rainsfletcher: I've been reading through the last 4 or 5 topics, and it seems like much of it is devoted to being gay or having gay sex. This is fine with me, it's actually interesting to me as a streight guy. As I was reading them, a couple of events came to mind, and I thought I'd share one of them with you. First, as you know, I am in San Francisco 4 days a week on business. I was at the bar at SFO a few months ago, and a I hear two gay guys talking at the table right behind me. I have NO idea if this is stupid or valid or somewhere in between, but they were essentially talking about why men are gay. They said there are really only 2 reasons: 1. They are romantically attracted to men as opposed to women. 2. They are not romantically attracted to men, but love sex and are fed up with the women's shit. I am not trying to perpetuate some stereotypes. I sincerely doubt it's even valid, but I thought this was interesting because it came from a gay man.