Why is it?

[Putzo]

Why is it that when you have sex with a stranger for the first time, your cum load is so much more?

I can honestly say that the first time with someone, my load can easily be 50% more than when I get used to having sex with the same person.

It's also not linked to how big the orgasm is, it can be an average orgasm, but the semen is always more than my average load.

Anyone else experiences this?

 

[LouisVauban]

You haven't had sex continuously with the right person.

When I am in love, it is love-making, quite different than sex (although the right partner CAN deliver "sex" during love-making)....

When I love someone and am in complete rythm with them, I can shoot like nothing else..... like a racehorse.

But, that is not to say that if a new dalliance "excites me" beyong normal constraints, I cannot also be amazed at my orgasm....

But, just being "new" does not necessarily excite me more.

 

[upone]

I can honestly say that the first time with someone, my load can easily be 50% more than when I get used to having sex with the same person.

Anyone else experiences this?

For me it depends a lot on what she's doing, more than whether it's the first time. I always come harder and longer with a blowjob than with vaginal sex.

 

[Master Blaster]

I think it's just cause you're way more excited and turned on with a new person. Don't get me wrong, having sex with a steady partner is great, but the excitement of a new partner definately gets me shooting ropes as well.

 

[Duality]

Perhaps it's part of evolution... spreading your genes and increasing your chances with new mates and all that pizazz. Though I'm no scientist (but I do pretend to be one on Wikipedia).

 

[jeff black]

Why is it that when you have sex with a stranger for the first time, your cum load is so much more?

I can honestly say that the first time with someone, my load can easily be 50% more than when I get used to having sex with the same person.

It's also not linked to how big the orgasm is, it can be an average orgasm, but the semen is always more than my average load.

Anyone else experiences this?

I'm going to guess this is different for everyone, but I am betting you are some sort of thrillseeker. The idea of sex with a stranger is much more passionate to you than with a lover. As a result, more exciting.