Why Guys Dump Girls They Dig I'll buy the explanations for numbers 1, 2, and 4; but being too into a girl and breaking up is retarded. I have never heard of a man doing that. I've been a victim of the passive-aggressive break up guy before so I know the signs. It's a chicken shit way out. :irked: Actually all of the above are cowardly. I would much rather have a guy say, "I'm just not that into you."