Why is oral sex so complicated nowadays?

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Let me elaborate… lol

Why is it that it seems like no one likes to give AND receive blowjobs… you gotta choose one or the other.

I’ve come to really liking to give oral to guys and I’m definitely trying to up my experience with larger dicks. As far a getting a bj I can go either way… like I wouldn’t turn one down. My issue with getting one is that it usually take me a long time to cum unless I’m really horny or the dude is really good. But still I’ll take one.
However dudes are like I’ll give you one but you can’t give me one… and they will give u the cold shoulder just for asking to give a bJ.

I can understand not everyone liking to give BJs cause it is work lol but a good session of just sucking a dude off and letting him do the same can be fun. If the dick is right I can shoot my load while going down on a dude.
 

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Let me elaborate… lol

Why is it that it seems like no one likes to give AND receive blowjobs… you gotta choose one or the other.

I’ve come to really liking to give oral to guys and I’m definitely trying to up my experience with larger dicks. As far a getting a bj I can go either way… like I wouldn’t turn one down. My issue with getting one is that it usually take me a long time to cum unless I’m really horny or the dude is really good. But still I’ll take one.
However dudes are like I’ll give you one but you can’t give me one… and they will give u the cold shoulder just for asking to give a bJ.

I can understand not everyone liking to give BJs cause it is work lol but a good session of just sucking a dude off and letting him do the same can be fun. If the dick is right I can shoot my load while going down on a dude.
I am so turned on by dicks if I am with a guy I find attractive I instantly want to inspect, sniff and suck their dick. I am always perplexed by guys who don't give blow jobs. For me mutual blowjobs = a good experience. With my husband I will suck him off and after he comes he will suck me or sometimes I will JO and edge myself for a long time with his dick in my mouth, savoring the taste of his sperm and aroma.

it usually take me a long time to cum
Every cock is different in terms of the exact kind of stimulation it needs, when you are in a long term relationship you sort of learn over time the exact right oral moves to get your boyfriend or husbands cock to squirt and vice-versa.
 

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I get that too, although I've met guys that don't like the sensation of getting sucked off. Hard to believe.
I mean dont get me i think we all know what a bad BJ feels like… yikes!
But it’s frustrating wanting to give them but the other guy doesnt want it but only wants to give u one… especially if you know they got a nice dick!
 

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I know it! This is true! This became a thing on Grindr a few years back. It’s so strange to me, and maddening at times! Who doesn’t want their dick sucked…?!
Personally, I wouldn't care if I never got my dick sucked again. It feels nice, but in 23 years of sexual activity, I've only came from getting sucked maybe four times. It feels nice and I'll allow it, but they need to understand that there's a near zero chance of my orgasming from it. I rarely cum during sex anyway.
 

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Personally, I wouldn't care if I never got my dick sucked again. It feels nice, but in 23 years of sexual activity, I've only came from getting sucked maybe four times. It feels nice and I'll allow it, but they need to understand that there's a near zero chance of my orgasming from it. I rarely cum during sex anyway.
That’s depressing
 

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I think the answer is pretty obvious and I admit that I used to be like this.

If you don't cum, you can suck dick all day long and still want more.

The moment you cum, your sex drive decreases and you lose motivation to keep going.

Cock is easier to come by than pizza these days. So if you have 5-6 guys lined up that day, you don't want to cum until you get to the end.
 
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I think the answer is pretty obvious and I admit that I used to be like this.

If you don't cum, you can suck dick all day long and still want more.

The moment you cum, your sex drive decreases and you lose motivation to keep going.

Cock is easier to come by than pizza these days. So if you have 5-6 guys lined up that day, you don't want to cum until you get to the end.

Wow! That definitely doesn’t happen to me! That’s sad if it’s your reality. I definitely don’t think it’s the norm…
 
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I think the answer is pretty obvious and I admit that I used to be like this.

If you don't cum, you can suck dick all day long and still want more.

The moment you cum, your sex drive decreases and you lose motivation to keep going.

Cock is easier to come by than pizza these days. So if you have 5-6 guys lined up that day, you don't want to cum until you get to the end.
I actually thought that was the reason. Same when I top a guy and then he goes out looking for more loads.
 
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Wow! That definitely doesn’t happen to me! That’s sad if it’s your reality. I definitely don’t think it’s the norm…
I actually think it is kinda normal the more I think about it. But I think it’s more like the guys what’s the wait til they are done for the day to get off.
 
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