Why have a darn cam if you don't show FACE?

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  1. DGirl

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    I ask this because too many guys come into chat and post their cocks. But, when you ask them to show their face. They go, I am SHY, I don't wanta be known, I will show you on another site ( though we have PRIVATE cam on here) and etc. Hell, half of the guys on cam live in parts that other members here don't and never will visit. Also, if we did live in the area why in the hell just talk ONLY on the computer? Folks like me do get a day off every now and then, I wanta meet your dumb ass..."
    I just wonder what do you all think about the FACE in the cam bit? It is not too damn hard to show a freaking face. I seen tons of faces. I guess the guys feel that they are UGLY.." That is why they don't show face!?! Or will you PROVE me WRONG?

    I have seen LEX'S face even!! So why in the world is it so damn hard to show at least one of your buddies on your list your face? Or a women that you are trying to chat up? You can Even close your cam up from other guys if you like.
     
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    Don't even get me started on this. I'd be on cam in the chat, the cam on my face and they wont show theirs. As a female i have a lot more to fear about internet stalkers or people finding out who i am in real life. So if im already showing mine, obviously you can see im putting my reputation on the line so you dont have to be afraid to show yours as well. In fact, it really creeps me out to think that you know im not your sister- but how do i not know you arent my brother over there?
     
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    I get what your saying it is kind of scary for a female. But, so NOT scary for a male..."
     
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    You know the answer to this D.
    It's because they aren't and /or don't look like the pictures they've posted.
    Why else would someone be in a audio video chat room and not show
    here at this site? Granted I know a many of the regulars who have never shown themselves but having spoken to them for years I believe they are whom they say.
    Unlike JasonsheDawg!:hmmm::buttkick:
    C.B.:saevil:
     
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    ha ha good one...
    Jason dogg..
     
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    In the world today, it's very risky business showing your face to a stranger over the internet SPECIALLY a chat site. You never know what turn your life will make, and if it's in the political direction then your whole career is at risk because of one little cam chat. That's why some people are nervous about showing themselves (fully) on cam. People can now screen capture, or even save your video stream and could use it against you "not saying that's what you want to do" but some people are like that. I don't show my face on cam. "well I rarley ever chat on cam. anyway" but I want show my face unless i've known you for some time and you are just like a best (e)-friend and I feel completly comfortable with you. Now, some people don't want to show their face because, like cigarbabe said, they don't look anything like their pics. "fake pics. or photoshopped" but those people usually avoid Cam. chat all together.
     
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    Well, one reason could be that having already exposed their privates they don't want to provide the associated face for fear of discovery. It's one thing to have it known that you visit here, it's another to have it known, with visual proof, that you are exposing yourself online. There's a lot of funky recording software around folks.

    The way around this is not showing all at the same time or panning from one to the other. Close the cam in between and switch chat providers (different screen name on yahoo or msn than here hopefully) and if paranoid change your background and/or clothes between cam sessions. Ta daa. No link from face to naughty bits.

    Another possibility is that they don't give a shit if you see their face. Many guys come here for exhibitionism or just to get their rocks off. They don't need you to see their face to achieve that. A guy who won't show you his face is either excruciatingly shy about their appearance or just using you for porn. My money is on the latter... even when they do show their face.
     
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    Oh, come on, be a bit sensitive, they might be faceless.:rolleyes:
     

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    probably has a lot to do with the fact men will compliment any and all women (especially ones they don't really know), but women, and I am speaking very generally here, aren't usually too quick to hand out compliments...or at least as quickly and plentiful as us horndog men are. Add that to the fact that men are more visually driven than women (we seem to care more about looks than women do), and you have a guy sitting there worrying that she might think something along the lines of "OMG I can't believe i was looking at that dude's cock." The ugly aspect probably plays a pretty big role. It's the "she likes my dick, but what about the rest of me?" kind of deal. Some guys would probably rather just not know

    Plus, who knows who's going to figure out a way to save the live feed on their computer...
     
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    good points ALL!!
    I would love to chat with the faceless man!!! HA HA!!!

    I show my face all of the time.." I am NOT shy!! Why should I be.? The closet I came to showing was hard NIPS in my shirt and a few slips of showing my undies!!:eek:! I am never NUDE..EVER!! Only docs's and hubby will see that. :redface:
     
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    Has anyone ever heard of people recording cams and using them for nefarious reasons? I've never heard of stories, maybe its possible. But chances are most of us arent that special to be recorded and used for anyones benefit.
     
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    No idea. I'm not big on the webcam thing, but I'm sure there are plenty of people who have done it and posted the videos on other sites w/out permission...people do anything and everything you can possibly think of. You name it, someone's done it, or at least attempted it...a bunch of crazy monkeys we are
     
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    Yes, but what are the odds? If we dont have horror stories to share because its highly unlike to happen....whats the big deal in sharing your face with an authentic female showing her face. I think it has more with people being homely.
     
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    probably. But if I had a cam, I wouldn't show my face and my dick in the same shot for that very reason...
     
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    but then again im paranoid like that
     
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    Just cause it hasn't happened to the people that don't show themselves doesn't mean it doesn't happen, I mean that's why they don't show their faces..because they don't want it to happen. It's like saying "I don't want to risk swimming in that lake there could be a snake in there, i've seen them in lakes before" You never know, and some people are just not ready to take that risk. There are tons of programs that allow you to record onscreen activity, Camstudio "i think that's it" is one of them I used to use it to record my speed paintings.
     
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    I still don't see why someone can't do can to cam...
    anyone gonna run for office?
    No?
    Then get your ASS on cam!!
     
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    O see most people aren't too shy about showing their asses, it's just the face that they are cautious about showing :tongue:
     
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    I so noticed. :frown1:
     
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