I'm new here, and as you can probably tell by my name, I'm not one of the big boys. I do envy and admire them though. I hope that posting here is ok, because this will actually have a lot to do with huge guys in my ex girlfriends pasts. I realize others may not agree with my opinions and conclusions but, it's just based on my experiences. But I really want to hear others opinions and experiences. Especially women's. I will break this into at least two parts. I got logged out earlier for taking too long. Argh! First a little about me. I'm in my early forties, single, 5' 10", average build and good looking. I've been divorced for 14 years and actually don't have a lot of experience, for different reasons. Mostly because of being a single parent. I know that virtually all of my six relationships (including my ex-wife) ended, at least partially, due to my size. I'm sure that sounds weird but, it's true. My size is, 4.25" long and 5" around. I know my thickness is average but, my length is way below. Also, my balls are below average size (with very little hang) because I've been told this, more than once. I also cum very little, always have. It's gotten less as I've gotten older. Average for me now is about 1/4 to 1/2 a teaspoon if I'm lucky. To keep things short (no pun intended , I'll just go over my last three relationships. The one from a few years ago, was really a great relationship. We had a lot in common, and she loved sex. The communication level and openness was awesome. For me it's a real turn on if a woman can be honest and say what's on her mind, if it's in a nice way. Once, early on in the relationship, while she was giving me oral (she was incredible) I just wondered out loud if size really mattered. She stopped, looked at me, and asked if I wanted the truth, or a lie. Of course I said the truth. She told me, in her experience, and based on her girlfriends, size definitely mattered. She said her group of girlfriends would get together and talk about their spouses and sizes. They didn't all have huge, but they preferred huge. She said, in her opinion, and based on talking with her friends, that if a woman said that size didn't matter, they were either not real interested in sex, or they were lying. She was very honest that she preferred big to huge. She had been with around 10 guys over the years, including her ex-husband, and told me I was the smallest, in every way, that she'd ever been with. Her ex was the biggest. She said he was 8" x 7", with the biggest balls she's ever seen, that hung halfway to his knees, and came twice as much as any other guy she'd been with. Even though he was a jerk, he'd ruined her. She was hooked. She told me she could deal with my size because she deeply cared for me and, simply because she was fascinated by my size. She said the extreme difference turned her on. She never was mean about it, she paid lot's of attention to me, we just talked very openly. In the few relationships I've had, I've been pretty fortunate (at least from my perspective) because all the women I've dated have loved oral, and swallowed. And because I've always tried to watch what I eat and stay fit, several have told me I taste pleasant compared to most other guys. This girlfriend actually said, "I finally meet a guy that tastes decent, and there's just enough to tease". Our relationship didn't end over the size issue, but because of her insane ex-husband. But size was an issue for her. Bigger was better.