why is gay sex easier to get than straight sex?

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  1. B_Marius567

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    why is gay sex easier to get than straight sex? A lot gay men want to have sex with me and I can not find a girlfriend.
     
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    Men are more easily turned on by visual stimuli, which apparently is you. Gay sex isn't easy for me to get..
     
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    a few things.

    you are probably more comfortable, open and spend more time with men.

    also men are just generally more open to sex and looking for it. It is a lot easier for a man to have a quick blow and move on and be emotionless.

    Society also has the tendency to make girls looking for sex sluts, and guys looking for sex pimps

    take your pick! probably a combo of the above reasons :p
     
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    Wow! As a female I have always found the opposite. I always thought it was because there are so few gay people compared to straight people. Is this something the 'straight' men aren't telling about??? :shock:
     
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    men are pigs when it comes to sex~
     
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    Men have a secret, private world of sex that is talked about from early years with other men. We can always go to a public restroom and see cock and some there want to be seen. If one looks for signals of interest then we can seen hard cock and someone jack off. And many restrooms have peep holes. Then there are the XXX arcades with men who brouse. The list goes on and on. It becomes easy for one man to find another man interested in playing. A few years ago public rest room were rampant with horny men. Now they are not so safe to play in.
    I do not play with other men , but I have seen a lot.
     
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    Men are sluts.
     
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    Sounds, on the surface, like a simple question---but it's a complicated issue. Part of your answer may lie in your site monicker. Relationships with women that result in sex generally take more time and maneuvering; most women, I think, require some sort of commitment. Men usually don't require anything but the opportunity...even many (certainly not all!!!) straights are receptive to a quick, anonymous hand- or blowjob: an orgasm is an orgasm.

    Too, note that you say "gay sex" on the one hand, but "a girfriend" on the other. Even to attempt a comment on that would require knowing you personally. The best that one can advise is for you to try to overcome your shyness and work on honing your social skills. And remember: finding "a boyfriend," as opposed to a mere temporary sex partner, is not the easiest thing in the world, either.

    Just a suggestion: Perhaps you should accept some of those gay offers. That would not in any way say that you yourself are gay---and you would be able to get off occasionally without resorting to solitary masturbation.

    Good luck, buddy!
     
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    ^This^ straight or gay; black, white or asian, rich or poor. Men are sluts.
     
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    Do straight men still go to XXX arcades / movie theaters? I figured these places turned into ghost towns when the internet became widely accessible to everyone. I understand that bi/gay men can still pick up someone in these spots but my guess is it's probably harder now than before.

     
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    yeah. as the average woman jokess, the average guy would sleep with just about anything after a beer. the average woman is a lot more picky.

    think about how we evolved. a guy can impregnate a dozen females a week at no cost to himself. a female has to give 9 months + several years investment to the guy she sleeps with. good reason for her to choose good genetic stock and a loyal personality.

    nature was cunning in the sex drives she gave us.
     
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    I know when I want sex it is pretty easy to find. I agree with SyddyKitty for the most part.
     
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    I co sign the bright words of dolfette.... also, we generally have to woo women... guys just wanna get off as much as possible...
     
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    * look at the thread topic *
    * reads some of the good responses *
    * "Men are sluts" by SyddyKitty. LOL! Perfect answer :biggrin: *
    * Ponders about posting *
    * Sees the OP... remembers his rampant bouts of homophobia on the board *
    * Decides not to respond *
     
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    idiotic query
    for a 7 year veteran lpsg?
    enz

    and why the need to edit 2 lines?
    says he who is offended' --- not exactly in the funnys ...
     
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    Pretty much this.
     
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    Men don't get pregnant.
     
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    Men are the gas. Women are the brakes. Two men, no brakes. Lol.
     
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    Don't make me go through your post history and prove otherwise. I made my comments and was content to walk away, like you've done so many times in other threads. But don't sit here and lie at my expense.