Why have a darn cam if you don't show FACE?

[D_Jared Padalicki]

A face can show more expressions then a dick, so showing a face can be quite personal. A face just can say ten time more about how you feel. So it's understandable that you don't always show, especially not when you are busy with your dick and you could see joy on your face. That is quite intimate.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

probably. But if I had a cam, I wouldn't show my face and my dick in the same shot for that very reason...

Other than people I know in real life (including real life lpsg friends), I also do not show my face and body at the same time. Clothed is OK, but, usually, I show naked or semi-naked body/boobies/cooter or face, not both. Of course, I also may not if the person is not on cam (& we have never had a joint cam session before), or they demand it, or believe they are entitled to see - because as the 'HBIC' of my online life, only I decide who sees what and when.

If they don't like it? "Click" and cam is off. Or, "click" and they're blocked.
No warnings.

Of all of the guys I have chatted with, none refused to show their face. In fact, they seem more than happy to show and are all fun and sexy. Thanks guys and lady! :wink:

 

[nakedwally]

There may be privacy issues or maybe they live in a small town or maybe they are afraid of coworkers seeing them or maybe they have a high position in society. I know for a fact that a person who knows me by seeing my face would never recognize my cock.For me I generally do not show my face cause I usually have lube or something in my habds and don't want to destry my equipment when I adjust the cam

 

[B_Dustydo]

I personally think it is a persons right to decide what they are comfortable showing on cam.
It boils down to the persons comfort level and generosity in showing what they do.
Watching another persons cam is a privilege not a right.

 

[Mikayla]

I personally think it is a persons right to decide what they are comfortable showing on cam.
It boils down to the persons comfort level and generosity in showing what they do.
Watching another persons cam is a privilege not a right.

I totaly agree with that. Like a friend here said... "my body, my rules"

 

[Hakunamatata]

I ask this because too many guys come into chat and post their cocks. But, when you ask them to show their face. They go, I am SHY, I don't wanta be known, I will show you on another site ( though we have PRIVATE cam on here) and etc. Hell, half of the guys on cam live in parts that other members here don't and never will visit. Also, if we did live in the area why in the hell just talk ONLY on the computer? Folks like me do get a day off every now and then, I wanta meet your dumb ass..."
I just wonder what do you all think about the FACE in the cam bit? It is not too damn hard to show a freaking face. I seen tons of faces. I guess the guys feel that they are UGLY.." That is why they don't show face!?! Or will you PROVE me WRONG?

I have seen LEX'S face even!! So why in the world is it so damn hard to show at least one of your buddies on your list your face? Or a women that you are trying to chat up? You can Even close your cam up from other guys if you like.

I agree there but on the other hand there are many freaks who are actually recording cam chats and uploading those on websites like gayforit is. I actually saw a vid someone I know there. So I kinda understand when someone is not willing to show face.

 

[vince]

Yes, but what are the odds? If we dont have horror stories to share because its highly unlike to happen.....

You're not like to get run over crossing the street either. Shit happens.

I don't ever show my face on any kind of sex cam. People can record thes video feeds so easily. I have enough to deal with IRL. I don't need blackmail or something equally fucked up to deal with as well.

 

[cups]

I personally think it is a persons right to decide what they are comfortable showing on cam.
It boils down to the persons comfort level and generosity in showing what they do.
Watching another persons cam is a privilege not a right.

+1

 

[D_Andreas Sukov]

to be fair my cam is so small, that if i got my dick and my face on cam id have to be about 2 metres from the keyboard

 

[Daisy]

I wonder if guys know how it feels though, for a woman to be sitting there fully showing their face on cam while theyre hiding behind a blank profile with no cam. Obviously if youre jerking off you might not want the face in the same shot, but if you're just sitting there chatting, what's the big deal?
If you want to be anonymous then do not DARE be asking me to strip for you, or asking me how big my boobs are or getting personal with me in any shape or form. It would be exactly like walking into a cocktail party with a mask on your head and trying to hit on girls. We want to know who we are talking to...period.
If you don't want anyone to see you then maybe video chat is not for you. I know the majority of females who like to chat are tired of being hit on, harassed, or heckled by these faceless people.
Some will choose to be totally anonymous, some will only cam occasionally which is fine, (I just saw Joll for the first time in last week -what a cutie!) but...
Show something...make an effort, be who you claim to be, or if you don't want to play just lurk and don't get obnoxious with those who DO show themselves.

PS All of the above is especially annoying when these namelsss, faceless people want to private chat or ask you to Yahoo with them...the answer 99.9% of the time will be NO!

 

[vince]

If you don't want to chat with a faceless guy, the solution is obvious. Don't.

 

[Daisy]

Oh yeah, that seems like a great solution, except if that were the case every girl would have 3/4 of the room on "ignore" because they will persistently badger you. and then say "I'm shy..I don't want to show my face".

Chat is supposed to be fun, it's supposed to be mutual, it's not a side show and it's not free porn. Nobody is saying that everyone should be on cam, but we are saying that if you choose not to, then don't impose yourself on those who do.

 

[D_Bussbye Bushsticker]

I have a good career, which I rely on to pay 2 mortgages - no way I'm showing face! You're all welcome to see my body though...

If I get to know anyone well enough, I may show face (and have done so) on yahoo - but never in the chat room. Sorry.

 

[luka82]

Call me oldfashioned, but somehow i think a DICK is more private than a face!
But i have been raised in a 3rd world country, so I may not have been taught well???
(I always show mt face!)

 

[B_theOtherJJ]

I ask this because too many guys come into chat and post their cocks. But, when you ask them to show their face. They go, I am SHY, I don't wanta be known, I will show you on another site ( though we have PRIVATE cam on here) and etc. Hell, half of the guys on cam live in parts that other members here don't and never will visit.

Well it could be:

1) their faces aint that great, and its really their dicks they are promoting

2) they are FAKES, and dont really want to even cam, just play with you

3) they ARE shy ! LOLOLOL

Guess I am lucky that i dont really care about the face because I am usually sitting on it anyway :-O

 

[Jovial]

I'd love to show my face & body on cam, but the few times I tried it the woman didn't want to put their cam on. Not even to show their face and fully clothed. It kind of took my motivation away from wanting to cam.

So it's not just guys. Women are the same way.

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

Call me oldfashioned, but somehow i think a DICK is more private than a face!
But i have been raised in a 3rd world country, so I may not have been taught well???
(I always show mt face!)

In this world (lpsg) a dick is far less personal then showing your face!

 

[luka82]

In this world (lpsg) a dick is far less personal then showing your face!

I disagree!:tongue:

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

I disagree!:tongue:

You are exceptional

 

[luka82]

You are exceptional

Thank u!:smile:
And i have been told that a give one heck of a BJ!:biggrin1: