Why is it too hard to find bi-sex couples?

[933630]

Hi there all of you.

As a bi-sex guy i always find hard to meet up new guys/girls or couples. What could be reason for this? Is there too much conservatism about bisexuality? Or there are really too few bi-sexes around ?

What's your opinion ?

 

[bi20sman]

I can think of a few but the one that makes to most sense to me is.
Most Bi men look like straight men there is little outward sign, as part of this many of us are married. (you could say that 1/2 end up in a gay relationship but I think the rest of this still applies)

unless your spouse agrees to some sort of open relationship you have two choices.
1 Cheat in this case you will be playing alone and trying to hide your life from your spouse.
or
2 you can look on the internet for porn matching your interest and hope some day you could do some of what you see.

Personally I think this applies to both me and women.
Try joining lifestyle (swinger) sites you are more likely to find real people willing to have fun like you are looking for.
Keep in mind how few relationships are open and you might start to see how many people are not just straight but end up speeding most of their life as straight.
Message me if you want suggestions.

 

[Heat]

There are a lot of bi and/or bi-curious and/or very open minded men, women and couples on here. However, I dare say they don't hook up much, or they might have a regular guy/girl they play with. I love mmf but they are definitely hard to find.

 

[damnimbi]

You think it's hard now? Try going back before the internet made it easier. Before you only had sketchy newspapers where couples would post adds. You had to mail in a response, and wait, wait, wait, lol.

Though it's not 'easy' finding a couple, it's easier. Sites like AFF, and here to a lesser degree, at least give you the option.

I was looking last year with a female friend, but most the responses were from guys that either didn't match our preferences (which were really clear), or they flaked. On two years of looking for a bi male, we had 'serious' discussions with only three or four. We met with one, who immediately flaked. One other just didn't show.

My suggestion is to be forward, direct, and honest. Ne persistent, but considerate and courteous. There are interested couples out there, you just have to be patient.

 

[Heat]

You think it's hard now? Try going back before the internet made it easier. Before you only had sketchy newspapers where couples would post adds. You had to mail in a response, and wait, wait, wait, lol.

Though it's not 'easy' finding a couple, it's easier. Sites like AFF, and here to a lesser degree, at least give you the option.

I was looking last year with a female friend, but most the responses were from guys that either didn't match our preferences (which were really clear), or they flaked. On two years of looking for a bi male, we had 'serious' discussions with only three or four. We met with one, who immediately flaked. One other just didn't show.

My suggestion is to be forward, direct, and honest. Ne persistent, but considerate and courteous. There are interested couples out there, you just have to be patient.

My first bi-couple experience was with a husband and wife whom I met via an ad in the NYC's Village Voice. So, yep, I remember the good ol' days! Never heard of AFF... I'll Google it.

 

[thongboy]

We're a bi couple, and we do a lot of 3 way. I have a couple of fuck buddies who hook up with us a lot and we all know everything there is to know about everybody's body and it makes for some awesome sessions. But we've also found new partners. A good place to meet new people is on a beach like South Beach in Florida or Venice in L.A. We'll both be lying there in our thongs and we always end up meeting new people.

 

[damnimbi]

My first bi-couple experience was with a husband and wife whom I met via an ad in the NYC's Village Voice. So, yep, I remember the good ol' days! Never heard of AFF... I'll Google it.

AFF is kinda similar to Ashley Madison, in that I suspect many of the female/couple profiles are fake. I was originally on the site around 2000, when it was more welcoming. Now it just feels cheap, like everything is to make a quick buck. Enter with caution.

 

[damnimbi]

We're a bi couple, and we do a lot of 3 way. I have a couple of fuck buddies who hook up with us a lot and we all know everything there is to know about everybody's body and it makes for some awesome sessions. But we've also found new partners. A good place to meet new people is on a beach like South Beach in Florida or Venice in L.A. We'll both be lying there in our thongs and we always end up meeting new people.

Look me up when you're in LA again!

 

[hotcockalex]

In my case they're hard to find, I only found 1 bisex couple to actually meet and have sex,

The thought makes me still hard, unfortunately the contact is broken.

Several reasons about the "why" but hard to say which one exactly.