Why Many Straight Men Here Are So Obsessed With Deciding Who Is Straight And Who Isn't ?

[nudebodybuilder]

Not that anybody asked me personally...but Whatever you are, live free and prosper. The older I get the less I give a damn...Cheers!

Ha, F'n well said. Life is to darn short.

 

[kanhak]

.Yes that's very true I know many guys like me who like nudity and erect guys but aren't interested in intimacy or sex. I wish men understood that looking at nude men and gay porn doesn't mean we want to have sex. I can never have sex with anyone but I can masturbate and I love videos like sharpshooter studio. You rightly nailed it about admieing male beauty. Wish there were more nude admiration groups and sailors or trips or clubs or islands but without sex. All we need is the right group. In Germany nude baths were common and it was amazing.

I think there is a misconception that being interested in cocks and male nudity and erection that you also lust for it sexually.
To me, it's pretty simple, though. Having a cock is a central part of who I am. Why shouldn't I be interested in others, their experience etc? And even acknowledge the sexual power of a cock or admire a big one? I still want to use my own cock sexually with women. However, I might add, my "strastraightness just as often questioned by gay guys with much the same idea. That if you are interested in cock related stuff, you are more or less automatically closet bi or gay.

but

 

[Thikn2velvet1]

There are those who choose to live within boxes that have labels… and then there are the rest of us!

Ok! So one’s sexuality is now a choice, and that validates the possibility that Gay Conversion Therapy can work!

SMH.

 

[Thikn2velvet1]

Too many bisexual men come onto this forum with the thinly disguised intent to try and imply that 100% straight men aren’t REALLY 100% straight, that sexuality is ALWAYS fluid, and that 100% straight men must have something wrong with them that they won’t give dick a try.

And you know what that implies to me? A lot of bisexual men aren’t really comfortable with themselves at all and feel the need to deflect their own confusion onto men who are absolutely comfortable with their 100% designation.

And most of the time the questions asked here are constructed from that perspective. I will
make up a fictional example of one of those fucked up questions: “When you are in the gym locker room and you get an erection watching other men naked in the shower, what do you do about it?” The questions are always asked from a bisexual point of view. And if we answer very plainly, “ We don’t get erections watching naked men,” we are told we must have something wrong with us, usually in a subtly framed manner.

How many 100% straight guys pose questions on the bisexual and gay forums? Damn few. We pose questions to WOMEN, because that is who we want to fuck and that is who gives us erections. We do not want to fuck men, we aren’t aroused by men, we aren’t judgmental of who you want to fuck, but somehow we aren’t just “ woke” enough about what is going on inside us and you bisexual men need to show us the way. It is fucking creepy that constant barrage of statements telling us we don’t know what is going on inside us. We do know and we are quite comfortable in our sexuality.

My question is why bisexual men are so confused about what is going on inside them that they need to conduct this desperate search for validation on a straight man forum? If you need validation of your feelings, ask other BISEXUAL men how they feel inside. You will get the right answers there, not here.

 

[RJ5on1]

Ok! So one’s sexuality is now a choice, and that validates the possibility that Gay Conversion Therapy can work!

SMH.

Aahhh, sorry Bro, you missed the point. The comment was, “…CHOOSE to LIVE WITHIN BOXES…” NOT choosing one’s sexuality.

 

[spaj8987]

Aahhh, sorry Bro, you missed the point. The comment was, “…CHOOSE to LIVE WITHIN BOXES…” NOT choosing one’s sexuality.

Doesn't that now invalidate everything you tried to say with your original comment? This topic is about bisexual, gay and straight men. Which are all labels people use to make things easier on themselves and others. You came in and said that labels are boxes in which people put themselves in. Meaning you were talking every last label in existence. Not just gay, straight or bi but man, woman, names, ownership, who has done what and so on.

And now you're saying it isn't about sexuality? So doesn't that now invalidate everything you were trying to say about this thread before?

 

[Thikn2velvet1]

Aahhh, sorry Bro, you missed the point. The comment was, “…CHOOSE to LIVE WITHIN BOXES…” NOT choosing one’s sexuality.

No , i got it right.

 

[figgnewton]

Some women, including one of my former fuck buddies, thinks just looking at this site makes you less than straight. So I'm not sure how good of a measure that is. And why would anyone care in the first place? So long as I got along with a girl, had a good sex life, and had a stable relationship; I really wouldn't care if she enjoyed looking at nice breasts or vagina and enjoyed talking about those things with other ladies.

I enjoy jacking with some of my friends and can appreciate a nice dick. But we've never had the urge to suck each other or penetrate each other. I also enjoy tag teaming girls with a friend. The attention is on her though and for my buddy and me it's just a good bonding experience. But some of the 100%'s seem to only come around here to judge others. Even though the behavior of others takes nothing away from their own life. Usually that is a sign of some sort of insecurity.

I know a married couple who have been together for years who are swingers. Plenty of people would look down on them. But if it works them, I think it's great. They are happy. I know so many married people that are unhappy. A mstuff here LEAVE.arried friend from college said he is lucky if he gets sex once a month. All his wife does is shop and doesn't pay him any attention. That's not a healthy marriage but the 100%'s seem to think that's the way life should be. If that's what you want, go for it.

I don't want to get old and think about what might have been if I hadn't stayed with the same woman in a loveless marriage just because that's what society thinks is correct. I've never obsessed over one girl. I think it's insane when incompatible people keep trying to make their relationship work. There are too many people on the world to get stuck on just one person. Nope, I'd rather grow old knowing I had a lot of fun.

So true on what you say. I don't oppose any ones life style or percentage of there sexuality. I'm sure there are many men and woman listed here are very discreet on there real life sexuality because of yesteryears morality. Time does change everything BUT it takes time. Sex is a big hang up for some ( many ) but the pendulum swings and norms change.Look at sexuality now, you can speak on this site openly or in person show that you are bi, gay ,lesbian or what ever pronoun. If you don't like seeing stuff here LEAVE !I mean this is LPSG... support group. Just saying.

 

[figgnewton]

So true on what you say. I don't oppose any ones life style or percentage of there sexuality. I'm sure there are many men and woman listed here are very discreet on there real life sexuality because of yesteryears morality. Time does change everything BUT it takes time. Sex is a big hang up for some ( many ) but the pendulum swings and norms change.Look at sexuality now, you can speak on this site openly or in person show that you are bi, gay ,lesbian or what ever pronoun. If you don't like seeing stuff here LEAVE !I mean this is LPSG... support group. Just saying.

Lastly i enjoy reading the threads on here so am i gay or bi now? I'm like most ,100% curious like most things in life.

 

[1T1U1F1F1Y]

For one there is this.Questions We Never Ask Each Other




Everyone else already hit the nail on the head. But why do men here constantly ask question that are either about straight men doing things that are not thing that straight men would ever do? The thread Lafemme made can be applied to here just replace women with straight men.

I can't fathom why a 100% straight would ever need to join a 'dick' forum populated primarily with men and penises and cock.

 

[ronin001]

I can't fathom why a 100% straight would ever need to join a 'dick' forum populated primarily with men and penises and cock.

It is a huge site, that is not entirely dictated by penis and cock. I also think that the word Need , is a little strong in its use. Need implies to require essentially / have to a compulsion. A 100% straight man can get a lot of fun out of this site . I have heard the rhetorical quote about why are you here if you do not like Cock, over and over. I think I may scream, the next time I see it used here. Throw in the female members who may not have penises; but still find ways to enjoy themselves here so no penis is even necessary to be a member or enjoy the site ..

I have found that there are some great people here. Gay, Bi, Trans, Straight, Str8t, closeted and everything in-between

Conflict often comes when members do not respect each others boundaries. Trying to convince a LPSG woman that she must want to see your dick, because she is a member of a dick site, rates pretty much on the same scale as telling a Straight guy that he must want his penis sucked by a male because he is a member of LPSG.

Please note this is just my opinion, it is in no way absolute fact, yet contrary to the OPs post, I do indeed have the right to post my non inflammatory opinions, now and again. At least till The Administrators / Mods tell me differently

Best Wishes, to the good people of LPSG

Ro

 

[1T1U1F1F1Y]

It is a huge site, that is not entirely dictated by penis and cock. I also think that the word Need , is a little strong in its use. Need implies to require essentially / have to a compulsion. A 100% straight man can get a lot of fun out of this site . I have heard the rhetorical quote about why are you here if you do not like Cock, over and over. I think I may scream, the next time I see it used here. Throw in the female members who may not have penises; but still find ways to enjoy themselves here so no penis is even necessary to be a member or enjoy the site ..

I have found that there are some great people here. Gay, Bi, Trans, Straight, Str8t, closeted and everything in-between

Conflict often comes when members do not respect each others boundaries. Trying to convince a LPSG woman that she must want to see your dick, because she is a member of a dick site, rates pretty much on the same scale as telling a Straight guy that he must want his penis sucked by a male because he is a member of LPSG.

Please note this is just my opinion, it is in no way absolute fact, yet contrary to the OPs post, I do indeed have the right to post my non inflammatory opinions, now and again. At least till The Administrators / Mods tell me differently

Best Wishes, to the good people of LPSG

Ro

What you stated makes no sense. Why would anybody who was totally 100% straight even consider joining up to and being a committed member to a site based upon and named after a gentalia they aren't attracted to or have any interest in.

I'm 100% gay therefore it wouldn't ever cross my mind to want to or indeed join a forum based upon vaginas. Although I appreciate not everyone comes here solely for dicks and pictures of penises it does beg many a question.

I'm not buying it.

 

[Hatt_101]

I can't fathom why a 100% straight would ever need to join a 'dick' forum populated primarily with men and penises and cock.

It has been explained numerous times before by multiple people on this site if you can't find the answer that's your problem.
Look at the name of the site and that might help you understand why straight men would use it coupled with the fact that there are women that are members as well. And seeing as you've been a member since 2008 I don't know how you haven't come across the answer before.

 

[cofrader]

What you stated makes no sense. Why would anybody who was totally 100% straight even consider joining up to and being a committed member to a site based upon and named after a gentalia they aren't attracted to or have any interest in.

I'm 100% gay therefore it wouldn't ever cross my mind to want to or indeed join a forum based upon vaginas. Although I appreciate not everyone comes here solely for dicks and pictures of penises it does beg many a question.

I'm not buying it.

You are not straight! In your face all the other obsessed straight guys.

This is ask straight men so only straight men and the op can answer.

The reason are many, you should try to put yourself on the other person shoes to understand them.
Ahab, a whaler and a ecologist can be interested on the white whale but not necessarily for the same reason.

Your question it has been asked before, this was the last time it was asked:
100 percent straights - why are you here?

 

[1T1U1F1F1Y]

Your question it has been asked before, this was the last time it was asked:
100 percent straights - why are you here?

So I clicked on the link you posted. The first guy can't seem to figure out why he a 'totally 100% straight male' is on this site and appears to be complaining about and I quote: "It is a battle as nearly every thread has Gay or homoerotic overtones. Cock lovers rule here."

Cock lovers rule here! Well gee, I wonder why. It's not like the whole website is geared towards penises and it can be argued that no one loves penis more than gay men!

I'm not trying to argue that all men on this site are a little gay. I'm trying to understand the psychology of why a totally straight man would feel compelled to join a site like this. The internet has millions of forums to join up to with absolutely no homoerotic overtones/undertones.

 

[cofrader]

Great you will rock on maths you can make a rule with a sample of 1. It’s pointless argue with you @1T1U1F1F1Y

 

[ronin001]

Kind of like the opposite of a Straight guy, telling a gay guy not to live in his neighbourhood, because it is family orientated. Or a straight guy telling a Bi - Gay guy you should not be a policeman / soldier because of your sexual preference
Telling straight men they pretty much do not belong here, is so 1950 thinking. I would have hoped that we were more evolved that this by now

I can by color , cut, fabric and by season pick out clothes, I hope that counts sufficiently to be a member and not be judged

 

[deleted5591641]

I can't fathom why a 100% straight would ever need to join a 'dick' forum populated primarily with men and penises and cock.

They are closeted and it's their way to vent their internalized homophobia. It's funny how they are so "straight" yet they come running to interact in these kind of posts to preach what real heterosexuality is, again, and again, and again. Real straight guys don't give a flying f*ck about anyone else sexual orientation and they would be sick to death to discuss this topic, so they would rather ignore the OP, not visit the "Ask a Straight Man" Forum because they'd know by know they'll constantly get gay-daring questions, or they would right-away delete their accounts here. But they stay! Because ... because ... because they fantasize about and love other men's cocks. They have free porn and their own cock at home. If they were 100% straight as they say, no need to be here IMO.

 

[deleted716371]

They are closeted and it's their way to vent their internalized homophobia. It's funny how they are so "straight" yet they come running to interact in these kind of posts to preach what real heterosexuality is, again, and again, and again. Real straight guys don't give a flying f*ck about anyone else sexual orientation and they would be sick to death to discuss this topic, so they would rather ignore the OP, not visit the "Ask a Straight Man" Forum because they'd know by know they'll constantly get gay-daring questions, or they would right-away delete their accounts here. But they stay! Because ... because ... because they fantasize about and love other men's cocks. They have free porn and their own cock at home. If they were 100% straight as they say, no need to be here IMO.

I would say most men, straight or gay, are very preoccupied with having a cock. It's our most treasured possession and we worry about how we compare, how it looks, works etc. But it's also taboo to talk about. Why is it so strange that men come here to explore? You don't have to want to have sex with a cock to be interested and fascinated by them.

 

[Sagittarius84]

It's strange because when you are part of a marginalized group, it's comforting to portray the archetypes of one's detractors as somehow jealous. Its empowering to imagine straight men as closeted cowards than as peers with valid opinions.