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Provide clarification when asked. I have a lot decisions to make concerning my life. Some if made I won't be able to take back. But it just seems to imposition, to ask someone where you fit in their life. I want to be alone but I am. Changes have to made. One will be permanent, I won't get second chance.
 

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Provide clarification when asked. I have a lot decisions to make concerning my life. Some if made I won't be able to take back. But it just seems to imposition, to ask someone where you fit in their life. I want to be alone but I am. Changes have to made. One will be permanent, I won't get second chance.

Your question is open ended and general, but the best advice I can offer is when you have to know something and people gse missing the cues that you need to know, you need to ask, directly and specifically. I don't think the obliviousness you refer to is intended, it just comes from people being self absorbed and not looking beyond themselves. Don't hesitate to speak up for what you need, life's too important to let some things slide or "hope they work out."

Good luck.
 

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Provide clarification when asked. I have a lot decisions to make concerning my life. Some if made I won't be able to take back. But it just seems to imposition, to ask someone where you fit in their life. I want to be alone but I am. Changes have to made. One will be permanent, I won't get second chance.

Perhaps find a support group. You can Google mental health services, churches and probably others. Replace old habits with new ones. Go to the gym instead of something else. Volunteer at a dog-rescue facility. You'll realize that you are important and have much to give.

Send me a PM if you want to talk more. God bless you my brother.
 
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Provide clarification when asked. I have a lot decisions to make concerning my life. Some if made I won't be able to take back. But it just seems to imposition, to ask someone where you fit in their life. I want to be alone but I am. Changes have to made. One will be permanent, I won't get second chance.

We all fall short. We will all one day ask for forgiveness, or so I believe based on my faith in God. You can and WILL be forgiven by all, although some might not be able to do so in this lifetime. Once we go to Heaven, we will gain more understanding and empathy that will help us all to forgive.