Why Handsome Men Make Bad Husbands

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I wanted to quit when it said all men wanted the cad strategy.

Bah, psychology is a waste of time.
 

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OK. Just got the link to work and read the article. Hmm...That would explain why I am a slut. LOL. But I must disagree about 'handsome' men not investing as much into a spouse or offspring as the 'ugly' guys. WTF is that about?
 
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I really think it depends upon the man.I know a number of stunning men who are faithful to their wives and make great parents. My own father ( according to feedback other than my own) was very handsome and he was fabulous. So it really depends upon the man. That is not to say that handsome men do not have women approaching them all the time but it depends upon the man as to whether he choses to take them up on it. The same goes for beautiful women.
 
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There is a trade-off. If women want commitment, they have to settle for someone not as good as they could get in a casual relationship. I think some women pursue the best guys and it becomes a game of trying to get them to commit.
 

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I had a feeling this was the same junk-peddler pop-psychologist that wrote why men genetically prefer blondes with a bunch of useless, unfounded opinions and personal preferences he used as evidence.

Sure enough, same dipshit.
 

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I also just read a bunch of comments on Amazon.com about him.

I like this one:

This is the absolute worst kind of "science book" published for a general audience. It is full of psuedo-facts and poorly reasoned arguments. If an explanation sounds good, then that's the answer. It was unclear when the authors were making a statement if it was generally held to be true within the discipline or it was a theory. Their own work was all presented established fact, rather than their opinions. My thirteen year old saw through the yawning gaps in logic. I could not finish reading the book, and I never don't finish a book.

Evolutionary psychology has been around for 20 years or so, and has some very valuable contributions towards understanding human behavior. By their nature, the theories are hard to prove, although with good science, we can at least believe that an idea is plausible. The leaders of this field are already heavily criticized because the results aren't always politically correct and because humans are very resistant to the idea that their behavior is not entirely conscious and of their own free will. This book has dealt the field a serious and perhaps fatal blow.

I sure have no respect for it right now.
 
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Wow, that article is such a load of crap! It's not about appearance. It's all about SELF-CONFIDENCE. I guarantee that a straight ugly guy with loads of self-confidence who THINKS he looks attractive will have a lot more sex and more female partners than a straight handsome man with low self-esteem.

There are two obvious reasons for my hypothesis: 1) A person with self-confidence is just more attractive and more fun to be around and will attract more potential mates; and 2) The self-confident ugly guy will just naturally be more extroverted and daring to go out and meet lots more people, which will naturally broaden his potential for a mate or sexual partner; while the handsome guy with low self-confidence will naturally be shy and afraid to meet people, so that will lessen his ability to cheat or leave his spouse.

The article is just another lame-ass attempt to coddle the majority of guys who are average-looking or ugly. And it's also another attempt to convince hot-looking women to choose average-looking or ugly guys. I really hate the media, and especially the old-boy network of horny, old, perverted, male losers who control it! I just hope women will eventually wake up and wise-up to the fact that their sex drives are being manipulated by the nerdy male geeks who control society through biased propaganda.
 
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The article is just another lame-ass attempt to coddle the majority of guys who are average-looking or ugly. And it's also another attempt to convince hot-looking women to choose average-looking or ugly guys. I really hate the media, and especially the old-boy network of horny, old, perverted, male losers who control it! I just hope women will eventually wake up and wise-up to the fact that their sex drives are being manipulated by the nerdy male geeks who control society through biased propaganda.

What about them Jews :rolleyes: