Where did we get the idea that every female relationship before feminism was a ball and chain type that was oppressive for the women?
not all was...but some was.
the difference is that now there's legal protection.
Why couldnt HollyBlue (aka consensualslave) have that kind of bond with her man without feminism so called giving her the right to have that choice? Last i knew there were good men and good women out their pairing up all the time and having the kind of relationship they wanted regardless what anyone thought.
the point here is that she has a choice. she consents BUT she has a legal right not to consent.
imagine that kink exerted in a non-consensual relationship and it's not such a pretty picture.
Personally, i'd be who i am if i married my husband 300 years ago or today, because we both pair well together. Feminism hasnt done much for me personally. Women still get looked at with a double standard as far as sex goes and always will. Often times its other women that are the feminazi's toward other women who choose to be sexual and feminine at the same time.
except for the right to vote, equal pay, legal protection, the right to see your children should you divorce, an equal right to the property, the right to choose your wonderful husband instead of your father choosing for you, the freedom to dress as you choose, the right not to be locked in a mental hospital for being raped, access to contraception, the chance to try sex before marriage, etc.
The feminism i see today is the one that says men are useless, like a fish needs a bicycle, all men want to oppress you and put up a fight when one holds the door open for you.
that is NOT feminism. that's just those big mouthed feminazis. they do more to damage the cause than any man could ever do.
...this is like damning all muslims because a few extremists have given islam a bad name, or damning all christians because of the 'god hates fags' loonies.
the REAL feminists are trying to rid us of the last inequalities in employment, are trying to provide good role models to girls so that they realise they can be anything they want, are supporting the men who want to be stay at home dads so that couples aren't forced into set roles, are fighting to get those pitifully low conviction rates for sex crimes up...and are just getting on with their lives, being who and what they want to be and refusing to be shackled by gender.
I love being a woman, i love being my husbands woman. I have an identity without him, but much of who i love about myself is when i'm with him. He brings out the best in me.