Why I believe size does matter

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How many time this going to come up? Really.... sigh... yes size matters. Size will get you laid, but not get you a relationship. How important size is really depends on what you're looking for. In my opinion, if all you want is pussy then dick size is very important but if you want a long lasting relationship it is more about you rather than your size........but big is always good :D
 

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i don't get why small cocked guys post here, and make threads like this. surely since this is a large cock website, the mere fact of reading threads and posting here only compounds any inadequacy, envy or self-pity, wouldn't it? :confused:

if a person has heart disease, do they compound it by eating fried chicken and french fries? it's seems a strange analogy, but even still one is engaging in activities that only serve to worsen their original dilemma.

I think the OP should realise that not all women care about size. it's not cliche, but it's true. while there are size queens who get off on 8" or so and above, there are just as many who couldn't care less. also, maybe not placing as much emphasis on sex may help. while sex is a natural urge virtually everybody has, the idea of getting laid is just a social construct.
 

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Like they say, different strokes for different folks. My experience is different.

Even after 35+ years of marriage my wife is too tight for me. If I go straight in, the tight friction will cause her discomfort rather than pleasure and make me cum way too soon. We have found that I must always give her a blow or hand job to get her to cum first. After that she is loose enough for me to get in easily and have some fun myself.

forgive me but it sounds like your wife isn't wet enough for you to pentrate as quickly and after she cums then she's all lubed up and ready for ya.
 

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what was the point of all this? so we'd all know you have a small penis? I'm guessing all this was just for attention and is some sort of fetish for you?...
yeah maybe it is. this forum is dedicated to the fetish.

Just talking. That's what people do here isn't it? Talk about experiences, ask questions.

i always had a real insecurity about my size but it was without reason. i like hearing what you have to say.

between you and the females you were with, the amount of socialization that goes into sexual relationships is infinite.

i've been with women who wanted bigger, and even though i'm not small i know i said and did things that encouraged them to express these thoughts. as opposed to trying to fully satisfy their innate sexual desires (whether they be more obscene, crude, symbolic, whatever). that is, i could have tried to engage with same aspects of their unconscious that are tapped by sexing a huge dick.

this is what i do now.
 

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Any man who's been married to one woman for decades ought to know which buttons to press for that woman to turn her on, unless he's an idiot. All the more given she's got 40 years of sexual experience behind her. I can get my wife to orgasm in less than a minute any time.

What is quite different is having sex early in a new relationship or the first time with a new partner, and she's a bit inexperienced, and she has her first orgasm with you! I've had women so totally blown away they couldn't talk about it afterwards. This is where size makes a difference, because the sensations of length and girth do make things happen. Even in marriage, size makes it happen quite easily. All I got to do is make intercourse last about five minutes or more and my wife will come. All hands off, because she doesn't like to be distracted by me touching her clit. So it's just thrusting and she comes.

Your condescending attitude is unappreciated. I'd venture a guess that I don't need Dr. Ruth lessons from you. But, you so seem like a sexual god...my best to you. Any reason you haven't posted pics of this magical "just thrusting and she comes" penis?
 

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Your condescending attitude is unappreciated. I'd venture a guess that I don't need Dr. Ruth lessons from you. But, you so seem like a sexual god...my best to you. Any reason you haven't posted pics of this magical "just thrusting and she comes" penis?

Funniest post of the week.
 

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Thanks!

I'll meet someone who gets a thrill out of the little guy. haha!

I just know, and accept, that I'm small, and I just want to be with someone that can be honest with me about it, and not think that they have to say the opposite or walk on eggshells. As long as they care about me and want to be with me sexually, I can handle the honesty. For me it's a turn on.

I actually like a woman that wants to stretch her limits, it's exciting. And there are plenty of other ways to do that, as long as she's open to them.

I actually understand women that prefer big. I would if I were a woman. :)


I had a bf that was on the small side. We broke up for other reasons, but my thing with sex is that, if you cant satisfy your partner with your penis, find other ways. The one that didn't want to orgasm with the toys, she seems kinda dumb to me. As long as you have a way for you both to get off and be satisfied, why not go for it? I would have stayed with my ex a lot longer if he had tried harder in the relationship and in sex. I'm ok with not getting everything I need from his penis, as long as he's trying and we work on it together. So your next gf just needs to be ok with getting off with a dildo. lol
 

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Well according to most things I have read , 95% of men say SIZE MATTERS and 65-75% of women, depending on the source.
Personally I say SIZE MATTER IF IT MATTERS TO YOU !
SIZE is a relative thing.
Case in point b/c I am 7+ when soft I can't fathom 7" being indicative of SIZE!
I know and have chatted with several men who believe 7" is HUNG however not the first woman (real or imagined lol) has told me they consider 7" hung.

HORSE

Yeah.....uh having a grotesque horse dick doesn't make a hot 7 incher small.
I'm 7x6 and almost 6.5 in girth at the thickest point. I think I'm pretty darn hung. I'm hung enough to have been told no a couple times....so I'm not sure how you even manage to have sex at all.
 
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Your condescending attitude is unappreciated. I'd venture a guess that I don't need Dr. Ruth lessons from you. But, you so seem like a sexual god...my best to you. Any reason you haven't posted pics of this magical "just thrusting and she comes" penis?

I second the funniest post comment! This is a 'size matters' thread on a large penis site, isn't it? I haven't posted pictures because I haven't got around to taking any, but my actual dimensions are 7" long and about 6" girth, 5.5" at the tip and then 6" from about one-quarter along to the base. Length is nothing special on this site, but my girth is fairly decent.

I have had about 100 to 150 partners in my life, so I have run the full range of reactions from 'oh my God!' to 'it's not going to fit' (petite Asian girl). I like my size, and probably that has a lot to do with my sexual confidence. Quite a few experienced women have liked my size, and quite a few women here post that 'size matters', especially if you know how to use it. As far as my wife goes, I'm the only man she's had sex with, so I am what she's used to.

It works for me, for her and for us, which is all that matters.
 
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Please tell me that there are plenty of smaller cocked guys that are in happy and mutually satisfied relationships?

There are some or lots, but with the ready availability of images of big cocks on porn, how satisified would many men be with their equipment these days? I know when I was younger I thought myself average, but later on I found out I was porn-star-sized average! So how would real Mr Average feel?

As for women, I know that most take it as they find it. The man and his style and personality come first, and extras like a big cock are a bonus. So the women are satisified more than men, but even then size is often thought of as a bonus. And women do talk, boast, brag, dream about size.
 

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I agree with hachikid's first reply. Tinysquirt IS looking for sexual gratification by admitting his small penis size. He is probably interested in his partners experiences with larger men and is envious of men with large dicks. Perhaps hachikids reply was a little terse but nontheless true. ps what's wrong with people acting out their humiliation fantasies anyway?
 
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I agree with hachikid's first reply. Tinysquirt IS looking for sexual gratification by admitting his small penis size. He is probably interested in his partners experiences with larger men and is envious of men with large dicks. Perhaps hachikids reply was a little terse but nontheless true. ps what's wrong with people acting out their humiliation fantasies anyway?

Perhaps most men who fantasize about their wives having sex with someone else, especially a well-hung someone else, are taking this humiliation one step further.
 

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i saw the last posts and i wanted to correct that. I find the postings from CBRmale kind of suspicious because i know a good numbers of girls who like large penis because it is large. They are ok with smaller ones. BUT they like large penis and they are more than we think. I mean if we consider 1 on 10 men had a big penis. I think at least 3 girls on 10 like large penis. I think perhaps more because lots of my friends never tried it.

When you say few experienced girls like it. I find it really suspicious because i know lots of petite inexperienced girls who tried large and there were NO PAIN, NO position problems at the first sexual intercourse. I speak abotu girls who had 1 or 2 partners before the large one.
For me, the problem of being petite and be able to take a large one is a stereotype like "black men have larger ones". Large penis is not only for experienced women it is wrong.

I think large men are nature gifts to women. It will fullfill the girl and pressure a G spot, U spot, A spot.

From evolution point of view, if girls wouldnt have liked large penis through the ages we would have the same penis size than chimpanzees, it means 2.5 inches. Through ages, girls selected the bigger penis.
 

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So let s repeat over and over why some women like it big.

1. Visual Stimulus.
2. To be able to touch it.
3. sensation of being fullfilled.
4. Other sensation due to stimulation of Fornix. (vagina part)
5. Other sensation due to scretched vagina.
6. Large penis needs less energy for stroke.
7. Large penis dont need to be as hard as smaller penis
8. In many cases, girls loose control with bigger ones and because of that they scream and trash talk often when they would not do it with average size penis. The girls like they loss of control. They could accept being spanked or to have guys speaking bad to them. It is way more natural than we think.
9. Many girls like blowjobs with large penis.


i think the internet is not the place to get a full picture. All the girls who come here are girls who had a relationship or psychological problem in her lives. If a woman doesnt have any relationship problems and great sex in her life she will never go and post something on a forum.

Also.
If size doesnt matter i have some questions:
why african tribes created penis extenders 2000 years ago ?

why the best selling dildos are huge ?
http://xmart.com/top100.htm
 
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So let s repeat over and over why some women like it big.

1. Visual Stimulus.
2. To be able to touch it.
3. sensation of being fullfilled.
4. Other sensation due to stimulation of Fornix. (vagina part)
5. Other sensation due to scretched vagina.
6. Large penis needs less energy for stroke.
7. Large penis dont need to be as hard as smaller penis
8. In many cases, girls loose control with bigger ones and because of that they scream and trash talk often when they would not do it with average size penis. The girls like they loss of control. They could accept being spanked or to have guys speaking bad to them. It is way more natural than we think.
9. Many girls like blowjobs with large penis.


i think the internet is not the place to get a full picture. All the girls who come here are girls who had a relationship or psychological problem in her lives. If a woman doesnt have any relationship problems and great sex in her life she will never go and post something on a forum.

Also.
If size doesnt matter i have some questions:
why african tribes created penis extenders 2000 years ago ?

why the best selling dildos are huge ?
! Xmart.com - Top 100 best selling sex toys

those are all valid reasons. even still, i think there are lots of women who couldn't care less either and it's not a politically correct answer as some may think.

i think people dislike talking about size, or saying they like size, out of not appearing degrading to smaller cock guys. but liking a larger cock per se is no different from liking vanilla ice cream, it's just a preference.
 

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Actually saying guys have larger penis compared to chimpanze is a genetic evolution or something is just untrue...
Penis size, as well as other genetic factors, are not likely due to one gene on the ADN but a complex relation between them, so it's already harder to explain via simple hereditary theory, you link that witht he environnement, and your statement is just wrong...