Scenario: We are two couples who have known each other as friends for many years. One thing led to another and we all ended up in a sort of swinger scenario. Both guys have sex with both girls. But, here's the rub - both girls have sex with each other, too. No problem. Highly erotic for the guys voyeuring and sometimes getting involved with the girls same time. Highly erotic for the girls, cuz they are not just playing/teasing when they do play with each other (which seems to be at any given opportunity) and lost count of their orgasms when they do. BUT.... If we guys started playing with each other, the whole setup would change. We'd be considered "gay" or, at best, "closet-gay". Yet they can lick and finger and tongue each other and it's considered "fun". Why is lebianism so much more accepted as nothing more than sexual fun, so much more than male-on-male sexual fun?