hotbodz8: Hi guys(and gals) I've been away for awhile. I'm glad to be back. I just came from an another online message board where the topic of size came up and does it really matter etc. etc. etc. One thing that intrigues me is that most of the time on these types of threads two separate "camps" if you will, inevitably come up. In one camp we have the guys that have small and average penises, and the ladies that love them. These guys are "good" guys that got shortchanged by nature, but supposedly they almost inevitably are better lovers because they are more sensitive and caring toward their partners, take more time with foreplay, and make up for their lack of size in other ways. In the other "camp" are the guys that are well endowed. Almost always these guys are characterized as being insensitive lugs that just jam their huge schlongs in and out of their partner with reckless abandon, kinda like a construction worker with a jackhammer tearing up an asphalt street. These guys supposedly don't care about their partners, don't take time with foreplay, and just seem to like to beat their partner's cervix into oblivion. My question is, where did this stereotype come from? Why is it that you almost never hear about well endowed guys that DO care about their partner, are awesome with oral, and use their big tool with TLC? I mean do the ladies on these boards say this stuff because they feel it might be too threatening to the egos of the guys that aren't well endowed to know that there are guys out there that are hung and yet are still awesome lovers who know how to use their stuff right? Any input would be appreciated. Again, glad to be back.