Why I'm 100%

[closetbi]

For you to see this ever more clearly, imagine a super hot and attractive lesbian chick sending/posting you nudes.

Or, picture going to a gay bar with your dick out. What do you expect to happen? I don't check if a girl is straight before I mack it, same with guys. You'd be surprised how many guys who were hitting on you would probably be satisfied with you just saying thanks, sticking to your straight story and being acquaintances.

 

[maxcok]

The one thing, and most important part, that I forgot about the Internet is that not everyone is what they seem. Didn't cross my mind how many guys here that list themselves 100% straight but still ask for gay sex.

LOL. You think that's only on the Internet? That's everywhere. Why should LPSG be any different?

On a related front, any man who feels particularly annoyed or offended at being approached by another man would do well to examine why he feels so defensive. Would he react the same way if an unattractive woman propositioned him, and if not, why? Overreacting exposes an issue with the receiver, not a fault of the propositioner, and it bears a look inward. Most of the time, a simple thanks, but no thanks will suffice and is entirely appropriate. It's fine to say you're not interested because you're straight, but being compelled to overly assert and reinforce your ironclad heterosexuality is an indication of someone who feels his identity threatened and is not entirely comfortable in his own skin. ihmo.

 

[Snakebyte]

I personally believe its impossible to be 100% straight . I think 90-100% gay would be being thinking men like Brad Pitt or George Clooney are attractive.For instance I think Paul McCartney was attractive guy back in the day, BUT I am not sexually attracted or want some kind of romantic relationship. Nor with any man at all. But I however can say that I can admire other men or say that some are attractive much the same way women compliment other women. So when I came here to LPSG originally I believe I had put myself at 99% Straight-1% gay. Or something around that. But then I find myself getting messages from men asking if I wanted to do gay things, or was bi-curious instead. I politely declined. The compliments were flattering at first, but then it got a little annoying. So now I keep myself at 100% straight so only rarely do gay men message me. If I was a gay I wouldvve have listed myself as gay. If I was bisexual, I would list myself at bisexual. I am straight, so I wish people would stop asking.

Just had to let that out.

THis probably seems a bit messy, since I always have trouble writing down my thoughts. Also, wasn't sure what category this goes into so I figured Relationships would work.

I deleted my pics. Worked for me. :smile:

LOL. You think that's only on the Internet? That's everywhere. Why should LPSG be any different?

On a related front, any man who feels particularly annoyed or offended at being approached by another man would do well to examine why he feels so defensive. Would he react the same way if an unattractive woman propositioned him, and if not, why? Overreacting exposes an issue with the receiver, not a fault of the propositioner, and it bears a look inward. Most of the time, a simple thanks, but no thanks will suffice and is entirely appropriate. It's fine to say you're not interested because you're straight, but being compelled to overly assert and reinforce your ironclad heterosexuality is an indication of someone who feels his identity threatened and is not entirely comfortable in his own skin. ihmo.

Please don't take any offense but I think that's total bs. If you get sexual offers by gay men on a daily basis, even though you made clear that your neither gay nor bi, it's just getting annoying.
Plus those offers come from total strangers who don't feel the urge to introduce themselves first. Plust those guys mostly are ppl with zero posts. They just should learn that LPSG is not a dating service.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

So... when women can comment on another woman's beauty, does that make her some percentage gay as well? I don't think so, personally. So I don't think that being able to recognize that another man is attractive makes you any percentage gay either. You're a straight man. You just aren't stupidly close-minded and afraid of being considered gay like a lot of other straight men. :tongue: (Kind of kidding with that remark, don't attack me.)

 

[HungThickProf]

Was the public service announcement necessary? I'm going to do a thread stating why I would like to see a gay fisting midget/little people porn. Or I won't. Guess it doesn't matter.

Oh, and by the way- on this site, 100% straight doesn't mean shit. Damn near everyone lies on here anyway.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

But that aside, as any guy, straight or gay, I love to have my ego stroked, so heh...thanks guys for those compliments.

:grinning-smiley-003 As long as the the person isn't abusive, I think this attitude is best as most of the flirting on LPSG is lighthearted in nature. Besides, I am guilty of publicly flirting with members across the sexuality spectrum, from Principessa to Bbucko, OC, Jennuine, CondomFairy, MickeyLee, and it isn't with any real sexual intent. I save that for PMs. :09:

Completely as an aside, I am complimented by women here all the time and have yet to find it offensive in any fashion whatsoever.

Nooooooo, really? :08:

 

[Bbucko]

Nooooooo, really? :08:

Oooooooooooh, really!

You sexy beast.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

Oooooooooooh, really!

You sexy beast.

I know, and for almost three years as well. You have weathered my constant verbal groping with class and ever increasing sexiness. :10:

 

[luka82]

I wrote 100% gay, I just don`t want to break women`s hearts

 

[maxcok]

Please don't take any offense but I think that's total bs. If you get sexual offers by gay men on a daily basis, even though you made clear that your neither gay nor bi, it's just getting annoying.
Plus those offers come from total strangers who don't feel the urge to introduce themselves first. Plust those guys mostly are ppl with zero posts. They just should learn that LPSG is not a dating service.

Why would I take offense? You're entitled to your opinion. And who says LPSG isn't a dating service, or to be more accurate a hook-up site? The site is many different things to many different people, and I would imagine to quite a few of them, it is exactly that.

I don't think I need to tell you the world is full of idiots, and there are plenty of them cruising this site. There's not a whole lot you can do to influence their behavior. I doubt they notice or even care what your declared orientation is (not that the shift from 99% to 100% in the case of the OP is that dramatic anyway). If you're on a site devoted to big dicks where the vast majority of users are men interested in dicks, and you post pics of a nice body or a nice cock, you might as well be waving a slab of bacon in front of a pack of wild ravenous dogs. To then be shocked and offended by some of the responses seems a bit silly and disingenuous to say the least, if not downright hypocritical. Not to mention that they, just like you, are totally anonymous people you'll never meet who live thousands of miles away. Seriously, what's the big deal?

It's the same with women who dress all skanky in the clubs to attract a hot guy and then get offended when some guy they're not attracted to hits on them. Clearly the issue there is with who is doing the propositioning, just as here it is being hit on by gay or bi men, whether on this site or in real life, and that issue lies ultimately and squarely on the receiver of the attention, not the propositioner. Annoying yes, but why are you annoyed? Again, would you have the same level of reaction if you were being propostioned by an unattractive woman?
If the answer is no, then the question "why not?" warrants some extra examination. If you feel it's insulting or somehow threatening to your heterosexual male identity, that's your problem. I fail to see how this boils down to anything but a self-preceived challenge to your heterosexual status and identity. What exactly is the threat otherwise? How vulnerable is your own identity, how fragile is your ego?

The women on the site have similar complaints with men sending them unsolicited dick pics. It's unfortunate everyone doesn't have a higher sense of etiquette, but hello . . . we're on a sex site devoted to penises, the world is an increasingly rude place full of horny idiots, and people will do lots of things here anonymously they would never do IRL. Seriously, what do you expect? Some people have signature lines discouraging such annoyances. I don't know if that helps or not. At any rate, I don't see why it's so hard to just say thanks, but no thanks, or just delete the message, put that person on ignore, and go on with your happy heterosexual life.

 

[houtx48]

You come on a gay website with pictures of your big dick and then you piss and moan about gay guys coming on to you? boo fucking hoo

 

[B_subgirrl]

You come on a gay website with pictures of your big dick and then you piss and moan about gay guys coming on to you? boo fucking hoo

It wasn't a gay website last time I looked. It's a website for everyone.


Although OP, you probably will find that you get less PMs if you take your pics down. I feel for you. I have a friend who experiences the same thing. I don't know why people can't respect someone's stated sexuality. A gentle flirt in a post is one thing, but a PM makes things a little more personal IMO.

 

[chicagosam]

If you get sexual offers by gay men on a daily basis, even though you have made it clear that you are neither gay nor bi, it just gets annoying. Plus those offers come from total strangers who don't feel the urge to introduce themselves first. Plus those guys mostly are ppl with zero posts. They just should learn that LPSG is not a dating service.

Welcome to the LPSG experience. Every male at this site has experienced this phenomenon whether they wanted it or not. It's all in how you present yourself and how you respond to it.

 

[Snakebyte]

Why would I take offense? You're entitled to your opinion. And who says LPSG isn't a dating service, or to be more accurate a hook-up site? The site is many different things to many different people, and I would imagine to quite a few of them, it is exactly that.

I don't think I need to tell you the world is full of idiots, and there are plenty of them cruising this site. There's not a whole lot you can do to influence their behavior. I doubt they notice or even care what your declared orientation is (not that the shift from 99% to 100% in the case of the OP is that dramatic anyway). If you're on a site devoted to big dicks where the vast majority of users are men interested in dicks, and you post pics of a nice body or a nice cock, you might as well be waving a slab of bacon in front of a pack of wild ravenous dogs. To then be shocked and offended by some of the responses seems a bit silly and disingenuous to say the least, if not downright hypocritical. Not to mention that they, just like you, are totally anonymous people you'll never meet who live thousands of miles away. Seriously, what's the big deal?

It's the same with women who dress all skanky in the clubs to attract a hot guy and then get offended when some guy they're not attracted to hits on them. Clearly the issue there is with who is doing the propositioning, just as here it is being hit on by gay or bi men, whether on this site or in real life, and that issue lies ultimately and squarely on the receiver of the attention, not the propositioner. Annoying yes, but why are you annoyed? Again, would you have the same level of reaction if you were being propostioned by an unattractive woman?
If the answer is no, then the question "why not?" warrants some extra examination. If you feel it's insulting or somehow threatening to your heterosexual male identity, that's your problem. I fail to see how this boils down to anything but a self-preceived challenge to your heterosexual status and identity. What exactly is the threat otherwise? How vulnerable is your own identity, how fragile is your ego?

The women on the site have similar complaints with men sending them unsolicited dick pics. It's unfortunate everyone doesn't have a higher sense of etiquette, but hello . . . we're on a sex site devoted to penises, the world is an increasingly rude place full of horny idiots, and people will do lots of things here anonymously they would never do IRL. Seriously, what do you expect? Some people have signature lines discouraging such annoyances. I don't know if that helps or not. At any rate, I don't see why it's so hard to just say thanks, but no thanks, or just delete the message, put that person on ignore, and go on with your happy heterosexual life.

I think we have a misunderstanding. It's exactly what you wrote again what I call total bs. If it annoys me or not being spammed by total strangers has nothing to do with my ego, my sexual identity or anything like that. I never said anything about being offended. I have no problem with men writing pm's in case they know how to behave. I had several nice conversations with dudes who know how to make friends the right way. It's not about the gender, it's about not respecting boundaries. I took down all of my pictures except the verification picture and deleted every info about location, orientation, age... just to get rid of those stupid spammers. And it worked.

You come on a gay website with pictures of your big dick and then you piss and moan about gay guys coming on to you? boo fucking hoo

strange.. back in 2005 it was called Large Penis Support Group and not Large Penis Gay Support Group.

 

[blooeyz]

it's because so many str8 guys play with other guys. man up, it's part of life

 

[petite]

maxcok, my signature line stopped almost all unwelcome PMs. At first, my signature line just indicated that I wasn't interested in hooking up and that I wouldn't be answering questions about TheBF's penis or give my opinion on anyone else's penis, which accounted for at least half of all the PMs I received, if not more! That stopped almost all of them. It didn't work completely until I added the link to TheBoyfriend's profile page. I notice that now he has 2x the visitors that I have had (my profile has about 2,000 hits, his 4,000), despite the fact that he's only posted about 30 times and I have about 3,000 posts! I assume that some people who thought about PM-ing me must have clicked on his profile first, and then decided to give up. Now I get an unwelcome PM maybe once a week.

Now I mostly get men who have added me to their friends list without PM-ing me, which lets me now that they must not have read my signature line, but that's rare.

It's my opinion that the signature line works! I was swamped by PMs and they stopped after I'd tweaked the message enough.

I did remove my orientation because that generated unwelcome PMs, too, but since I've stated that I'm not interested in hooking up and that I'm taken by TheBoyfriend, I figure that's all anyone needs to know.

 

[chicagosam]

It's because so many straight guys play with other guys. Man up, it's part of life.

That's also a well-known fact about LPSG. You are more likely to get hit on by a "straight" man than a gay man. Gay men know better. If it bothers you, you may need to do some serious soul searching—you may be interested.

Strange.. back in 2005 it was called the Large Penis Support Group and not Large Penis Gay Support Group.

Perhaps it needs to be changed to the Paranoid He-Man Heterosexual Support Group—no gay men allowed.

 

[Snakebyte]

Perhaps it needs to be changed to the Paranoid He-Man Heterosexual Support Group—no gay men allowed.

Perhaps people should realize that it's neither a straight nor a gay website.

 

[BIGBULL29]

Oh sweetheart, you must have struggled long and hard before shifting your orientation that one whole percentage point and then announcing it in a new thread. I know for myself, I sometimes flirt with men, women, gay, straight, or undeclared on the board. It's so annoying, not to mention threatening, when they take me seriously, reach out of my computer screen and grab my crotch, but what are you going to do? I can only imagine how much worse it would be if I declared myself 99% straight and then posted pictures of my cock on a board overwhelmingly populated by men. Hyper heterosexuals really have a tough time, don't they?

I feel for you bro, and thanks for clearing things up for us.

I recently joined the MHAHHA (My Heart Aches for Hyper Heterosexuals Association). It was real eye-opener.

 

[BoxersguyNJ]

I don't think there is anyone who is 100 % straight....impossible ..everybody likes to explore a little, a couple of friends of mine who I thought were straight all the way, turns out that I found them on a gay site so I approached one of them and he said " ohh I happened to click on the wrong page so I was just looking at the pics and I said YEAH ...ok