Why I'm 100%

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by rivenoriven, Sep 18, 2010.

  1. rivenoriven

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    I personally believe its impossible to be 100% straight . I think 90-100% gay would be being thinking men like Brad Pitt or George Clooney are attractive.For instance I think Paul McCartney was attractive guy back in the day, BUT I am not sexually attracted or want some kind of romantic relationship. Nor with any man at all. But I however can say that I can admire other men or say that some are attractive much the same way women compliment other women. So when I came here to LPSG originally I believe I had put myself at 99% Straight-1% gay. Or something around that. But then I find myself getting messages from men asking if I wanted to do gay things, or was bi-curious instead. I politely declined. The compliments were flattering at first, but then it got a little annoying. So now I keep myself at 100% straight so only rarely do gay men message me. If I was a gay I wouldvve have listed myself as gay. If I was bisexual, I would list myself at bisexual. I am straight, so I wish people would stop asking.

    Just had to let that out.

    THis probably seems a bit messy, since I always have trouble writing down my thoughts. Also, wasn't sure what category this goes into so I figured Relationships would work.
     
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    hope you feel better.
     
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    Not really upset, just annoyed that Ive been getting a few messages recently from gay men asking. I figured 100% straight was a good clue that I"m not interested.
     
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    Peruse the scores (no, hundreds) of threads here where guys with very high straight percentages (including 100%, occasionally) express a longing for M/M contact on one level or another. You're probably living with the consequences of the ever-popular "fluidity" argument regarding men's sexual expression around here.

    That having been said, this is a message board, not an evening out. If someone sends you a compliment (or, more aggressively attempts to flirt), just hit delete and put that person on ignore. If some guy in a bar or pub wouldn't stop hitting on you, I'd understand your feelings in this regard better. But this is the internet, where people hide behind masks and "persona" with the odd confidence of presumed anonymity: it's the nature of the beast.

    Completely as an aside, I am complimented by women here all the time and have yet to find it offensive in any fashion whatsoever.
     
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    Your original 100% straight man stupidity was considering it a sort of gay thing for a man to admire any other men...even assigning it that 1% gay. That dumb 1% was enough to get many gay men into their I wanna suck a straight man frenzy and flood you with their desperate pleas to slurp up some of your hot, white, thick man-goo. Keep your 100% up there, smarten up and realize it's not at all gay for 1 hetero male to think another hetero male is wayyy kewl. Hopefully the Queens will whine then slink away.
     
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    Well I'll tell ya bud I can't say I blame them with that cock. But try not to take it to personal. After all we gay men get the same thing from women all the time. Plus a lot of times those numbers don't really mean a lot on here, as I have received sexual messages from men who had 100% straight in there profiles.
     
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    You are the 2nd guy I've read (maybe you're the same guy for all I know) who said he was originally listed as 99% / 1% because he thought that was accurate but then got so many "Let me help you with that 1%" messages that he changed it.

    But as a 99% GAY guy, I can tell you I have gotten many messages from 100% straight guys (or so they say) on here wanting things that 100% straight guys don't usually want. So you can see how that clouds the issue.

    I appreciate your honesty and sharing how you feel. This is a forum for that kind of thing so don't let any negative comments dissuade you from future posts along the same lines.
     
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    OK I had to quick go look at his pics before he deletes them. (I'm such a pig LOL.) You're right that is one impressive slab of meat. A straight guy with a sex organ like that would be the lust object of many a gay man.
     
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    I think you're message is very clear. So can I blow you? He he. Just kidding. Sorry, couldn't resist. ;-) Seriously, though, I love how this site allows for people to express their sexuality with ten categories instead of the standard three. That said, I do agree that some people are at the extreme ends of the spectrum, so I fully respect your statement. If the come-ons are getting too much, perhaps add a sig line to your profile politely stating that you'd prefer not to be flirted with by guys. Maybe we need some more descriptive categories for sexuality on this site instead of just percentages. Even better if we could fill it in ourselves, like:
    *Only into women, so no, I don't want to be blown by a guy but thanks for your consideration
    *Usually only into women, until my third beer if I haven't nutted in over four days, then yeah, cock sounds kinda appetizing
    *Not gay but love cock
    *All gay but love only straight cock
    *Always horny, anything will do
    etc. :tongue:
     
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    Oh sweetheart, you must have struggled long and hard before shifting your orientation that one whole percentage point and then announcing it in a new thread. I know for myself, I sometimes flirt with men, women, gay, straight, or undeclared on the board. It's so annoying, not to mention threatening, when they take me seriously, reach out of my computer screen and grab my crotch, but what are you going to do? I can only imagine how much worse it would be if I declared myself 99% straight and then posted pictures of my cock on a board overwhelmingly populated by men. Hyper heterosexuals really have a tough time, don't they?

    I feel for you bro, and thanks for clearing things up for us.
     
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    I did the same thing, rivrnoriven.
     
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    You know I've gotten proposals from many here including marriage. A simple and polite thank you but no thank you usually does the trick.
    On a side note I always assumed 99% straight meant that someone was locked into their preference unless they were stranded on a deserted island with me.
     
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    Yeah I've lost count of the truly gross messages I've recieved offering me everything from the luxury of shitting in some guys mouth to fucking some guy and his wife and a whole bunch of other freaky shit and from 100% straight men. I've had what amount to love letters once or twice.




     
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    Turning off your PM function works very well.

    You can also set the PM function up so that only people you allow on your Friends list can PM you.

    And, after exhausting all other diversionary tactics, being a bad ass and messing with their minds, and writing really bizarre responses can curb their desire to communicate with you.

    On a side note: I've always dreamed of you in a coconut bra and a grass skirt singing "Bali Ha'i." Who could resist your legendary charms?:biggrin1:
     
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    Well i have had mine at 99% straight and 1% gay since i joined and used the same logic that it is ok to admire other well built dudes without wanting sex or a long term relationship with any of them. I too get lots of hits from the gay dudes but just laugh it off and go on with the conversation. Not threatened at all because this is the internet and i wont get poked in the ass by just chatting/complimenting/taking compliments or comparing. Its a big dick site not a pick up bar so I guess its not a big deal. If a dude gets too annoying i leave the conversation or ignore him and he goes away. So...... that's my deep thought for the day....
     
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    Man, you're one confused dude! You title your post "Why I'm 100% Straight," then lead off with the sentence, "I personally believe its impossible to be 100% straight," then go on to explain why you're 0% gay. I think you need therapy to get in touch with your real feelings as you seem to be in denial about your true sexuality. At best, you're terribly confused!

    Anyway, as Mick Jagger once said, people aren't straight or gay, they're just sexual. So open up, do what feels good to you -- suck a cock, fuck a pussy, love someone or just get off with them. Life is too short to worry about labels.
     
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    I see a dick and I think Yay! and I see a Pussy and I think Nay!
     
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    Thank you everyone for the insight, even the negative bashers. The one thing, and most important part, that I forgot about the Internet is that not everyone is what they seem. Didn't cross my mind how many guys here that list themselves 100% straight but still ask for gay sex.

    But I didnt me to come here and come off as "wah wah wah, gay men are messaging me, make it stop". I just wanted to say what I thought, and see if anyone else felt the same way

    Which is what I don't understand to be honest. This site seems so tolerate and be nice to gays, so why hide behind 100% straight on the forums and then PM people. And I don't take serious offense to the offers, it just confuses me because I (wrongly) assumed having 100% straight would (magically) stop all the offers.

    To me, I would consider myself straight. I like vaginas, I'm attracted to women, and I want to date and have sex with women. But like I said, I can find other men attracted just like how other women can call each other pretty and beautiful, but I have no interested in dating or having sex with a guy. So that's my 1% or whatever fucking percentage of gayness that I have. And to BigDallas, I'm pretty sure I actually did receive a message saying " "Let me help you with that 1%" "



    But that aside, as any guy, straight or gay, I love to have my ego stroked, so heh...thanks guys for those compliments.
     
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    I'm certain the musky pheremones that waft up past our nostrils when we pull our own meat out is a stimulant for both sexes, even for ruler-straight men. Women admire each other's tits, get nipple implants if they want to. We have every right to think the grass is greener too. Why I'd never be a nudist, for fear of cold water.

    I remember a co-worker that said he never masturbated, ever. That is the only man that deserves a 100% label.
     
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    From the 100% straight female side of the fence, it is 100% possible to admire the physical beauty of a member of your own gender without an iota of sexual desire... that is where the "gay" part comes in, IMAO.
    And yes, it is a site all about the penis, ergo, mostly men; be they gay, straight or any percentage point in between.
    And that there my friends, is the whole point.
    Dear Mr. Rivenoriven, nice pics. Thank you for your participation. Very encouraging for us ladies. :)
     
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