Why is it some women in specific races are so snobby ?

[D_junipframmel]

im black and women of all ethic backgrounds seem to think im very attractive at school and at work or out in public places such as malls or resturants. Even the parents of girls of different ethnic backgrounds that i have met have treated me the same way as they would any other race. I don't think race plays a factor in educated non bias women. Present yourself well and treat them respectfully, and thats all.

 

[ConstantComment]

My sister is much fairer than I am. But we are very different in how we speak, (she's a bit lazy in her language) and we have different interests. She told me that even when she goes out with white female friends and white guys start hitting on them, they are so very uninterested in her. We came to the conclusion that it must be dress and mannerism that attracts or repels even on the level of ethnicity.

 

[Lex]

Generalizations suck.

 

[green carnation]

yet it still amazes me how many women i see who seem to be attracted to men who treat them appalingly, and men who enjoy treating these women appallingly.

I find the original posters take on this as somewhat perverse. I am bemused he tries to link this to ethnicity and colour. People discriminate on many grounds, class and education is more important than ethnic origins. If a high status female is seen to be predisposed to associating with men of dubious ethics and manners then she will be seen as a loser. Remember, women have a lot more to lose by hitching up with someone inferior (by that I mean, selfish, self indulgent, arrogant, little regard for others) than a man does.

 

[B_RedDude]

Dude, you can't tell ANYONE who they should want to fuck. That is one of the most personal decisions we make, and it's just that. Personal.

Sorry, no one in the general population owes a fuck to anyone else in the general population.

Mature people know how to handle rejection.

Actually I wasn't turned down by anyone.

But from observation Asian women are more interested in other Asian men or white men.

I use to take advantage of being the first black guy for a few white girls, but ive stop becoming that special black guy who is worthy of their time.

So these days whenever a sexy young white girl try talking to me I just smile and continue playing my ipod. This is not about me, but why other black men don't get a chance like some are willing to offer me ?

 

[B_crackoff]

Can I paraphrase?

I find young white, asian, and persian women quite repulsive at times because of their apparent limited interest in ME. It's mainly a reflection of how uneducated a woman is when she refuses to HAVE SEX with ME because of MY background.

Ahem!

 

[green carnation]

it gets more interesting if you read what he posts in the vibes thread.
Sorry im not clever enough to put the link in here

 

[whatadork]

It just seems freaking retarded for you to rant about this when in the end it's a natural thing. *Most* women find people of their own race more desirable. Not a big surprise. Past that, they find whatever race is of the most "prestige" and/or majority the most desirable. I don't even know why you're surprised by this. Asian womens' first inclination is to date Asian men. White women, white men. Black women, black men. Hispanic women, Hispanic men. Now I'll have to say that in the US, white is considered a totally decent alternative to most races and that's because of a few factors. White in the US means you're upwardly mobile, the majority, and sexualized (in a good way) by the media. So aside from the fact that white men have the leg up on the other races, everything seems totally natural to me.

It just seems to me that you have a major double standard here. You're complaining about Persians, Asians and whites because they're not dating black men as much as YOU would like. But on the other hand I don't see you condemning black women for not dating more white, Hispanic and Asians. Nor do I see you demanding Hispanic women date more white, Asian, and black men either.

I wonder why? Pretty much it's because what you're TRULY saying is

"Everyone I choose should sleep with me because I'm so great. Hell, I'm so conscientious, I'm willing to be people's 'first black fuck' and women should thank me for the honor. But a lot of those Asian bitches (and some Persian and white bitches) don't want to accept my great offer of 'be fucked by a black man' so they must be chauvinistic. I mean what the fuck? They'd rather date Asian or white men than be fucked by me?! I cry FOUL!"

 

[B_crackoff]

it gets more interesting if you read what he posts in the vibes thread.
Sorry im not clever enough to put the link in here

Just read the other crap! He posted about this before!

I have only failed twice for racial reasons, I just assume the asians don't date outside their race and stay away. This is about me not getting women outside my race, I do it quite easily. This thread is mainly about the issues with dating outside one's race. I don't want a woman who is silly enough to assume im a homo who is just out to be her friend. I am a realist, we all want sex but atleast get to know me before blanking me. A good man is a good even if he wants to fuck a girl, I don't think im bad because I want pussy.[/QUOTE]

who said I have problem with ladies ?

I wasn't interested in talking with her, she came up to me so I had no "goals"

I have plenty of different women who absolutely love me so I don't see the need to change.

Do what works for you, and ill do whats working for me.

Apparently that option doesn't apply to Asian/white/Persian women.

http://www.lpsg.org/137282-so-i-got-turned-down-7.html#post2182580
My dick is bigger than your dick, and I look alot better than you.

I am 6'5

nothing short about me.

I'm sex, females come accross they think sex. You have to work your way into getting pussy.

I am sex.

Sad really.

 

[B_RedDude]

We homos don't want you, either.

I don't want a woman who is silly enough to assume im a homo who is just out to be her friend.

 

[Pandora77]

Just read through other posts the OP has made and the threads he started. Seems like he's full of himself:

A Thread he started a while ago: Women who can't cum

Or take forever to cum from dick because they use sex toys more than they should. And sometimes she isn't even able to make herself cum while using the dildo.

Does it turn you off if you're fucking a female and you get the feeling nothing you do will ever get her to cum ?

I have this girl who I believe just love the feeling of dick inside her, it doesn't matter how close she tells me she is to cuming it will never happen :biggrin1:

For some reason knowing this doesn't motivate me to sleep with her, i'm not use to spending hours of constants fucking to make any female cum. I had sex with her like 5 times and was only able to make her cum once.

She has sex toys and her TV is always playing porn :biggrin1:

 

[earllogjam]

I'm very confused by this thread and your comments. Toronto is a very cosmopolitan city. I live in New York City and Honolulu and see interracial couples all of the time. Maybe you just have not met the right person or perhaps there is something in your manner that is off putting.

I see a few white/black couples but other than Tiger Wood's parents and one other couple I know who got divorced there are very few Asian/Black couples I see...even in Hawaii the few times I've visited there.

Even in very cosmopolitan cities most of the couples are same race with Asian women/White guy couples coming in a close second.

 

[dolfette]

from the vibes thread

It doesn't matter much to me tho, my friends love going out with me to any location - even the mall and all they do is tell me about the number of girls looking at me. My friends even say some girls are touching their friends telling them to check me out etc ..The worst thing about it, they (my friends) want me to talk with eveeeeeeeery female who looks at me..These guys aren't willing to let some girls go by, i'm like I can't talk to all these girls okay ? and I don't have the time to be spending hours speaking to a million different women. It's so disgusting.

I know for a fact i'm not easily approachable, I am 6'5 big and tall..I look like I work out but I don't...I don't smile much unless i'm like talking someone and making a joke..If a female is near by me while im enjoying life with my friends they will realize how easy it is to speak to me.

The most frequent question I get asked is " you're not going to give me your number and take mine ?" ..then i'm like oh yeah, i'm sorry I wasn't sure you wanted to keep intouch. The fact is it doesn't matter how many females may like me or look at me, there is a good chance I have zero interest in them for a number of reasons. The biggest reason I just can't add another person in my life.

this ego is ugly!

 

[AlteredEgo]

Maybe some of the other dudes are not as good looking as the OP. Maybe they don't have such a good handle on fashion as he does either, and so, maybe women don;t like the way they dress. Perhaps these men don't carry themselves in a way which projects a classy, cultured, educated image, the way the OP does. It just may be they only want to date black men if they can be as charming as the OP.

Maybe this post is enough ego stroking for the OP so we don't have to deal with him again for a while.

 

[coachreffn]

The OP ....nah, this guy is not worth my talking about him or his very odd situation. He is a racist and a misogynist. OP, that means you don't like or respect women of ANY race. Ladies of the world, step back from this guy and go the other way. Get used to your hand, OP, cause no one, male or female wants to get mixed up with that.

 

[wallyj84]

The OP is full of himself, but he does have a point. Some people do think that certain races are below them. Often times people like this refuse to date people of the "inferior" race. For example, when I was living in Asia I knew a lot of Asian women who would never consider dating a black guy, regardless of his personality, wealth, looks or whatever.

Now some people might say that's just a matter of preference, but I will disagree and say that about the time you're unwilling to date someone regardless of his looks, personality and financial status that's there's something else going on.

 

[Nickstevens]

I have been to Asian countries as part of my work and the general feeling is that black guys are tough, prone to violence and things like that. It is amazing how even educated people will advice you if you tell them that you happen to have a black friend. They will always say - be careful - you could get in trouble.

It is the media that shows them that way. The media and those stupid Nigerian scam people who have made a lot of people here associate black with bad things. It is not an excuse but that is how it is.

Back here in the States, I have seen a lot of Hispanic girls who detest black guys but I have also seen some that only like black guys!!!

The world is a funny place - you just have to learn to live with personal prejudice and just brush it off your shoulder as long as it is does not directly affect or insult you. Just my 2 cents.

 

[B_1youngboy]

The OP is full of himself, but he does have a point. Some people do think that certain races are below them. Often times people like this refuse to date people of the "inferior" race. For example, when I was living in Asia I knew a lot of Asian women who would never consider dating a black guy, regardless of his personality, wealth, looks or whatever.

Now some people might say that's just a matter of preference, but I will disagree and say that about the time you're unwilling to date someone regardless of his looks, personality and financial status that's there's something else going on.

Interesting post.

For example, I have this non black girl in my life, she isn't christian and according to her, her father would cut me up in pieces if he found out she was fucking a black man.

She is one of the very bright ones who don't follow what her parents tell her about relationships, but in the long run her family comes first and I don't see how me and her would ever get married etc ...

Alot of women from non-black backgrounds were raised badly, so they stereotype etc etc

Some stereotypes help black men, e.g having a big dick but most are negative and sadly non black women fall into the trap. I have never seen a classy white/Asian/etc women holding hands with a black man who wasn't dressed like fashionable guy or didn't have a semi effeminate attitude. I think non-black women are more likely to give an average white guy a chance, but to date a black man he has to be the best. It's kind of funny, but I don't want to be the lucky black man. Because the truth is I don't feel so special because I am getting pussy from a non black female.

 

[B_1youngboy]

I have been to Asian countries as part of my work and the general feeling is that black guys are tough, prone to violence and things like that. It is amazing how even educated people will advice you if you tell them that you happen to have a black friend. They will always say - be careful - you could get in trouble.

It is the media that shows them that way. The media and those stupid Nigerian scam people who have made a lot of people here associate black with bad things. It is not an excuse but that is how it is.

Back here in the States, I have seen a lot of Hispanic girls who detest black guys but I have also seen some that only like black guys!!!

The world is a funny place - you just have to learn to live with personal prejudice and just brush it off your shoulder as long as it is does not directly affect or insult you. Just my 2 cents.

Lovely post, thanks for your honesty. Yes you will be surprise how hard it is to dismantle the same old racist crap propagandized about Black men. I don't personally have a problem getting non black girls to like me, I randomly test out Asian chicks because they seem less interested in me than any other race and the conversation always goes smoothly as if I was talking to a black female. Ofcourse I have absolutely no interest in Persian women lol.. White females are more willing to start up a conversation, most of them give me the look - constantly, as if they are begging me to say something. I actually love when they watch me behind their dark glasses up close, but I get the vibe like "there is a black guy I would like to talk to" and this turns me off. I prefer when I meet them and they get to know who I am before I decide take the relationship route.

I guess on a personal level, an Asian female can sit beside me and it's like im not even there... A black girl would be smiling at me, white girl would smile or atleast take a few glances or say hi ..

 

[Kyro]

You know how I see this? This is more of a situation, I think, of the OP feeling that every women is either out to have ravenous sexual escapades with him or if they don't want crazy sex with the OP, they must have some sort of deep hatred for him. He decided to blame this on them being racist and thinking they're too good for him. You know what I blame this on? BEING A PERSON.
Not every single women walking down the street or sitting in a cafe or on the subway necassarily WANTS a sudden relationship or WANTS to sporadically start up conversations with a stranger. That has absolutely NOTHING to do with race. You don't know if the women that you feel don't give a damn towards you already have a spouse or are dating.
I don't suppose you expect women who are taken by other men to come flocking up to your virile, chivalrous self. This isn't a question of "Well that asian lady there must be racist simply because she isn't even batting her eyelashes at a handsome and sexual beast of a man such as myself, how uncivilized and rude!" This is a question of "Will her husband beat the shit out of me for sleeping with her?"