Why I joined LPSG

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Kat, Mar 27, 2007.

  1. Kat

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    I just realized that I've been visiting this site for two years! I've really enjoyed being here and it got me thinking why I joined in the first place. Off this site, I don't feel comfortable talking about my personal sex life. I've really only had detailed discussions with my best friend from college but she now lives across the country so we don't chat nearly as much. Contrast that with the fact that I love sex and that my husband is extremely well endowed. While I have a number of close women friends, it seems to me that their sex lives are pretty slow. I just feel really uncomfortable saying, "well...last night DH and I fucked for over an hour and I had more orgasms than I could count"...it just wouldn't happen. And then there is his size. I remember about five years ago going on a weekend with some of these friends to the city. We stopped in at an adult store and they just freaked out about a dildo they found. Couldn't believe that anyone would ever use it and if they did they must be some kind of weirdo. It was a dildo that I use quite a bit. I remember saying something like "I bet some guys are built like that". And the response was "Honey, in your dreams...or maybe nightmares!" Well, I've gone off a little bit here. But, it is nice to have found a site that actually has people that really like sex and who appreciate that there are guys out there with huge penises and women who love to fuck them! Thanks all!

    kat
     
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    We all LOVE this site:biggrin1:
     
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  4. pinupbeauty

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    I totally agree with you...I joined this site because I was spoiled by my first sex partner. His penis was the most beautiful 10 inches I have ever felt or seen since. And even though I love sex with my current partner...I will never forget the way my first big one felt...
     
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    For me its closing on 1 year here and i can say ive never learn as much in my entire life as i have in this past year. I love the openess, non-judgemental attutudes and the huge amount of respect people show for each other. And im sure most of us dont feel we cant be as open with our sexuality in reality and for myself being younger than some, having the wisdom and knowledge of the ladies (and gents) has beena blessing.

    But most importantly this place has made me realise that i am different from most and even though alot of the time i have to contain myself there are times i can be 'me' and shouldnt be scared or shy to show that side.
     
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    I used to get angry at people who would be so judgmental of others -- demeaning them for enjoying a particular sex act. Now I just feel sorry for them; it must be a drag to be so limited.
     
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    thats a great post kat. you remind me alot of my girlfriend... who's rather shy talking about sex with her friends... and has even mentioned that shes had to keep quiet around her friends and not trying to 'embarrass' them. she had a similar dildo experience with her closest friend... who she had told about my size... and when she pointed out the one she needed because it was near my size her friend freaked out... and basically told her she was nuts. i'm just glad my girl enjoys it and wasn't judgmental about it. it hasn't always been the case. you... and your husband are both lucky. ;)
     
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    welcome ladies its good to have you here!
     
  9. D_Humper E Bogart

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    Heck, the women's auxillary are always welcome.
     
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    I agree, Kat! I joined I think about 8 or 9 months ago and it's been very nice. I used to be shy talking about sex and doing it online is nice. I've met some cool people and also got some good advice. I still remember my 1st post, I was sorta embarrassed cuz my bf is quite big and I LOVE it but I felt like I'm not supposed to care about his size. People on this site are very open and supportive and I feel totally great about what I like and not embarassed at all. :smile:

     
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    I couldn't agree more. Glad you've enjoyed the crazy wild ride that is LPSG.
     
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    it's a fun site, for sure
     
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    I agree with you ladies...this site is great. Someplace you can actually say you really do love guys that are well endowed and not be looked down upon. Love it!
     
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    I've been lurking for over a year now. But I feel recently so much more comfortable checking out the different sections. I generally go to LPSG to get off, but after feeling interested in different threads.

    LPSG makes me feel much less different in a lot of ways. I'd much rather liken this place to a really good psychology site than a porno site.
     
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    I can really identify with your comments Kat. I joined for the same reason. I had questions that I didn't know who to ask because I felt the people around me wouldn't understand. For some reason I felt more comfortable talking to complete strangers, who in the end convinced me to be more open with the very person I was afraid to ask in the first place. I have a very well hung, very self-conscious fiancé, but it turns out that my insecurity about talking to him just reinforced his insecurity. Before I was afraid to lavish attention on him (saying that he didn't reciprocate) but in the end all I wanted was to feel comfortable saying cheesy things like: "Oh my god, your dick is soooo big!":biggrin1:

    Once I stopped worrying about the response I would receive, I felt so much more fulfilled (sexually as well as emotionally). Now he can't get enough of the cheesy compliments and I'm worried that I don't reciprocate adequately.:wink:

    Brit
     
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    Sex-positive places like this are great, and really do help make you feel good about yourself and what you like. If it helps make your sex life and your relationships better, that's great all around!
     
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    Someone here asked me not long ago why I stop by this site, and I had to think about that one. They were curious I guess because I waited for a long time to have sex and because R isn't what most would call "Large."

    I guess once I did start having sex (and what I think is an incredible sex life) R encouraged me to expand my self imposed boundries and just have fun and follow my curiosity.

    In the time we have been here, we have both learned a great deal, increased our awareness of how others think and feel, and have been really been turned on by most in the group!

    Best of all, it makes my fantasy life REALLY hot!

    Renee
     
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    I agree, its been a long time since I first joined, and even though I don't pepper all the forums with my comments, I have found something I really like about this site and no other. You can just be yourself, and everyone abides by that. And if there is a fight or two, it only lasts a few rounds.

    It's just a great place to let your thoughts wander.
     
  19. linus

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    I really do not post around here much at all, but I really enjoying reading the threads. It is actually surprising how informative and intelligent most conversations here are given that most people who are not familair with this site would probably expect the site to be very sophamoric.

    I have learned things here and have also found it to be refreshing when I read people having similar experiences to me and my SO. For example, Tiff86, if I did not know better, you are my SO because your experiences seem to minic my experiences with my SO so closely. I am the same size as your SO and my partner's experience with me has been the same as yours.

    It is especially interesting to hear women talk about how deep pressure is the thing that sends them over the edge. Seemingly, every internet or magazine article says 'size does not matter because only the first 3 inches of the vagina is sensitive.' Really? I could give my SO 3-5 inches all night, and while she may think it feels great she cannot have the big O until she feels the deep pressure.

    ...I digress. I just wanted to say that this site is surprisingly interesting and fun.
     
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    I agree -- this is a great forum! ...so many lovely, large cocks AND I can add my voice to some very interesting discussions... I'm so glad I joined!

    Thanks, Kat, for the reflection.
     
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