Why I'm 100%

[maxcok]

There is a slight problem with the signature thing. A lot of people don't read that, or would ignore it. Now I don't have anything about my sexuality, or measurements in my signature like some. But it still says 100% Straight on everything I post, and on my profile, but I still get asked if I'm "gay or str8" (almost never straight, pretty much always 'str8', just an observation). This really isn't a big deal though since I don't really care all that much if I get PM's from guys hitting on me. In fact, out of all the guys who I would rather have PMing me, I'd rather it be the guys who WOULD probably read my signature and such, instead of the guys who would ignore it. At least that ups the chances of talking to someone interesting. :tongue:

Plus it would give some guys even more excuse to rage. But if I'm honest, I complain sometimes, but mostly humorously about it. And more about how silly or uncreative, or just down right weird some of the messages can be.

To sum up: A lot of ppls is downright weird. And stoopid. No way around that.

Still, seems the sig thang works for some. Seems worth a try for those who are truly annoyed. If they truly are.

 

[musclebare9]

For most people coming out has historically been an act of bravery, especially for those in the public eye. It also sets a positive example for others to follow. It is that simple act more than anything else multiplied exponentially by thousands that has inspired and allowed others to come out, and it has led directly to the level of acceptance we've reached in our society. I don't think most if any of them do it for the attention.

Announcing ones sexuality is absolutely ridiculous. Nobody really gives a sh*%. Skip the drama or as you call it bravery. A person's sexual orientation is their business and doesn't need to be announced to the world.

 

[D_Relentless Original]

Announcing ones sexuality is absolutely ridiculous. Nobody really gives a sh*%. Skip the drama or as you call it bravery. A person's sexual orientation is their business and doesn't need to be announced to the world.

Yeah, i agree with that^.

But if so called 100% guys want to put their naked butts/cocks on line for all the world to see then that is up to them, if they don't want compliments coming from guys then put them on ignore or simply reply thanks but no thanks.

I really don't get what the issue is. I am sure most of the ladies on this site have unwanted attention from 100% straight guys too.

Its not as though you are going to be meeting another guy is it?, people just need to get over themselves. It is a sex site online.
At the end of the day; who really gives a shit?

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

Just as necessary as every gay TV star, musician, politician, or anyone else who thinks themselves important coming out of the closet and announcing that they are gay.

It's not even remotely the same, and I suspect if you weren't 100% straight you'd probably understand why.

On a site like this a guy has to just draw a line in the sand. I'm 100% straight so don't PM me with come-ons or whatever.
It seems that the only people who have a problem with people who are 100% straight are well...those who aren't 100% straight, and some of the female members(for some strange incomprehensible reason that completely eludes me).
It's not a shot at you personally or a condemnation of what you feel is right. It's simply a polite way of saying "Not interested".
Respect our sexuality as we respect yours.

Who the hell is this "we" you're talking about? Because believe you me not all heterosexuals respect alternative sexualities, and LPSG is by no means a homophobia free zone. And how does someone on the internet being attracted to you and letting you know about it constitute disrespecting your sexuality? They're not groping your arse in a crowded bar, they're not forcing themselves on you, they're not demanding anything from you. So really what do you find so god damned disrespectful about the fact that someone of the same sex as you might find you attractive? It doesn't even necessarily mean they think you're gay, indeed the fact that you're not might be part of the reason they find you attractive, they may be totally happy that their attraction isn't reciprocated and just want to let you know they think you're hot, end of story, no strings attached.

Is the very idea of being told that you're hot by another man offensive to you? If so then you have the problem.

 

[B_Hung Jon]

On a site like this a guy has to just draw a line in the sand. I'm 100% straight so don't PM me with come-ons or whatever.
It seems that the only people who have a problem with people who are 100% straight are well...those who aren't 100% straight, and some of the female members(for some strange incomprehensible reason that completely eludes me).
It's not a shot at you personally or a condemnation of what you feel is right. It's simply a polite way of saying "Not interested".
Respect our sexuality as we respect yours.

I think this is pretty fucking funny. "Drawing a line in the sand". What a stupid hetero line. Why is it that straight guys are always having to defend their turf? What is there about being 100% straight that demands respect? To me straight guys' defensive attitudes about themselves is what causes many problems in the world. To me the fewer 100% testosterone-driven het males born would make this a more peaceful planet.

 

[Chase1600]

What I find strange is that AnonymousPenis, who might as well have named himself InvisiblePenis, what with no pictures and only two other posts since becoming a member 3 ½ years ago – neither of which would seem to be a come-on or attract interest – has a reason to draw lines in sand or anywhere.

Were a member, describing himself 100% straight, to ask not to be approached by guys, but nonetheless posts pictures revealing he is handsome and hung, his wishes ought to be respected but let’s face it, this is the internet, and in particular this is a forum to discuss and admire penises.

As always Jon makes sense. It’s hardly the worst insult to have people think we are attractive even if we don’t want to be involved with them and it would be insane to flaunt sex appeal and then complain that our flaunting works.

AnonymousPenis isn’t currently flaunting. I’m surprised members have even noticed his presence.

 

[maxcok]

^ I seriously doubt anyone has. Methinks the gentleman doth protest . . . well, you know the rest. :wink:

 

[BIGBULL29]

Are 100% straighters scared to look at their own penises? Are they that scary?

Are all 100% straighters required to be repulsed by all naked men?

According to straighters, the world should just be full of lipstick lesbians. Perhaps 100%ers need to have sex change operations and become women. That way, the world would be penis-free and like the island of Lesbos.

(PS Maybe a lot of 100% straighters are transsexual lesbians?)

 

[NEWREBA]

What I find strange is that AnonymousPenis, who might as well have named himself InvisiblePenis, what with no pictures and only two other posts since becoming a member 3 ½ years ago – neither of which would seem to be a come-on or attract interest – has a reason to draw lines in sand or anywhere.

Were a member, describing himself 100% straight, to ask not to be approached by guys, but nonetheless posts pictures revealing he is handsome and hung, his wishes ought to be respected but let’s face it, this is the internet, and in particular this is a forum to discuss and admire penises.

As always Jon makes sense. It’s hardly the worst insult to have people think we are attractive even if we don’t want to be involved with them and it would be insane to flaunt sex appeal and then complain that our flaunting works.

AnonymousPenis isn’t currently flaunting. I’m surprised members have even noticed his presence.

I never quite understood how anybody, woman or man, could not find SOMETHING attractive or cool about either gender? It doesn't mean you want to sleep with them. Maybe it actually means that men who consider themselves 99.99999% straight might still find another guy attractive even by this extremely small margin...which also might infer that he's not REALLY straight. What a web we weave...:smile:

 

[maxcok]

Announcing ones sexuality is absolutely ridiculous. Nobody really gives a sh*%. Skip the drama or as you call it bravery. A person's sexual orientation is their business and doesn't need to be announced to the world.

Of course it's their business, but unfortunately for gay people, plenty of people do give a shit. Ever heard of Fred Phelps for starters? The Mormon church? The Roman Catholic Church? Most fundamentalist Christian churches? The majority of political conservatives in this country? They and many others give a huge shit.

What you don't seem to (or want to) grasp is that homosexuality has been used to persecute people throughout history, especially in modern history. It was ONLY SEVEN YEARS AGO that the US Supreme Court finally got around to decriminalizing gay sex in this country, even in the privacy of one's own home. Up until then according to various state laws, you could be arrested and sent to prison.

Unless people had been brave enough to come out over the decades, to live openly as positive role models and take a stand, we would still be living in the dark ages. It's still illegal in many states for gay parents to adopt, still illegal for gay people to serve in the armed forces or to marry, and it was only this year that the president signed an order to eliminate the practice of barring gay people from visiting their ill partners in the hospital. That's the tip of the iceberg of how gay people are treated unequally in this country. So although we haven't achieved anything approaching full equality, at least it's no longer officially considered a mental illness, and people aren't being stoned to death, in modern Western countries at least. That's not the case in much of the world. Without people coming out as positive role models and taking a stand, NONE of the shifts in attitude and NONE of this progress would have happened.

So yeah, plenty of people do give a shit, on both sides of the issue.

I imagine it's easy for you to be oblivious to all this living an assumed and privileged ironclad straight identity, but seriously stop and consider the alternative and what other people have had to go through and still go through. Maybe educate yourself a little before spouting more ignorant nonsense. Study after study has proven that the one single factor above all that moves people's attitudes to be tolerant of homosexuality is if they personally know someone - friend, family, business associate, etc. - who just happens to be gay, someone they like, admire or approve of otherwise.

That's not to say everyone needs to come out tomorrow; it's a personal decision, and depending on one's individual circumstances it can be very risky, AND THEREFORE VERY BRAVE. But if everyone did come out, prejudice against gay people would pretty much disappear in short order. People hiding in the closet and living in the dark only perpetuate prejudice against all gay people. Your belittlement of people who do come out makes me wonder why you are so defensive about this.

Consider and try to grasp what I said to you before:

For most people coming out has historically been an act of bravery, especially for those in the public eye. It also sets a positive example for others to follow. It is that simple act more than anything else multiplied exponentially by thousands that has inspired and allowed others to come out, and it has led directly to the level of acceptance we've reached in our society. I don't think most if any of them do it for the attention.

If, as you say, "Announcing ones sexuality is absolutely ridiculous", why do you list 99% straight in your profile?

 

[Pendlum]

Are 100% straighters scared to look at their own penises? Are they that scary?

Are all 100% straighters required to be repulsed by all naked men?

According to straighters, the world should just be full of lipstick lesbians. Perhaps 100%ers need to have sex change operations and become women. That way, the world would be penis-free and like the island of Lesbos.

(PS Maybe a lot of 100% straighters are transsexual lesbians?)

What is a 100% straighter? Just someone who says they are 100% straight, or is there some other criteria? I certainly hope there is more too it.

 

[D_CountdeGrandePinja]

I see a dick and I think Yay! and I see a Pussy and I think Nay! - Alex the Redhead -

MY FEELINGS exactly - have never been with a woman nor desired to!

 

[B_Big Dick Johnson]

I see a dick and I think Yay! and I see a Pussy and I think Nay! - Alex the Redhead -

MY FEELINGS exactly - have never been with a woman nor desired to!

I have never been with a man or desire. it's all taste and preference. I'm not gonna judge those who do, but I am 100% straight because I love women. Am I homophob, not at all.

 

[maxcok]

What is a 100% straighter? Just someone who says they are 100% straight, or is there some other criteria? I certainly hope there is more too it.

Who knows what Bull's trying to say? Sometimes he's confusing, bless his heart. He can speak for himself,
but he's a sweetheart, and I doubt he meant to lump all 100%ers into his (trying to be funny?) statements. Personally I think you're a way cool 100%er, FWIW.

 

[Pendlum]

I'm guessing he wasn't trying to be malicious, but it is ambiguous. So I'm just pointing that out, so he can clarify if he wants. Because it could easily be taken the wrong way (assuming that way is actually wrong :tongue). Looking back at it, my response does seem a bit salty, but sometimes when I reply I am a bit salty, so oh well. :tongue:

And thank you, max. :smile:

 

[maxcok]

^ You're welcome and deserving. I don't think your questions are a bit out of line. Some clarification is in order.

 

[BIGBULL29]

I'm not lumping all 100% straighters in the same boat (there are exceptions), but most are exactly as I described above in my last post. They think that saying they're repulsed by penises and that the world should be full of lipstick lesbians make them look even more than a 100% straight when, in fact, it has the opposite effect (but they love seeing those big dicks in porn LOL).

To enjoy being male, which most straight men do, requires some attraction to maleness, unless you're a transsexual lesbian. Most men are attracted to large, beautiful penises, making them not 100% straight. For example, when a man gets jealous of a porn star's big dick and thus likes to see it, he is feeling attraction towards it, even if he has not true desire to play with it. The fact is that ideal penises are just visually stimulating to men, as we all have one ourselves. And I don't doubt in any way, shape or form that these very straight men prefer women to men and have little interest in gay sex, but there is still some same-sex attraction in these men that manifests itself through jealously, competition, etc. Watching straight porn or being in a locker room is enough to prove it.

100% straighter = one who claims to be 100% straight

Pendlum, I believe that you are not at all interested in gay sex. You have no convincing to do with me, but that was never point.:biggrin1:

 

[Gaydane]

Who cares, if it is better for you that way, no problem with me

 

[D_Asston Kutcher]

Well, attraction is entirely subjective. I'd be curious to know what guys you do think are hot,
objectively speaking of course. Maybe somebody on LPSG?

Sands have a tendency to shift. Maybe you should set it in stone.

I don't think most people have a "problem" with someone being 100% straight. It's more a question of how some (many) guys wear that identity - is it a comfortable old t-shirt or a suit of armor?

I thought the 100% straight thing would be a good clue.

Many people don't spend that much time thinking about their own sexuality. It's simply who they are and their comfortable with it. I've actually thought about it long and hard and come to the conclusion that I'm pretty much straight.

Who the hell is this "we" you're talking about? Because believe you me not all heterosexuals respect alternative sexualities, and LPSG is by no means a homophobia free zone. And how does someone on the internet being attracted to you and letting you know about it constitute disrespecting your sexuality? They're not groping your arse in a crowded bar, they're not forcing themselves on you, they're not demanding anything from you. So really what do you find so god damned disrespectful about the fact that someone of the same sex as you might find you attractive? It doesn't even necessarily mean they think you're gay, indeed the fact that you're not might be part of the reason they find you attractive, they may be totally happy that their attraction isn't reciprocated and just want to let you know they think you're hot, end of story, no strings attached.

Is the very idea of being told that you're hot by another man offensive to you? If so then you have the problem.

Dude. Chill.
There are jerks everywhere, including here.
Hell, I'm a jerk.
And I have no problem with compliments.
Their awesome. It's just that some people don't know where the line is, ya know?

I think this is pretty fucking funny. "Drawing a line in the sand". What a stupid hetero line. Why is it that straight guys are always having to defend their turf? What is there about being 100% straight that demands respect? To me straight guys' defensive attitudes about themselves is what causes many problems in the world. To me the fewer 100% testosterone-driven het males born would make this a more peaceful planet.

No it's lack of respect for other people that is the real problem.
The real Spartans were as bi as could be and they were some of the most vicious cold blooded warriors of their time. They were also slavers rapists murderers and elitist bigots.

I don't think someones sexuality has any real bearing on the righteousness of their heart.

What I find strange is that AnonymousPenis, who might as well have named himself InvisiblePenis, what with no pictures and only two other posts since becoming a member 3 ½ years ago – neither of which would seem to be a come-on or attract interest – has a reason to draw lines in sand or anywhere.

Were a member, describing himself 100% straight, to ask not to be approached by guys, but nonetheless posts pictures revealing he is handsome and hung, his wishes ought to be respected but let’s face it, this is the internet, and in particular this is a forum to discuss and admire penises.

As always Jon makes sense. It’s hardly the worst insult to have people think we are attractive even if we don’t want to be involved with them and it would be insane to flaunt sex appeal and then complain that our flaunting works.

AnonymousPenis isn’t currently flaunting. I’m surprised members have even noticed his presence.

I came to this site because I wanted to know how I measured up. I joined up because of a thread I read about guys who were considered big but not big enough. It spoke too me. I had to join.
As for pictures, I assure you I'm not handsome and I'm not hung. It's only about 8.5-8.75 x 6 midshaft 6.25 at the base. And that's on a good day.
But I do come off as a hypocrite, so suppose I should put my pictures back up.

^ I seriously doubt anyone has. Methinks the gentleman doth protest . . . well, you know the rest.

Okay

I never quite understood how anybody, woman or man, could not find SOMETHING attractive or cool about either gender? It doesn't mean you want to sleep with them. Maybe it actually means that men who consider themselves 99.99999% straight might still find another guy attractive even by this extremely small margin...which also might infer that he's not REALLY straight. What a web we weave...

Okay I can tell when a guy is really handsome and I can tell when he's really ugly. Everything in the middle is just nothing. It's just a dude.
I can also tell when a guy put a lot of effort into their workout in the gym putting on muscle is tough and takes dedication. I can also tell when a guy is strong.
At no point do I ever think about having sex with those guys or do I care about their wedding tackle. I just don't care.

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

Dude. Chill.
There are jerks everywhere, including here.
Hell, I'm a jerk.
And I have no problem with compliments.
Their awesome. It's just that some people don't know where the line is, ya know?

No I don't fucking know, dude. You didn't answer my questions, and telling me to "chill" just makes me dislike you.