs. All I’m saying is that or is size is ONE factor. And to most women, it’s not nearly the most important one.

all choices about mates are a comrpromise. A person might be great but have an annoying laugh. Or they might snore. Or they might have a big nose. Or whatever.

men tend to focus on penis size because it matters to THEM. As men. Their male ego and a primal competition.

it’s not that it doesn’t matter at all to women. But in terms of a sense of scale, men tend to WAY over emphasize how much it matters

I’m not trying to convince you. I’m just stating my opinion

Point is it IS a factor so it matters, so it is still a compromise, still giving something up, so a small guy will never be their all, their ideal, only something to settle on for other conveniences other than desire.

 

[ItalTony9]

Point is it IS a factor so it matters, so it is still a compromise, still giving something up, so a small guy will never be their all, their ideal, only something to settle on for other conveniences other than desire.

thats not true-some do not care at all

 

[deleted1138933]

thats not true-some do not care at all

So you are saying that they have preferences, attractions, and likes for everything else: height, body type, build, hair, eyes, biceps, chest, etc., but somehow, miraculously they are so perfectly spiritually, mentally pure and enlightened that despite physical and sexual wants, needs, and desires they have managed to absolutely single out and totally disregard any and all care for the one specific anatomy that connects with theirs? Wow

 

[Snarky_succubus]

So if that is true, where are they? The fact that nobody ever comes across them, must really say a lot.

“Nobody” means “you”. I don’t seem to have the same experience at all. Odd

 

[Jjdov27_2]

Guys, this is just a troll thread. Wally-what’s his name by any other name

 

[deleted1138933]

“Nobody” means “you”. I don’t seem to have the same experience at all. Odd

Well, by standards that personal experience is just anecdotal and invalid, yours is just as anecdotal and invalid, odd.

 

[Stephenmass]

Not what women say

Actually, for the most part it is.

 

[Stephenmass]

No matter what you do or learn or how you use, if it is not long enough to reach the spots and thick enough to fill and stimulate it will never compare to someone that can

Seeing how most of what stimulates a woman and rocks her boat, most of that is within the first few inches of entry. Beyond that it's just a feeling of fullness if it's a large one.