I found this website by accident...and it's interesting.... And now I have a problem that bugs me, and appreicate your opinions.... I met my bf a year and half ago and our sex was so intense and amazing. He makes me came everytime either with his skillful tongue or his huge cock. We would try different positions and he surprises me all the time. The problem was he doesn't like to use condom, and I was not on pills for some reasons. I guess I let him did it because we are crazy about each other and the awesome sex we have just blow my mind and overshadows everything. But he would pull his dick out everytime before he came. We are in an exclusive relationship but he told me he has a couple girlfriends before. Then I started to get worried later because I knew we are not ready for baby, and I don't want to catch any diseases. So I started to ask him to use it. At first he would do it to please me. But everytime we would have a long foreplay and he would get real hard, enter me and thust a few times before he put his condom on. However, later on he fell back to his old habit again. Sometime he said he will wear it but after a few thrusts, he pulled out and cum on me already, which pissed me off. I've asked him why he wouldn't/doesn't like to use condom but he said of course he would use it and joked it off. I am really confused and I find him very irresponsible. Ladies and gens, here are my questions and I appreciate your opinions : 1) any ladies have encountered the same situation as mine before? how did you deal with it, except kick him out of bed because I just couldn't resist him... (I am weak and hopeless I know) 2) when will you/your partner usually put on the condom during sex? before the first penetration or after a few thusts and just before cum? I knew that small amount of semens can exist in the precum ejaculation which can lead to pregency but I just wonder how other people do it? 3) why do you think he doesn't like to use the condom, knowing the fact that I am not on pills and he certainly didn't want to be a father yet? What was he thinking????! Anyway, thank god i'm not pregnant or anything but i've learnt my lesson and i swear i will insist him or my future bf to use condom everytime from now on.