Why Harder?

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by shaguar, Mar 18, 2008.

  1. shaguar

    shaguar Member

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    I love women who like to be fucked like stuck pigs. I mean who doesn't like to see that? So it with the utmost of respect that I ask why some women want to be fucked."Harder! HARDER!" or even "Faster!"

    I can understand when a woman is approaching orgasm, but are there other times when a wanger is just not going deep enough, or hard enough that you feel it is necessary to provide instructions? Even in porn, although it is rare, I have seen a man going full our and the woman still asking for it harder, I have however never seen that with a truly big cock.

    Does the "harder" have more to do with the cul-de-sac or it a plea more because of the lack of your lover's endowment?

    I find it a real turn on when women are vocal, and this is no exception. It has always puzzled me how some women want it harder when they are already getting a pubic bone breaking jack-hammering. I surmise size plays a role. No?
     
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    I'm not a woman, but I'm really not sure from a male's perspective either. I suppose size could play a part with some, but I've seen some porno's with women pushing guys with huge dicks to the physical limit. I suspect it's simply what feels better or gets most really going. I was with a woman a while ago who I physically and literally couldn't fuck hard enough. Could have been she has been with guys physically stronger than me, but I don't know. Most of the women I've been with liked it physical, but not all the time, and seemed to prefer mixing-it-up a little.
     
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    I like a slow deep fuck to when i ask a guy for faster and harder i usually get a few really deep thrusts which give me that instant flinchingpain deep deep inside of me that you can only get when he bottoms out. That alone is enough to send me into orgasm
     
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    I haven't been with a big guy enough to know if it's a size thing. So I will go from the average point of view to say that it's the friction that feels so good when I say faster. Not necessarily the depth.
    As far as harder? Nothing beats getting your clit slapped by a pair of balls while doing it doggy. That's a little bit of pussy spanking, ya know!:wink:
    Sometimes it's just a primal savage act, the heat of the moment kind of thing.
     
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