Why I believe size does matter

[whitters2000]

Thanks for an amazing insight

 

[cdarro]

I do agree somewhat. Any woman I've talked to about this says size does matter; that bigger is better - to a point. But none of them has ever said what that point is, to the best of my recollection.

 

[deleted356736]

Strutter2 is talking from her experience and preferences, and that's fine. I've had several women comment to me that bigger is better when it comes to thickness, but extra length didn't do anything for them at all and was sometimes painful. The observation that few women come from penetration is valid, however I have had a couple of partners have their first orgasm purely from penetration with me, so maybe this is where the bigger is better as long as it is thicker feedback comes from.

Above-average girth is rare compared to above-average length.

 

[the_reverend]

i think size does matter, but bigger doesn't necessarily mean better. i've known plenty of girls who prefer average or even smaller penises to larger. and i've known guys with small cocks who could rock a woman's world better than most. so it's about preference and ability as much as just size...what you want and what you do with it.

 

[Iceman2215]

OP so sorry to hear your story!! The fact remains is that you have plenty of things to be grateful for. I am average 6' x 5.5 but a cant have kids. you have a child...be thankful. I don’t know what is worse being small or infertile!!!!

 

[latinluva]

Well, if it helps at all, I think the size thing is important for some women. But the thing that men don't realize is that women are more self conscience about their appearance then we are about our cocks. They worry that men may not think they're skinny enough, pretty enough, big breasted enough, or smell awful down there. They worry ten times more about those things then we do about our cocks. Size only matters to some women up to a certain point, cause as the years go on, other women or men enter the relationship. Or she just gets tired of hearing about his "big" dick. Or she is looking for a bigger and better cock. Big cocks are good for sex...thats it, then its time to move on.:wink:

 

[nolbaby]

wow. i can't believe how many people actually finished reading this post. i read it to fall asleep every night over the course of several days. maybe next time you write a post like this one you could break it up in to chapters?

 

[tson]

YouTube - Does Size Matter? Penis Enlargement Reviews Investigates!

Does penis size matter??
YES.Propably even more than we think.

 

[the_reverend]

because if it's on Youtube, it must be true. that video's final "comment" seems to miss the point of what a lot of them were saying anyway...yes, but only somewhat and only if it's small to the point you can't feel anything.

 

[Ed69]

I'm new here, and as you can probably tell by my name, I'm not one of the big boys. I do envy and admire them though. I hope that posting here is ok, because this will actually have a lot to do with huge guys in my ex girlfriends pasts. I realize others may not agree with my opinions and conclusions but, it's just based on my experiences. But I really want to hear others opinions and experiences. Especially women's.

I will break this into at least two parts. I got logged out earlier for taking too long. Argh!

First a little about me. I'm in my early forties, single, 5' 10", average build and good looking. I've been divorced for 14 years and actually don't have a lot of experience, for different reasons. Mostly because of being a single parent. I know that virtually all of my six relationships (including my ex-wife) ended, at least partially, due to my size. I'm sure that sounds weird but, it's true.

My size is, 4.25" long and 5" around. I know my thickness is average but, my length is way below. Also, my balls are below average size (with very little hang) because I've been told this, more than once. I also cum very little, always have. It's gotten less as I've gotten older. Average for me now is about 1/4 to 1/2 a teaspoon if I'm lucky.

To keep things short (no pun intended , I'll just go over my last three relationships. The one from a few years ago, was really a great relationship. We had a lot in common, and she loved sex. The communication level and openness was awesome. For me it's a real turn on if a woman can be honest and say what's on her mind, if it's in a nice way.

Once, early on in the relationship, while she was giving me oral (she was incredible) I just wondered out loud if size really mattered. She stopped, looked at me, and asked if I wanted the truth, or a lie. Of course I said the truth. She told me, in her experience, and based on her girlfriends, size definitely mattered. She said her group of girlfriends would get together and talk about their spouses and sizes. They didn't all have huge, but they preferred huge. She said, in her opinion, and based on talking with her friends, that if a woman said that size didn't matter, they were either not real interested in sex, or they were lying.

She was very honest that she preferred big to huge. She had been with around 10 guys over the years, including her ex-husband, and told me I was the smallest, in every way, that she'd ever been with. Her ex was the biggest. She said he was 8" x 7", with the biggest balls she's ever seen, that hung halfway to his knees, and came twice as much as any other guy she'd been with. Even though he was a jerk, he'd ruined her. She was hooked. She told me she could deal with my size because she deeply cared for me and, simply because she was fascinated by my size. She said the extreme difference turned her on. She never was mean about it, she paid lot's of attention to me, we just talked very openly.

In the few relationships I've had, I've been pretty fortunate (at least from my perspective) because all the women I've dated have loved oral, and swallowed. And because I've always tried to watch what I eat and stay fit, several have told me I taste pleasant compared to most other guys. This girlfriend actually said, "I finally meet a guy that tastes decent, and there's just enough to tease".

Our relationship didn't end over the size issue, but because of her insane ex-husband. But size was an issue for her. Bigger was better.

Next time stick in her ass with no warning!:biggrin1:She'll never say it's to small!

 

[wallyj84]

Yes, Penis size matters. Everyone knows that.

 

[Incocknito]

Penis size matters:

During sex

Penis size doesn't matter:

In relationships
While driving cars
While taking dogs for walks
During sleep
During excretion
At job interviews (well all jobs except a few)
At weddings
On Mondays
On Tuesdays
On Wednesdays
On Thursdays
On Fridays
On Saturdays
On Sundays
While exercising
When greeting someone for the first time
When ordering a drink at the bar
When playing recreational sports
On first dates
At McDonalds

I could go on several pages. Put it in puss...pective (hehe).

How long you do spend naked with another person?

How long do you spend outside the bedroom / fully clothed / with your penis hidden?

The majority of the time penis size literally does not matter because it is hidden and because society doesn't place that much emphasis on cock size (except in the bedroom).

Even in a sexual context, it sort of matters and it sort of doesn't. It's very situational and dependent on may facters as to person will enjoy a large penis more than a normal or slightly-smaller-than-normal one.

 

[wallyj84]

Penis size matters:

During sex

Penis size doesn't matter:

In relationships
While driving cars
While taking dogs for walks
During sleep
During excretion
At job interviews (well all jobs except a few)
At weddings
On Mondays
On Tuesdays
On Wednesdays
On Thursdays
On Fridays
On Saturdays
On Sundays
While exercising
When greeting someone for the first time
When ordering a drink at the bar
When playing recreational sports
On first dates
At McDonalds

I could go on several pages. Put it in puss...pective (hehe).

How long you do spend naked with another person?

How long do you spend outside the bedroom / fully clothed / with your penis hidden?

The majority of the time penis size literally does not matter because it is hidden and because society doesn't place that much emphasis on cock size (except in the bedroom).

Even in a sexual context, it sort of matters and it sort of doesn't. It's very situational and dependent on may facters as to person will enjoy a large penis more than a normal or slightly-smaller-than-normal one.

I think penis size has an indirect affect on a lot of different parts of a man's life. Especially dating and relationships. So I would argue that penis size matters a lot in all aspects of a person's life.

 

[B_625girth]

after all the reading, I am sure glad God gave me a decent sized pecker!!! my wife had about 6 guys until she ran into my fat boy and had her first orgasm.

 

[lgej]

after all the reading, I am sure glad God gave me a decent sized pecker!!! my wife had about 6 guys until she ran into my fat boy and had her first orgasm.

Point of information...was it your "fat boy," you, or the incompetence of her past experience that contributed to her first orgasm's having been with you. My wife has an orgasm everytime we have sex (and we've been married for nearly 40 years) and it's as much more because she knows how to have an orgasm than any magical sexual power I might possess or the size (or lack thereof) of my dick. I think what makes me good in bed is simply the fact that she knows her body and how to enjoy it. I may contribute to it, but I'm happy to be along for the ride. Maybe I'm just lucky, I guess.

 

[HUNGHUGE11X7]

Well according to most things I have read , 95% of men say SIZE MATTERS and 65-75% of women, depending on the source.
Personally I say SIZE MATTER IF IT MATTERS TO YOU !
SIZE is a relative thing.
Case in point b/c I am 7+ when soft I can't fathom 7" being indicative of SIZE!
I know and have chatted with several men who believe 7" is HUNG however not the first woman (real or imagined lol) has told me they consider 7" hung.

HORSE

 

[KTF40]

She told me, in her experience, and based on her girlfriends, size definitely mattered. She said her group of girlfriends would get together and talk about their spouses and sizes. They didn't all have huge, but they preferred huge. She said, in her opinion, and based on talking with her friends, that if a woman said that size didn't matter, they were either not real interested in sex, or they were lying.

Seriously, this is the truth. Why is it so fucking difficult for women to admit this?

 

[deleted356736]

Point of information...was it your "fat boy," you, or the incompetence of her past experience that contributed to her first orgasm's having been with you. My wife has an orgasm everytime we have sex (and we've been married for nearly 40 years) and it's as much more because she knows how to have an orgasm than any magical sexual power I might possess or the size (or lack thereof) of my dick. I think what makes me good in bed is simply the fact that she knows her body and how to enjoy it. I may contribute to it, but I'm happy to be along for the ride. Maybe I'm just lucky, I guess.

Any man who's been married to one woman for decades ought to know which buttons to press for that woman to turn her on, unless he's an idiot. All the more given she's got 40 years of sexual experience behind her. I can get my wife to orgasm in less than a minute any time.

What is quite different is having sex early in a new relationship or the first time with a new partner, and she's a bit inexperienced, and she has her first orgasm with you! I've had women so totally blown away they couldn't talk about it afterwards. This is where size makes a difference, because the sensations of length and girth do make things happen. Even in marriage, size makes it happen quite easily. All I got to do is make intercourse last about five minutes or more and my wife will come. All hands off, because she doesn't like to be distracted by me touching her clit. So it's just thrusting and she comes.

 

[marriedasian]

This is where size makes a difference, because the sensations of length and girth do make things happen. Even in marriage, size makes it happen quite easily. All I got to do is make intercourse last about five minutes or more and my wife will come. All hands off, because she doesn't like to be distracted by me touching her clit. So it's just thrusting and she comes.

I can attest to this because my wife is this way, she can come from straight "in and out" fucking without any extra help. If i play with her nipples or try to rub her clit while in the process it just make her cum faster.

Is this due to my size... in part some, but we can't negate the fact that it's friction that promotes sensation. How much friction is up to each women therefore the size requirements will variate with each women and their equipment status needs down below.

To ultimately say size matters is too much cause it's not absolute, maybe it's the majority or half, but not all.

Women are built to take different sizes down there and i'm sure there are limits.

My wife has the best answer to-date of all the women i have asked the question of whether size matters or not; each time she says:

"It doesn't have to be big, just big enough"... take that anyway you want.

 

[Hanger2]

Like they say, different strokes for different folks. My experience is different.

Even after 35+ years of marriage my wife is too tight for me. If I go straight in, the tight friction will cause her discomfort rather than pleasure and make me cum way too soon. We have found that I must always give her a blow or hand job to get her to cum first. After that she is loose enough for me to get in easily and have some fun myself.