Why is a big penis of interest to you?

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I know this seems like a silly question. But, why? What is the turn-on for you and why? What does seeing a big cock represent to you?

I read some guys commenting on big cock pictures like "I would suck that all day" or similar. Is it the power that it represents, the sensation, the jealousy you have of it, what you imagine it would be like if it was yours, etc.? I am not being critical of any of these issues, I am more curious why.

For example, for me even though I am very well-endowed, I appear maybe just a bit above the average soft and am envious of the guys who are hung bigger flaccid. I would like women to see, if I were at a nude beach, that I have a big one, and I think I would enjoy the envious looks from guys there or in a gym lockeroom etc. So, for me it is about appearance from both looks and what I think women and men would imagine my sexual prowess would be that I can do. However, it often seems and I have gotten feedback that most women don't pay all that much attention. But, guys do. Again, why?

What about you? Is there anything specific?
 
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Personally I love physical challenges and the reaction and appreciation I get from those I get to enjoy. The sensation of a cock being gulped down past the bend in my throat is one of accomplishment and I find myself pre-cumming hard once I get past that threshold.

Also, anal with a very large guy, well into the sigmoid, brings on a whole body euphoria that "mere" prostate stimulation achieves. If he's thick as well, there's both the deep sensations and continual pressure raking over the prostate. Exquisite.
 

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My interest is more selfish and personal. I would love to know what it feels like to have a big dick. What it feels like in a pair of pants, fuck with it, play with it and everyday things like flopping it out to piss! Seeing nice big dicks fuel my imagination.
. Totally agree on that part and I would love to be able to satisfy my wife in all the ways she wants. I love her so much it sucks that I will never measure up. I’d sell a kidney or lung to be hung ....
 

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My interest is more selfish and personal. I would love to know what it feels like to have a big dick. What it feels like in a pair of pants, fuck with it, play with it and everyday things like flopping it out to piss! Seeing nice big dicks fuel my imagination.

Perfectly logical.

You and a lot of straight men feel the same way. That just don't admit it.

You go in a sex shop and there are giant realistic-looking dildos everywhere. They are just for women to look at. I don't think so.
Men like to see well-hung men in porn A LOT. It's not because of the women who watch it. LOL.
 
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I love my big long dick and huge balls, so I can acknowledge a nice big one when I see one. Seeing ones that are bigger than mine, especially fatter, makes me a bit envious, but I like to compare and imagine what mine would be like if it was that much bigger/fatter. It's a weird fascination that comes from my own insecurities about wanting to be bigger, but also an appreciation for other dudes who are hung and proud enough to show them off, like I do. It's a gift we share with the world when we let them be seen and admired.

I don't get turned on by seeing a big cock, but because I'm so obsessed with my own, it's oddly satisfying to see ones that look like mine. It's comforting to know that there are guys out there who know what it's like to have my wonderful penis lol What does turn me on is seeing a huge cock in action, specifically in POV porn, because I can imagine that it's my big dick getting played with and doing all the fucking, and that is really hot to me. I can't relate with small dicks, so I avoid seeing them, even if it's in porn featuring a girl I'm into.

In conclusion, big cocks are awesome, especially mine :)
 
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I love my big long dick and huge balls, so I can acknowledge a nice big one when I see one. Seeing ones that are bigger than mine, especially fatter, makes me a bit envious, but I like to compare and imagine what mine would be like if it was that much bigger/fatter. It's a weird fascination that comes from my own insecurities about wanting to be bigger, but also an appreciation for other dudes who are hung and proud enough to show them off, like I do. It's a gift we share with the world when we let them be seen and admired.

I don't get turned on by seeing a big cock, but because I'm so obsessed with my own, it's oddly satisfying to see ones that look like mine. It's comforting to know that there are guys out there who know what it's like to have my wonderful penis lol What does turn me on is seeing a huge cock in action, specifically in POV porn, because I can imagine that it's my big dick getting played with and doing all the fucking, and that is really hot to me. I can't relate with small dicks, so I avoid seeing them, even if it's in porn featuring a girl I'm into.

In conclusion, big cocks are awesome, especially mine :)
Beautifully said!
 

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Why is a big penis of interest to you?
I have trouble answering this. By itself, a big cock doesn't interest me at all. The only cock I'm interested in is my own.

I'm hung like a chipmunk. I've been obsessed by having a small cock for as long as I can remember. Everything in sex for me revolves around that fact. I guess it's like yin and yang. If there were no big cocks in the world, if everyone were small, then I'd never have gotten hung up by having a small cock.

I was always self-conscious about how small it was, and how much smaller it was than other guys'. I was always sure it would be too small to satisfy a woman. And equally sure that the big cocks I saw in the shower room could. They reeked of masculine power. And no matter how successful I was at attracting women by my looks and build, that never changed.

So, big cocks don't interest me except in comparison to my own. They're what make mine small.



NOTE: I don't mean this to be a downer. I've had a great sex life, a gorgeous wife, and love having a small cock. I'm the happiest guy on earth. Just have a small dick!
 

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I think cocks are very central to a man's view of himself. A big cock is desirable from one's own point of view and men seems to obsess about cock size.
I do.
It has however dawned on me through many relationships with women, mostly long term but quite a few quickies between gf's, that women dont seem to be too bothered about my cock size.... I am the one overthinking it.
And fishing for compliments from one's partner is a bit embarrasing.
My male friends on the other hand is obsessed with size... A lot if them has seen me naked as I have them.
Communal showers ofshore and staff houses.
So after a few pints the cockstories will come out.
Bottom line:
I love looking at my hardon in the mirror and am glad it seems big while knowing there are bigger out there and fantasizing about having the absolute longest thickest hardest cock on the planet.
It will only piss my gf off as allready I struggle to go all in and it surely wont bring me more pay or better job.
But it will please me.
 
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My husband was large and he spoiled me from early on. I truly enjoy the visual beauty of nicely hung cock and watching large cock porn.

Interesting. My girl's formative sexual experiences were with me and one other large cock. We bought an average size vibrator but she just considers it small.
 
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I have severe body dysmorphia. I have always seen myself as small but my partners always tell me I'm bigger than average. It's messed with me since I was a teenager.

Even though after years of PE and since I started bottoming out during sex with my girlfriend I can't seem to shake the notion.

Looking at pics here kind of gave me a better reference to what is normal, small, freakish and etc.
 
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I disagree that women do not pay much attention to it. Of course, everyone is different and some people don't care about some things. In my experience though, women have much preferred a bigger one. When I say bigger, I don't mean 9 inches. Seems to be more around 6-8. Girth is always a big factor. Bigger does, in fact, feel better. I've always preferred something 7x6 or better for myself.
 
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I have severe body dysmorphia. I have always seen myself as small but my partners always tell me I'm bigger than average. It's messed with me since I was a teenager.

Even though after years of PE and since I started bottoming out during sex with my girlfriend I can't seem to shake the notion.

Looking at pics here kind of gave me a better reference to what is normal, small, freakish and etc.

I understand exactly where you're coming from.

I developed a penis size obsession when I was in my early 20's.

I truly believe my boner is super big, but my flaccid hang never seems long enough.

Penises in general bore me, unless one might be bigger than mine. Then I get super interested.
 
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It's less about the power and what it represents for me. Obviously there is an aspect of increased masculinity and awe towards a big cock. But for me it's mostly the sexual desire. There is an immense full feeling to takin a huge cock. Some are about conquering the challenge. And others just the great feeling of a monster dick stretching me out for mutual pleasure.
 
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