why is unprotected sex more accepted on straight encounters?

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  1. pierceplace

    pierceplace New Member

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    I'm gonna tell you a sad story, but lets start by saying its obvious how straight porn shows as not much of a deal sex without condom, but when it comes to gay... bareback is hardcore and extreme.

    I used to jerk off with a friend from college... I fancied him for so long, we got really close, and we even fucked a girl one time... it was okay, but since that time he let me suck him off occasionally.
    It was about time we were ready to fuck... I was such a bottom, seriously I so wanted him in my ass; I regret every word I said... everything seems like begging now... I dont know why but I got really mad when he wanted to fuck me with a condom... I was like ''Bro, you didnt have problem fucking that girl raw'' and a lot of pro-bareback stuff...
    I was so high maybe but now that I think about it... why is that prejudgement about man/man sex???... he told me the most crude way that gay man have more risks to get stds and shit, and he pulled his pants up saying he regret going that far with me,and since then we never talk. I was devastated... I've never have a problem having protected sex in the past, If I could go back in time I wouldnt ask him to fuck me unprotected.
    when it comes to girls the main concern is pregnancy... they can get the phill and you're free to plug and play, it annoys me why do we have to deal with the fear and repulsion of people?, like being gay is some steps closer to death
     
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    Maybe because he doesn't know you as you thought he knew u and your habits (maybe he thought u were so easy because u used to suck his dick and u both fucked a girl, also jerked off), and maybe he wasn't so into boys like u. Maybe he was thinking about Sh*t and how it could sh*ts his dick and get him some sexual issues, just saying...

    Get him back :) i think u two could work it out if u both talk. Good Luck and don't take it too personal, is bad.. i know u_u
     
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    Sex always requires a level of comfort between both partners, whether they're gay or straight. If one person wants to wear a condom or go bare and his or her partner disagrees and won't compromise, it's usually game over. My 2 cents.
     
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    I've never had sex with a condom so I'm not really sure how it goes or feels, but I have heard its highly recommend for anal sex(gay or straight) because of the bacteria in the anus.

    Even if the person "cleans" themselves really well, I would cover my stump before I hump some ones ass.

    Sorry to hear about that guy as well. Kinda sounded like an asshole.
     
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    I think I can add to this.first let me say I have bin lurking and loveing this site for a long time and,and I read alot of post to see if I had the same experiances or what I would do in those cases.Forgive me for waiting so long to post.But hear is a wise truth. back in the 80,s so many of us gay men died from aids as we no it was stagering (see quilt project) I was never big on leting strangers fuck me hoever I did get hiv in 1988 from a play buddy of mine and I,m undetectable since 1989. It is for your own good that you never ever let anyone fuck you without protection.And equally you should never fuck another with out a condom.period. It sadens me to see beautiful young people think that all they have to do is take a pill and all is cured.there are so many other deases out there besides hiv your life is not worth loosing for a quick fuck from a person who will fuck you and forget you (play song hit and run lover).Trust me I know. Treat your body as if it is a gift because it is. If they want you they have to play by your rules or not at all. In movies it might look hot but don't be sucked into someone elses Idea of hot sex just for a quick thrill.
    Hiv is up three fold in the young and riseing because of the porn And because they where not around to watch so many people we loved die. You have much to offer this world don't lose sight of that. And don't forget you control you gets your beautiful ass,don't give away your power. I hope this has helped you to understand.
    your friends and family would be lost with out you...Now go break some harts.
     
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    thank you man :..)
    Its sad safe sex is still just a main issue for gay comunity, and for straight... not that much.
    Some things I'l never understand
     
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    This^

    Dont be a fool wrap your tool. Repercussions are real.
     
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