I went to an gay meetup.com group at a fall festival. There was a guy there that was pretty hot and he was like extremely into me. We talked a lot and made out a little. I would have gone to bed with him that night but he already had plans. We decided to go on a date with each other. Anyway he texted me a lot and we talked on the phone a couple of times before the first date. I seemed way too formal for me but I just went a long with it. Then we went on the date the other night which went well. I asked him what he was looking for. He said he didn't want anything serious but thought we were very compatible. I told him I was alright with that. It got late we both took public transportation and had work in the morning so we just ended it.
The problem is he keeps texting me all day everyday and wants to talk on the phone or video chat or tell me how bad or good his day is or what we should do on our next "date". It's annoying and I don't understand whats going on. Why can't we just text like once per day or something or just make plans for the next time we meet? I would even be fine with a 24 hour period of no contact. I'm not going to lie, part of me feels like I'm super important to have someone text me so much but the honest truth is that it's annoying and doesn't make much sense. If he want's casual this isn't it. This isn't even "getting to know you"!
Does anyone know why this guy is so damn clingy?!
The problem is he keeps texting me all day everyday and wants to talk on the phone or video chat or tell me how bad or good his day is or what we should do on our next "date". It's annoying and I don't understand whats going on. Why can't we just text like once per day or something or just make plans for the next time we meet? I would even be fine with a 24 hour period of no contact. I'm not going to lie, part of me feels like I'm super important to have someone text me so much but the honest truth is that it's annoying and doesn't make much sense. If he want's casual this isn't it. This isn't even "getting to know you"!
Does anyone know why this guy is so damn clingy?!