I stop fucking when I:
- Do not feel well. I have some chronic health issues.
- When I get tired of being turned down because I always have the higher libido than the people I am with. I tend to leave it up to the person/people I am with to initiate due to it, but it is hard having mismatched sex drives.
As an aside, you/OP thinking you need to "clickbait" the folks on here leaves me wondering how good your communication skills actually are. I could be entirely wrong, of course...
I’m not married, but when I have been in relationships, I’ve always had the higher libido. I would have settled for mediocre sex, rather than no sex. I actually think most men like the idea of a high libido woman, but are not too fond of the reality.
Definitely not my experience. It starts out multiple times a day, then drops down to daily and then it just gets farther apart. In one relationship, monthly was a huge improvement. It’s pretty disheartening. It’s not like I suddenly got fat, or lacked hygiene. It wasn’t my sexual skill. I think some men are threatened by women who really like sex. And I seem to attract them.The grass is always greener right? But how high is high? I'd imagine that most Men could handle everyday without problem or complaint, but has that not been your experience?
Definitely not my experience. It starts out multiple times a day, then drops down to daily and then it just gets farther apart. In one relationship, monthly was a huge improvement. It’s pretty disheartening. It’s not like I suddenly got fat, or lacked hygiene. It wasn’t my sexual skill. I think some men are threatened by women who really like sex. And I seem to attract them.
While I was married, I went for 3+ months without fucking him... because I knew he was banging his sexatary and according to state law, having sex with him could be considered forgiving/accepting his adultery and it could hurt me in the separation/divorce... plus there's the whole monogamy thing.
Other potential causes of lower libido
Depression, especially post partum.
Hormones out of balance
Resentment, unspecified (meaning she can’t yet put her finger on it)
Resentment, specified, not yet expressed (meaning she can’t decide how to say it)
Exhaustion
A run of bad sex
That's surprising to hear, I can understand it dropping from multiple times a day, but I would have predicted the floor to be every other day at the far end, not once a month. So maybe the typical guy after 5 years of marriage only wants it once a month and I'm the freak for wanting it daily?
Speaking for myself, not SB...It may very well be a little of all the above. Could you expand on "a run of bad sex"? What does that mean exactly, anxiety that the sex could be bad preventing you from the attempt?