I think some of the prejudices are the unfortunate product of bad experiences. I've been with incredibly hot, sweet, horny men who are very openminded and oh so sexually talented. Then again, I've also encountered some very absurdly perplexing men, some of whom insist they're not really gay; others who can deep throat you but refuse to be kissed; others who think it's gayer to get fucked than to fuck; and then there are those who are so weighed down by hang-ups about their masculinity that they go from hot to cold before you even have a chance to unbuckle your belt. Ah, and then there are those who, upon seeing what's inside those pants, will throw all caution to the wind, get down on their knees, and worship, worship, worship!